Why if height matters so much for male atractiveness people never give advice on how to be taller and thus more attractive?

[volkmi234]

I am talking PHYSICALLY not about confidence, money or others. Women are always going to have a preference for height, there are thousands of post about that, you can ask any woman. So I don't understand, if height= attractiveness why there is no advice about it or people don't recommend surgeries, shoe lifts, hairstyles, etc.

It's also funny because height matters for women but not for men, men are not going to choose an ugly woman just because she is shorter than them vs a pretty tall girl

[MCheetah]

People never give advice regarding height because A) they either don't know what advice to give about it (and other than leg surgery, there's no way to make yourself taller, sadly) and B) women aren't going to like you all of a sudden if you go from 5'10" to 6'2". The ship has already sailed.

Believe me; as someone who f*cking LOATHES and DESPISES his sh*tty-beyond-belief height ("too short for women, but not short enough to complain since 5'4" guys exist," apparently), I know exactly how you feel in feeling frustrated about it all. So here's the only advice I an give you.

F*ck those women. Not literally. Metaphorically. If women think you're inferior and unworthy of their time or attention due to your lack of tallness (which believe me, I know), then there is literally NOTHING you can do about it. I know this is one of the hardest things to hear, but you have to move on with your life. And also learn to thank these women for saving you time and headaches. Just look at all the dudes on this site who DO pass the "six foot minimum" cutoff and end up being married, and later divorced, because they ended up with bitches who wouldn't have chose them if they were 5'11" or under.

I know you'll feel bitter about it if you're in the "female" height range of 5'0" to 5'11", but you shouldn't become bitter of all women just because they happen to want big, tall, attractive men. I mean, we all have our desires out there. Even though it SUCKS, you can't fault women for not wanting to be with a man the same size as they are. That's why you shouldn't give up on women entirely. Shoot your shot with the ones who might give you a chance anyway. Technically, only 96% of straight women want tall men; meaning 4% of them ARE willing to date a guy same height or shorter. @JosyJosy is one woman like that who exists; but she's rare. I know another girl who's super tall and she said she'd date shorter, too. Ironically, most of these women willing to date short guys like us are tall themselves.

So that is the ultimate secret you must learn, Padawon. Stop living life for these women, and instead, learn to be more comfortable with yourself (in the ways you can be.) Some things you may never learn to fully be comfortable with (I sure as hell will never like being a manlet). But you need to start living life for YOURSELF and not FOR WOMEN. Ironically, women want men who need or want them the least. The more independent and confident a man is, the more a woman will want to come in to f*ck his perfect life up, LOL!

I'm a sub-six-footer, like you are, and I'm a former hopeless romantic as well, so that's the best advice I can give. Accept reality, but don't completely give up hope, yet. Good luck to you, short-king.

[MCheetah]

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[zagor]

Have a healthy diet as a child to achieve your full height. Other than that, genetics, so nothing to do. I suppose hairstyle and shoes might help a little.

[JosyJosy]

It matters a little, but he doesn't have to be taller. My height would be perfect, bit shorter or bit taller doesn't matter

[Blackcupcake]

Height does not equal attractiveness, there’s so much more to it

[tatianamay]

idc about height. He should be taller than me (im 5'1) i usually only see the face and personality

[MCheetah]

Your comment is a complete contradiction, though. If you were 5'8" and 6'0" in heels, you would be rejecting 80% of men out there based on that same logic of "he needs to be taller than me." The only difference between you and other women is that 99% of men aren't going to be 5'1" or shorter. But the typical woman where I'm from is 5'6" barefoot and 5'10" in heels. So you DO care about height, just like every other girl out there. You just happen to be really short.

[tatianamay]

I do care about height, but I don't wear heels, I never would, and I don't think I'll grow much, and obviously most guys are taller than 5'1' so i don't see any problem there

[Bray77]

same here.. and ass for sure