Girls my age talk to boys on a regular basis and I don’t because I don’t hit them up and they don’t hit me up?

[NickiMinajAtVEVO]

😔😩

[Ghostykill3r]

Ok? Is that a problem? Do you want to talk to guys? What's the issue here? If you want to talk to guys and they aren't talking to you first, make the first move, or at least be flirty or something to catch their attention. If you don't want to talk to guys then it doesn't matter if your friends are, that's all up to you.

[TheOracle10]

I "hit up" plenty of women my age, I just stop talking to them if they don't respond the way I like, if a woman messaged me first, I would immediately assess her motives. I usually only hit up attractive women though, if you aren't attractive or are overweight, try to fix these.

[Browneye57]

What exactly does 'hit you up' mean to you?
If you don't talk to people that's your choice. Quit making excuses.

Social skills are learned. And love can't start till attraction does, and then there needs to be a conversation.

[Alejandro3000]

It could me anything. However my first assumption is that you're really attractive and therefore intimidating so guys go for the average girls they feel confident with.

[Ducky456]

Eh fair, some gals do and some gals don't.
Not something you should fret about. Lol

[Ducky456]

Oop nvm forgot what I said

[monstertruckgamer393]

nice answer

[slatyb]

If you started to them, some of them might hit you up.

[LoveIsFake]

We on the same boat. Guys talk to girls every day and I can't hit them up or they don't hit me up. Sooo you wanna talk?

[devmann]

You are so similar to me. Guys of my age are into girl and i don't talk to girls. cause of lack of confidence and hesitate to talk.

[Ducky456]

Lol I relate to this hard.

[Red_Arrow]

Are you wanting guys to show more interest in you?

[jspl90]

give me your number and i will hit you up😉🤣

[Yourfriend2021]

Try starting to talk to them if you want to.

[Nachowedgie]

So take the initiative

[Jaredsmith]

Are u tubby