Girls, do girls like getting hit on at a bar?

[Anonymous]

Just curious do girls hate or like when guys come up to them at a bar or club

[Anonymous]

A bar is good so long as he's not drunk - I'd expect he would have had a couple of drinks but I expect him to be able to hold a conversation and be respectful.
I think when hitting on a girl it's best to become good at reading body language - if she looks interested (smiling, strong eye contact, asks you questions to keep you talking) then stay longer, if she doesn't then keep the discussion friendly and "short and sweet".

[Opinion Owner]

Thanks for MHO :-)

[MaisGem21]

Personally, I don't mind it but where I live there are usually loads of men in their late 30's in bars trying to hit on the newly 18's... I had a 38 year old hitting on me (he smelled and had loads of missing teeth) and said to me "if you want to be friends that's fine, if you want to be something more that's fine too" and I just had to leave.

[PonyCar]

I no longer go to bars (partially because of this exact situation), because I find them to be filled with people who have ZERO idea how to take social queues, especially when drunk. Sometimes I just want to have a drink then go home. I don't want to be bothered (and some people just don't get that).

[nathalieverria]

If he's cute, then of course there is some mutual attraction going on and why not have some chitchat. However, when we're not into you, don't PUSH. This is the most annoying thing in the world. Ruins the night.

[Asker]

Lol fair enough I don't like going to clubs but I was just curious what girls think when guys hit on them

[Poppykate]

Yes, of course! It is great for the self esteem. Plus if you don't like the guy, you can always make up an exercise like 1. I have a boyfriend, 2. I am gay or if he is really pissing you off 3. I am recovering from a STI.

[AnggieGirl]

I like to go to a bar for a few beers. But i avoid going because when women go to a bar its often portraid that they are there to get a guy. Its not easy for a women to just to go the bar. Sucks lol

[Asker]

Ya I guess that is unfortunate because I can go to a bar with the guys and hang out or try hitting on a girl it's my choice... but you don't have the choice of guys not hitting on you, I feel ya

[chickenlegs_14]

I usually like it as long as the guy isn't being creepy. I had one guy try to put his hands up my skirt once. I did not like that. If the guy isn't too handy then I enjoy it. :)

[BubblyMaria]

It's fine lol but I won't take him seriously because I'll feel like he's trying to get it in lol so usually I don't reciprocate at bars to avoid wasting anyone's time.

[LittleSally]

I'm not really that much of a bar fly...
I only go for coffee mostly.

If I think a guy is cute and he isn't drunk and didn't approach me with a ridiculous pick up line, then it's fine.

[SuperPerve]

I love it as long as they oddest cross that line from friendly pickup attempt to aggressive/inappropriate or annoying :)

[Asker]

Hmm I get this feeling women are more okay with men approaching except in Vancouver, Canada where I live 😂

[linkywinky]

The only bars I go to are Polish clubs and they're filled with crusty old men. So, uh, I don't get hit on at bars.

[Anonymous]

If they are obviously interrupting... then I know to dismiss someone more centered on themselves than I am to them
If we look bored, needing entertainment & they provide it in conversation or dancing, then OK... for now