How to get over girlfriends huge past?

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I am not judging her or saying bad things to her. She had a wild past and I do respect her body her choice kinda stuff. But still I can’t get over the fact in my mind and felling like a loser. Perhaps people will say she has chosen you apart from them but she had also chosen all of those men before and probably said the same to them as me.
Some actual good suggestions rather than” get over it “, or” it’s not my business” can be helpful...

pragmatik · Accepted Answer

You didn't mention whether you have a past. Because is that is the case, all that applies to you too.

If she is the first girl you had sex with. Then, yes, I understand it sucks thinking that whatever she is doing in bed with you she did that before with the other guys. And what is worse, thinking about what she may have done with them but not with you. Yet, there is no way to change the past.

You stop thinking about it or you break up and find some other girl. If she is your first, the next one won't be your first.

exitseven · Accepted Answer

You should not feel like a loser. It is much easier for girls to rack up a big body count than it is for guys. Think that maybe she has matured and realizes that hooking up with different guys all the time will not make her happy and she wants to be with you.
I can imagine this is difficult but give it an honest try and where where it goes.

higheredge274884 · Answer

I have felt the same way before and it was too hard for me to even start a relationship at that point so I feel you. I don’t really know a way to get over it. I guess it depends, I felt it and was kinda right that she was still not ready to commit, maybe your gut feeling there is telling u something too.

disgustingweebtrash · Answer

she's probably hella insecure about it but it's still her sin to bear. There is no way of making you feel better since this is kinda normal even if you dont like it its just a case of accepting how things are or finding someone else since it's better to be single than in a relationship where you're unsure

TedBundysghost · Answer

You answered it for yourself. you clearly said that YOU cannot get over her past... nobody else can fix this for you. Life is too short... move on and let her do the same