Why does my BFF ‘steal’ the boys I like?

[Anonymous]

Every guy I have dated or talked to, or even like, my best friend tries to get their attention once she finds out who they are. She also tries telling me they don’t like me and they like her instead. Why does she do this and what can I do about this?

[natured]

That's pretty unfair, I think next time you're dating someone, don't tell her... let it be a surprise... and before you introduce your man to her, tell him all about it, tell him that she does this and prevent it from happening.
She is not a friend if she does this anyways, she just doesn't want you to have them and might even be jealous of you...
But don't allow it anymore, if she goes on, tell her that it's not cute and that she should grow tf up... BE DOMINANT HERE HUN !!! Don't let no on steal your man ever !!!

[Asker]

thanks hun. Yeah she’s always told me guys weren’t interested in me or tried to rub it in my face. I think she’s just insecure so wants me to feel bad. I want to confront her but don’t know how to do it without looking like I feel threatened by her!!

[natured]

I think you should just keep it to yourself, that's more than enough, then wen you start officially dating someone, don't introduce him to her until things get more stable, so she won't be able to snap guys away from you...

[Asker]

Thank you thanks good advice xx

[Asker]

That’s

[Anonymous]

What kind of an bff is this? I guess you don't even understand the meaning of a bff yourself too how could you call the bitch as ya bff when all she does is ruining your happiness?


Get a new bff !

[Asker]

Yeah I don’t know why I put up with it tbh

[Opinion Owner]

Confront her and leave.. this is a toxic friendship which is bad

[Asker]

How would I confront her? She says she’s not flirting with them when she is.

[Bklynbadboy12]

She's not a real friend a real friend wouldn't do that to you

[Bklynbadboy12]

Thanks for the MHO

[boggboss]

Why is she even your friend

[Asker]

I don’t know tbh

[boggboss]

So if u don't know sounds like u need to sort this out

[havingfun101]

She's hotter?

[Asker]

She’s not hotter I’m considered hotter than her

[havingfun101]

Then why aren't you stealing her crushes? I don't think that word means what you think it means.

[Asker]

Because I don’t go after the men she likes? But she goes after the guys I like or am dating

[havingfun101]

So... she is hotter, then.

[Asker]

I don’t quite understand your logic, sir. 😂 but thanks for answering anyway

[havingfun101]

Second fiddle is okay to play