Women do you like being the big spoon?
Do you mind being the little spoon?
Women do you like being the big spoon?
Yes, every girl that has bedded me has asked me the same question. I don't like being little spoon, I don't like anything near my rear, it makes me feel unsettled. I also fart in my sleep so best to keep the Mrs away from the danger zone 😄. I am also quite a tall, broad shouldered and wrestler-build guy so I don't want to roll over and crush her in the middle of the night. On the flip, as alternatives I prefer the following positions.
When I am little spoon it’s usually because I’m having a lot of bad sleeps.
Being little spoon helps as I feel protected in my sleep.
It also means I tend to get very obviously clues as to my partner being awake and wanting to play….
but mainly for my mental health.
Totally agree it's just like a sight of relief to be held
Yeah i also gotta agree there. Reminds me of how when i was little and how my dad would calm me to sleep by sleeping next to me. 🥲
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I don't prefer being the big spoon, but I would do it if he asked. I normally date taller guys and I don't like awkwardly looking at his back and my arm has to be in a weird position. I also really enjoy being the little spoon. Most guys I have been with wanted to be the little spoon at least once and asked for it. I think many guys enjoy it.
My boyfriend and I are the same height, so both works and I don't have a preference.
Being the little spoon I feel like he's protecting me in a way, but what I don't like is that I am turned away from him.
When being the big spoon I just like that I'm hugging him.
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No, because given my height I can only be the little spoon! Would be weird if I tried to be big spoon.
Nah size doesn't matter at all
I guess so, but since I barely reach 162cm and she's around 172-3, for me it's a bit uncomfortable to be big spoon - plus she prefers to take that role!
Although given the heat of the recent nights, we don't spoon at all.
Yeah when my boyfriend and I spend the night together I'm almost tempted to sleep on the floor it's way too warm
I understand how that feels! We got climatisation but we rarely turn it on because it jumps up on our bills.
There are cold blooded humans inc. certain beds memory foam ones that climatise the bed. Obviously when you first sleep on it you will feel cold but then it's lovely.
There's no roles like that in my world. Just feel each other. Love each other. It's fluid.
Considering how I'm a 17, about to turn 18 year old male virgin, any cuddles with the girl I'm into would be a dream come true, regardless of whether I'm big or little spoon. Since I can be a bit of a sub though, I wouldn't not be opposed to being little spoon often with her though 😉
I love being the little spoon, when my boyfriend rolls over and wraps his arms around me I’m in heaven. Plus he kisses my “spot” on the back of my neck and I get all gooey. PLUS he likes to hold my boobs and I like that too.
I am the big spoon sometimes because he also enjoys being held.
But something about being the little gives you this feeling of security and that’s what I crave.
I'm a big fucking tattooed guy 6'8 and 215 lbs. If you can find someone to spoon me I'll give you a dollar.
It is nice having your head in her lap though as she's sitting on the couch and you come and drape across it so she can rub your hair. God can fall asleep like that.
Why do people think it's impossible to spoon someone bigger than you? 🤔 You don't physically have to be bigger than someone to be in the big spoon role
It just feels weirder though I'd imagine. Like I'd think the bigger person wouldn't really feel like they could be adequately held. I mean one of the whole reasons people like being held is the feeling of safety and security it provides to feel like someone can protect you.
I generally like to be the one providing that feeling since I'm not really a boy anymore and I'm past the point of feeling it and I'm just in general larger, stronger and it makes more sense.
Having said all that, nothing gets me more melted and excited than putting my head in her lap and having my woman brush my hair, like I said. Now THAT's warmth and security.
I like being the little spoon so I can do the butt thing yk like the little wiggle lol plus I’ve always been quite I bit smaller then my boyfriend in the past sooo it just kinda naturally kinda happens. And it gives more options yk? Lol that’s just me tho
It depends on if it's summer time or winter time it depends on a lot of things I mean don't get me wrong as long as there's a touch that's fine by me but I think I would just get way too hot to warm and I would just kind of keep trying to inch away. I really hate saying that but if I get way too hot then I'm not even going to go to sleep , probably, or sleep very well but yes I would still do it
No I don't mind, sometimes i feel more comfortable being the big spoon, but we switch often.
WELL NOW WITH THIS HOT WEATHER even with the AC on we don't care about spooning looool
As a man I don't like to be the little spoon it doesn't feel right to me.
Being the big spoon makes me feel like I'm protecting her and keeping her safe which feels right to me.
Although I haven't been in a relationship or won't be for my entire lifetime so I don't think my preference really matters, but hypothetically it makes me feel good to know that I'm protecting her and caring for her.
But it's all hypothetical in the end! :D
Why won't you be for your entire life?
Being the big spoon or little spoon doesn't bother me when cuddling with my girlfriend. Either way the feeling I get is wonderful.
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Which do you prefer to be or it doesn't matter?
Doesn't matter to me but I'm. 90% of the time the big spoon whole sleeping
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That is cool and I bet it feels fabulous cuddling with you.
I like being little spoon but I'm usually the bigger person :(
6'2.
I am (relatively) little so I don’t mind being little spoon
Doesn't matter. Sleep is sleep. As long as sleep is happening in some form or fashion, I'm happy.
True, just cuddling up to someone in any way makes everything relaxing
Yes, and if there's a female lying next to me while sleeping in either type of spoon, that means something good probably happened before bedtime, and something good will probably happen again when we wake up. 😉👍😂
While I am a fairly large man, I do like to be the small spoon at times. Its just this weird sense of security.
Oh i dislike been been big spoon so yeah. It's uncomfortable to be the big spoon dunno how other's do it tbh.
my girlfriend prefers being the big spoon but idrm either way (^▽^ゞ
I don’t kind but since he’s almost a foot talker then me, it doesn’t really make sense in a way. Plus, I’m the one who’s always cold so it just works better that I’m the little spoon more often than not. 😜
I sometimes outright tell my girl to hug my back and she's half my size lmao
I like both. I think I like being the bigger spoon more, I like to wrap my arms around
I am 5’6.5 and by boyfriend is 6’1 so it is easier if he is the big spoon
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