How come girls don't hit on me?

[Anonymous]

I'm good looking enough, I'm 6'1" 175lb and have a very good physique, no acne, clear face at all times, I'm smart enough, and I'm a good person who loves and cares a whole lot, but that's another story, I just don't know why girls don't hit on me, or do they even do that?

[Terdog]

You're going to have to make the moves. It is like hitting the lottery if a girl makes a move on you. You just have to get over the fear of rejection. Nothing ventured, nothing gained. The more you try, the better you will get at what works and what doesn't. It's best if you can work with a friend who has it figured out, or watch guys that are doing well at it and mimic what they do.

And work on building your confidence. If you look good, feel good, then show it. Confidence will allow you to be more successful at approaching women and be more successful at making inroads to getting to know them. Just be yourself and have fun at it.

[Asker]

I agree, it's just not fair, sexes aren't equal.

[thefaint84]

Its because girls think they are SUPREME and also they keep telling themselves ryan seacrests' or robert pattinsons' twin is out there searching for them when there are nice guys all around them (excluding the psychos) . Really, they show themselves off but give nothing in return. Teases...

[wicksjm]

Not sure, how you approach women but because you are the male, it's generally your responsibility to hit on a woman. Us women love funny guys. If you have a joke then by all means, tell it and smile and have personality with it. The way a woman hits on a man is much different then when a man hits on a woman. We give a coy smile, when we laugh we may touch your arm or hand. But if we are looking at you and/or smiling, most likely we are already hitting on you. It's up to you to make the first move. So, you never know. Women just may be hitting you but maybe you don't notice.

[Asker]

Nice.

[Newbiestewie]

Nom you're wrong. A girl is suppose to come up to a guy and say"youre hot whats yout name" at least. I just think women should step it up to hitting on guys. It use to be a dominant to submissiveness. But now since then. Modern days is influencing women to become more independent so they won't be told by a man. I dont blame them I dont like being told by the man. Just seems finally now that women are getting what they wany sort of that they dont care about men except for having our babies. Im between 18-36 years old. And in this age bracket I've experience multiple times that women typically take out their anger towards woman rights on me and I have never done anything to makd them have less. Its like automatic that women want to be better than you and its the mans fault that they cany achieve it. Young adults scare me. They take something from the pasy and punish people in the present for it. Instead of taking cate of modern s. Young adults are stuck on past problems.

[Newbiestewie]

In the end I feel like the modern femald popluation should takr it easy on men who are younger than 1970. Or at least for the guud who were in modern school teachin us about rights. In school they taught us that everyone has the same rights. So I wad never exposed to it. Except o notice men from other countries can be sexist. Because some countries havr third world towns. But for American men at least whove been made after womonism. I mean guys can be messed up to women still. I mean women are still going to be abused. Anyway. Im sure a lady sees an attractive man but what its like what they are thinking is.. get outta my way or stop blocking me view. I think it depends where you live. In cali and vegas I got hit on. In coloradom not so much

[IStarrr]

I agree, it's not our job to hit on guys and personally, I find it attractive when a guy takes initiative. It shows his confidence (even if he is faking it!).

Girls probably give out subtle signs, like smiling and glancing at you, but you think they're just being friendly.

It's a numbers game. The more you try, the better you become. At the end of the day, if you only hit on 10 women and 9 of them reject you, it hurts, but if you hit on 50 and 10 of them say "yes, I'd like to go out" you won't even think about the rest. Good luck!

[Takkunlee]

Maybe you're just intimidating? Girls have the same rejection fears as men do. But a lot of women expect the men to come to them. Do you not hit on women or would you just like them to hit on you for a change?

[Asker]

Because I'm scared of rejection... lol.

but yes, I would like it if women hit on me.

[Takkunlee]

Well you should just try it. Rejection is inevitable unfortunately but I'm sure if you just brush yourself off and try again you're bound to find a winner. As far as women hitting on you, it may happen or may never sorry to say. A lot of women still believe that men should do the chasing. Hopefully you find the rare chaser though.

[Voleskymesky]

I have no clue. When I was younger, mid 20's or so, random women hit on me, dated me, flirted with me and slept with me. Not all the time mind, but often enough that I realized that I actually didn't DO anything to trigger this behavior from them at all. Being 36 now, I'm starting understand that because I used to go out to bars, drink and smoke, I had "bar" friends which made me look more appealing to other women. Their is a social hierarchy that you have to participate in in order for women to feel "safe" or have an interest based on the proximity of other social circles a. k. a. people they know you know. I literally don't do anything these days and many of my nights (including weekends) are spent at home doing quiet hobbies. I totally cleaned up, stopped the smoking and stopped hanging out with anyone. Suddenly- women didn't really want anything to do with me! Surprise! I also don't seek out anything with women due to personal issues now. They aren't rewarding at this stage of life for me and require more money than I have right now. So even if you're "good looking," this comes down to a social thing. Your bubble has to be in their bubble in order for them to feel safe approaching you or asking things about you. Then again, when I worked in retail I dated several women, when I left those opportunities dried up. Other parts of the country have women who are MUCH more forward, so it could always have something to do with that as well.

[TimePhantom]

You need to drop the mentality that girls will come to you. You need to go and approach girls, and try to hit on them. It doesn't matter how good looking you are.

[propetuallysingle]

Im sick of this its the mans job to come on to HER! Thats bull you wanted equal rights well it goes both ways then. Woman up and ask a guy out today!

[Anonymous]

Thats your job not theirs..

[thefaint84]

Its because girls think they are SUPREME and also they keep telling themselves ryan seacrests' or robert pattinsons' twin is out there searching for them when there are nice guys all around them (excluding the psychos) . Really, they show themselves off but give nothing in return. Teases...

[Anonymous]

Because Your Ugly.