Yes, every girl that has bedded me has asked me the same question. I don't like being little spoon, I don't like anything near my rear, it makes me feel unsettled. I also fart in my sleep so best to keep the Mrs away from the danger zone 😄. I am also quite a tall, broad shouldered and wrestler-build guy so I don't want to roll over and crush her in the middle of the night. On the flip, as alternatives I prefer the following positions.
I don't prefer being the big spoon, but I would do it if he asked. I normally date taller guys and I don't like awkwardly looking at his back and my arm has to be in a weird position. I also really enjoy being the little spoon. Most guys I have been with wanted to be the little spoon at least once and asked for it. I think many guys enjoy it.
I guess so, but since I barely reach 162cm and she's around 172-3, for me it's a bit uncomfortable to be big spoon - plus she prefers to take that role! Although given the heat of the recent nights, we don't spoon at all.
There are cold blooded humans inc. certain beds memory foam ones that climatise the bed. Obviously when you first sleep on it you will feel cold but then it's lovely.
Considering how I'm a 17, about to turn 18 year old male virgin, any cuddles with the girl I'm into would be a dream come true, regardless of whether I'm big or little spoon. Since I can be a bit of a sub though, I wouldn't not be opposed to being little spoon often with her though 😉
I love being the little spoon, when my boyfriend rolls over and wraps his arms around me I’m in heaven. Plus he kisses my “spot” on the back of my neck and I get all gooey. PLUS he likes to hold my boobs and I like that too.
I am the big spoon sometimes because he also enjoys being held.
But something about being the little gives you this feeling of security and that’s what I crave.
I'm a big fucking tattooed guy 6'8 and 215 lbs. If you can find someone to spoon me I'll give you a dollar.
It is nice having your head in her lap though as she's sitting on the couch and you come and drape across it so she can rub your hair. God can fall asleep like that.
Why do people think it's impossible to spoon someone bigger than you? 🤔 You don't physically have to be bigger than someone to be in the big spoon role
It just feels weirder though I'd imagine. Like I'd think the bigger person wouldn't really feel like they could be adequately held. I mean one of the whole reasons people like being held is the feeling of safety and security it provides to feel like someone can protect you. I generally like to be the one providing that feeling since I'm not really a boy anymore and I'm past the point of feeling it and I'm just in general larger, stronger and it makes more sense.
Having said all that, nothing gets me more melted and excited than putting my head in her lap and having my woman brush my hair, like I said. Now THAT's warmth and security.
I like being the little spoon so I can do the butt thing yk like the little wiggle lol plus I’ve always been quite I bit smaller then my boyfriend in the past sooo it just kinda naturally kinda happens. And it gives more options yk? Lol that’s just me tho
It depends on if it's summer time or winter time it depends on a lot of things I mean don't get me wrong as long as there's a touch that's fine by me but I think I would just get way too hot to warm and I would just kind of keep trying to inch away. I really hate saying that but if I get way too hot then I'm not even going to go to sleep , probably, or sleep very well but yes I would still do it
No I don't mind, sometimes i feel more comfortable being the big spoon, but we switch often. WELL NOW WITH THIS HOT WEATHER even with the AC on we don't care about spooning looool
As a man I don't like to be the little spoon it doesn't feel right to me. Being the big spoon makes me feel like I'm protecting her and keeping her safe which feels right to me.
Although I haven't been in a relationship or won't be for my entire lifetime so I don't think my preference really matters, but hypothetically it makes me feel good to know that I'm protecting her and caring for her.
Yes, and if there's a female lying next to me while sleeping in either type of spoon, that means something good probably happened before bedtime, and something good will probably happen again when we wake up. 😉👍😂
I don’t kind but since he’s almost a foot talker then me, it doesn’t really make sense in a way. Plus, I’m the one who’s always cold so it just works better that I’m the little spoon more often than not. 😜
Only if she is a right side sleeper. My left arm is damaged from a bike wreck and I can't sleep on that side ever again. Literally, I could lose the arm.
Im happy to switch. Im perfectly fine being the big spoon, it’s just like hugging them from behind when you’re standing. But it’s also nice to be the little spoon sometimes, im not fussed
I prefer being the big spoon so my junk is against her butt and my hands on her boobs lol. The other way her boobs smoosh against my back and I can't play with them 😭
I personally like being the big spoon but if I am laying there and my partner crawled in behind me and wrapped their arms around me then I am going to adjust to being the little spoon just fine
My wife and I fit perfectly together with her as little, her feet rests onto of mine, ĺegs and laps in parallel relationship to one anothers... but I loved it when she held me tight from behind as the big spoon as a random switch. It was precious.
I wouldn't one bit, no. Would find it... normal/appropriate (?)/organic (?) if it was done either way without much thinking (whoever needs their belly/back warmed up)
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