Would you rather text one person or mutiple people in terms of dating?

[Anonymous]

Multiple people seems too much effort for me

One person

Multiple people

[natzz]

i catch feelings quickly so when i text multiple people, i dont focus on one person and if it doesn't work out outside the talking stage, it hurts less

[Asker]

I'm the same I get attached easily, so self protection. Same time it does get mentally draining

[Noahcepticeye]

If I have a girlfriend only her. But as far as finding a girlfriend I'll talk to all the girls in the world and narrow it down. Easier than one by one realizing oh wow she's not it and maybe you find a girl who you really like but there's that fomo of what if there's another.

[Leaver]

I don’t consider texting an essential part of dating.

[Espresso-Grande]

One person

I'd rather spent time and effort in getting to know just one guy.

Plus, If I like a guy , I want him to build trust in me. That won't happen if he finds out I'm texting multiple guys.

[JosyJosy]

One. Multiple is too chaotic

[Asker]

Even one can be chaotic, imagine mutiple 🤣

[JosyJosy]

Ikr!

[exitseven]

I usually dated one at a time.

[Asker]

Just more chill and it flows better

[exitseven]

yeah, there were a couple of exceptions.

[iamsafespace]

Multiple people

[Asker]

Explain on this, just for fun and incase one dies out you have other options?

[iamsafespace]

That’s one reason.

My main one is that I think the dating stage still falls under the getting-to-know phase so, you know— what’s the harm in getting to know a lot of people? We don’t have to end up together anyway.

[Asker]

Do you not feel a bit burned out talking about the same things with other people 😅 Just curious is all

[iamsafespace]

Not really! Cause in my experience, each individual guy has his own unique take on whatever topic’s at hand 😄 That kind of variety doesn’t really burn me out.