Girls, do girls like getting hit on at a bar?

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Just curious do girls hate or like when guys come up to them at a bar or club

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

A bar is good so long as he's not drunk - I'd expect he would have had a couple of drinks but I expect him to be able to hold a conversation and be respectful.
I think when hitting on a girl it's best to become good at reading body language - if she looks interested (smiling, strong eye contact, asks you questions to keep you talking) then stay longer, if she doesn't then keep the discussion friendly and "short and sweet".

MaisGem21 · Accepted Answer

Personally, I don't mind it but where I live there are usually loads of men in their late 30's in bars trying to hit on the newly 18's... I had a 38 year old hitting on me (he smelled and had loads of missing teeth) and said to me "if you want to be friends that's fine, if you want to be something more that's fine too" and I just had to leave.

PonyCar · Answer

I no longer go to bars (partially because of this exact situation), because I find them to be filled with people who have ZERO idea how to take social queues, especially when drunk. Sometimes I just want to have a drink then go home. I don't want to be bothered (and some people just don't get that).

nathalieverria · Answer

If he's cute, then of course there is some mutual attraction going on and why not have some chitchat. However, when we're not into you, don't PUSH. This is the most annoying thing in the world. Ruins the night.

Poppykate · Answer

Yes, of course! It is great for the self esteem. Plus if you don't like the guy, you can always make up an exercise like 1. I have a boyfriend, 2. I am gay or if he is really pissing you off 3. I am recovering from a STI.

AnggieGirl · Answer

I like to go to a bar for a few beers. But i avoid going because when women go to a bar its often portraid that they are there to get a guy. Its not easy for a women to just to go the bar. Sucks lol

chickenlegs_14 · Answer

I usually like it as long as the guy isn't being creepy. I had one guy try to put his hands up my skirt once. I did not like that. If the guy isn't too handy then I enjoy it. :)

BubblyMaria · Answer

It's fine lol but I won't take him seriously because I'll feel like he's trying to get it in lol so usually I don't reciprocate at bars to avoid wasting anyone's time.

LittleSally · Answer

I'm not really that much of a bar fly... I only go for coffee mostly. If I think a guy is cute and he isn't drunk and didn't approach me with a ridiculous pick up line, then it's fine.

SuperPerve · Answer

I love it as long as they oddest cross that line from friendly pickup attempt to aggressive/inappropriate or annoying :)

linkywinky · Answer

The only bars I go to are Polish clubs and they're filled with crusty old men. So, uh, I don't get hit on at bars.

Anonymous · Answer

If they are obviously interrupting... then I know to dismiss someone more centered on themselves than I am to them
If we look bored, needing entertainment & they provide it in conversation or dancing, then OK... for now

Anonymous · Answer

I do not take guys serious when they approach in bars. It's hard to know the motives of strangers, so I prefer to date people who I somewhat already know, like male friends, coworkers, church friends, classmates

Anonymous · Answer

I've been hit on at a bar by a few guys before and sometimes I just think they're after a booty call. I've only ever had one really drunk guy hit on me and it kinda put me off.

gra33hopper · Answer

It's either sweet or creepy... it depends on how the guy does it

Anonymous · Answer

I went to a club and waited at a bar with my friends. I didn't like the drunk guys hitting on me, since I don't drink and they were sloppy.

Anonymous · Answer

Kinda depends on the guy and how he does it, but it's usually flattering.

Anonymous · Answer

No, not usually... The only time i really go to bars is after work for a quick drink before heading home and by that time i just dont feel like dealing with guys :P

xxpetite · Answer

It depends on the approach of the guy like if he was to cocky or to drunk and a pervert its a big no no but if he approached you nicely then it would be ok

Anonymous · Answer

i dont go to bars but any girl would be flattered at least a tiny bit

Anonymous · Answer

I usually do if the guy is not too forceful or unpleasant.

Ellefalling · Answer

I've never been to a bar but as long as he's a nice guy that's good!

Anonymous · Answer

not really sometimes i think they are bad boys but its still ok if they approach as friends.

Lilbite · Answer

No, well maybe eye sex if I'm drunk. Beer sun glasses.

Anonymous · Answer

Nope, I want a drink and if I really was interested in you (human hitting on me) I’d be the one making that move.

sammy_31 · Answer

I don't go to bars.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm fine with it.

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