When you date, do you date one person or multiple people?

[Anonymous]

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I been dating someone for 2 months and I seen him with some other girl dating. I feel hurt because I thought everything was going great with us and now I feel like an idiot. He did say in beginning we can date multiple people but I dont want to dont like that idea

[exitseven]

I would rather just date one person. I had a period of time when I dated several women at the same time. I treated them all badly. Some of these girls were bimbos but some were really nice. I regret this

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO

[horatiohornblower]

If you don't like the idea. You should make clear what you expect. If the guy doesn't agree. You end it.

[Asker]

Yes that was my mistake not speaking up

[kyleelyn199723]

Used to be multiple people for me, but I personally think dating multiple people is a disaster. Too many people to focus on and you don’t fully get to know any of them properly.

[Turtleneck22]

Right.

[PoopyPoop]

One at a time but not so much for ethical reasons. I like to pretend I'm ethical but really it's because I can't juggle that many names, birthdays, childhoods, etc, at one time. I'm not good at multi-tasking. I like to focus on one thing at a time with all my effort.

[PoopyPoop]

I had one friend long ago who was a master at juggling that way. He'd have a new date on Monday, another on Tuesday, another on Wednesday. He'd be dating like 14 girls at the same time. Wow! Then I was like, "How the hell do you even remember their names? I find it hard enough to remember even my date's name." And he has some memory trick for that like B for big boob like Bailey. But that's too hard for me to remember even with just one date like A for ass with Amy.

[PoopyPoop]

Plus my A for ass with Amy might not even work because I like a wide variety of asses and Amy might have a flat one (I like flatter ones, no problem). So it isn't really communicating what I like about her so specifically in a way that distinguishes her from other girls. So I find it too hard to remember every single girl if I'm multitasking this way. I'll put A for every girl because it's rare I don't like a girl's ass.

[TwistedSukuna]

I prefer dating just one. Don't really like the idea of dating multiple people at once

[Joshua0213]

One person, dont have time with work to date multiple tbh or id see each like once a month and that just feels like a waste

[Turtleneck22]

If I am in the sautéing scene yea I will see a few people. But once I find that connection is one person only.

[HighValue]

One like it should be.

[HighValue]

There is no way for a good monogamous person to be happy with a promiscuous person for long term. You need to find someone else.

[es20490446e]

One. More is confusion.

[ChiPaPa]

I'd only date one at a time.

[Iron_Man]

One person

[Relux47]

One is enough for me