Do you prefer to date multiple people all at once or just one at a time?

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Luv2BRealExotic13 · Accepted Answer

I like being polyandry. I would much prefer dating multiple people at once. I’m not a fan of dating one person at a time because not one person has the energy I need at that time. However a lot of people don’t work like that or don’t accept this in people like myself. I think it’s just a construct many people have adopted because they couldn’t handle doing something like that or some people who do this tend to practice it in a conniving way. Example, serial cheaters. Coupled with how selfish, egotistical, entitled, controlling and jealous many people it doesn’t really work. It shouldn’t matter if say I'm dating four guys in an exclusive relationship, I want them to know that the other exists in my life and to have some degree to care for the others but that’s too much evolution for a lot of people.

Cynicaldreamer · Accepted Answer

Please, I can barely get  one  guy interested in me, much less multiple guys! Haha. Joking aside, I prefer to date one guy at a time. That way I can focus on him, get to know him better, and see if he's the right guy for me.  Dating multiple people at once might seem like a fun idea, but how do you get to know each individual or know if you click with him or her, if you're too busy trying to juggle dates, remember names, or who said what to you?  No, I rather focus all my time and energy on one guy. If things don't work out, then go to the next guy.

DictumVeritas · Accepted Answer

Only ever date one woman, but always have a lady friend too. Women are strange creatures they don't respect a man if she knows she owns you and you are without options. Men are the exact opposite in that regard. We have no respect for a woman who has a backup. Isn't evolution strange?

Jjpayne · Accepted Answer

While on a dating app, more than once because you can go through girls until you find one you connect with but girls ask guys has taught me through many many many girls and guys, one at a time is the correct way to do it :)

White_Widow · Answer

One at the time, everyone deserves a fair chance. By dating multiple people at once, it wouldn't be fair to them and some would get passed along while I probably wouldn't even know them well enough to actually make that judgment.

Reaperbot666 · Answer

typically if I am in a official couple with someone then it would be one at a time.

but if we have not started calling each other spouse titles. then I might still see others on side. but I do at least tell the people I am seeing. that since we're not exclusive yet I might see a few others on the side. for a quick date here and there.

ecfresh · Answer

Prefer one at a time but have had busy weeks with more than one

ConfusedOfTheWorld · Answer

So what's the point of multiple dating? Apart the fact that you split your free time with too many people you spend too much power at a time, and what will you do if multiple of them will like you back? Either a hard time deciding or you'll leave them all due to stress

Adam1978 · Answer

In the beginning so you have more options and therefore pick the best match while still give everyone a chance. Keep dating multiple on the other hand would most likely be more trouble than it's worth.

TallAnon · Answer

Other, depends whether I find one I'm convinced I like!

Sensmind · Answer

If I am dating , it is only one at a time - It is a serious commitment to me

_gigi18 · Answer

I don't see a problem dating multiple people as long as all the people know you are seeing other people

crazy8000 · Answer

Prefer one at the time. Can't take someone seriously if they parallel date since it's direct sign of not being ready for anything serious even if they think they are.

Anonymous · Answer

I can only ever find o e girl at a time, if I find one at all.

Anonymous · Answer

You're either naturally a magnet in the love department or very attractive to make that kind of question.  I'm not that priviledged, I really dont know how can I get a date or be asked out.

rjroy3 · Answer

Multiple is the best in my experience, with varying degrees of seriousness.

pigoat · Answer

I highly doubt i will ever experience multiple people all  At once

Lily-bardot · Answer

I prefer one at a time but I have dated multiple people at the same time on occasion.

TommyFranco · Answer

I may see 2 girls at once before I make it offical with one. Because there's a high possiblity that one or both of them may loose interest anyway.

roland77 · Answer

I want to get to know her personally, not just knowing her name and age.

RHK36 · Answer

I'd like to try multiple dating, but my personality doesn't let me. So one at a time for me.

Redstang88 · Answer

Keeping one girl interested is enough stress, can’t imagine dealing with more than one

Nahid1707 · Answer

Honestly one, once i meet a girl i get along with, i am committed to her and all that important stuff

AlongCameCindy · Answer

One at a time, i would rather i enjoyed dating but in reality i'm looking for that one person, i cba to see multiple people its irritating..

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