Every man needs to date multiple women at the same time until you start getting more serious like having sex. Then when you start having sex still date other but have sex with just one person at a time.
There is a concept that every man needs to understand and that is "Onenitus". The idea behind Oneitus is that when a man obsesses over one woman at a time he loses objectivity in recognizes red flags or flaws of character which could ruin things down the line.
The second reason is when a guy dates just one person he turns a woman off because the woman considers him desperate or less of a high value guy. A bad boy or high value guy has multiple women who want him. Women see this competition as an increase in attractiveness.
The third reason is that a man who has multiple dating offers will be less likely to be taken for granted by the woman. The woman knows that if she doesn't respect him or cancels dates or plays frigid then the man can just get what he wants from a different girl.
Lastly, the number one thing that turns off women is a guy obsessing over her and blowing up her phone. If you are dating one woman at a time you are most likely texting her all the time, saying good morning, talking to her so much that she gets bored with you.
Until she demands a commitment or things get serious... NEVER EVER date one girl. Be a high value guy! Have the ladies chase you! Dont be desperate.
Difficult enough to find one let alone multiple.
I did have a couple of dates with a couple of women from bumble after meeting girlfriend (met her on Bumble too). I wasn't sure if it had legs so was still looking for a few weeks.
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One. I don't think I can squeeze my time dating multiple people.
Dating multiple people seriously seems tiresome.
One person. Less confusion.
Yes, I like to keep my options open
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