Personally I'm usually the little spoon since I'm a lot smaller than my boyfriend and that's the most comfortable. But he likes being small spoon too some times. π
Both!!
If I want to feel especially safe and warm, I prefer to be wrapped up in my partner's arms as the little spoon. ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ βββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ ββββββ βββ
If I want more freedom of movement, I prefer to nuzzle my face into his shoulder as the jet pack βΊοΈ
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I like the feeling of being close with him both in small spoon and big spoon depending on whether I want to feel warm and protected or want to offer it.
But Iβve tried to take initiative to be big spoon and then been told by him that it felt weird to him to be small spoon
Honest to goodness it depends on how im feeling. If im feeling down, or sick, its a wonderful feeling to just be held. So in that respect i like the little spoon. But when sleeping together, i prefer to be the big spoon.
Its more than that. I constantly tell my wife that "you give the best hugs". She once asked me why.. I told her that its because i love her, that its warm, and honestly, unlike women, who seem to have less boundaries to touch than men do, Hers are the only hugs i want, and can have. So after a long day of work, and no contact with anyone, no simple human touch, And mountains of stress, Her hugs when i come home to her, are like heaven on earth. They are the best ever.
My wife likes to cuddle. She likes to be the little spoon and snuggle her butt up against me with my arm wrapped around her.
When she cuddles me, I'm on my back with her head on my chest, her arm around me, and her leg over me. My arm is around her and my other hand holds her arm.
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I love being the big spoon! I love feeling his big bum against me, and we're lying on the couch with my back against the sofa, and his hot temperature burning my body as I somehow still manage to rest my head on his chest.
Big spoon. Sometimes the cuddling evolves into more...
I'm smol so usually little spoon, but I really like being big spoon too.
My cat sometimes is my little spoon and it's the best sleep to have him laying next to me, snoring softly.- m
the big spoon usually has some big ideas i feel pressed up against my butt 🙄
I think I'd quite like to be the little spoon. I find hugs from people I'm comfortable with to be soothing and relaxing and I imagine it would feel the same. Maybe more relaxing and soothing.
Should probably mention that I haven't done either.I like being the big spoon because I like her butt pressed up against my dick. I like the little spoon because itβs nice to be held and there is a chance she will reach for my cock and play with it.
Sometimes I lay my head on my boyfriends belly and he plays with my hair. I fall asleep 😴
I like both, I love holding the person I care for, but sometimes it's also nice to just be held
Usually big spoon but it's also nice to be the little spoon, especially when it's cold.
Big spoon! I get to feel her body so close and hold her tight. Special feeling 😍
Big spoon, simply because of my height.
βThere is no spoon.β
- Neo, The MatrixNeither tbh. I need space on my bed.
I m the small one hehe
Big spoon lets me grab your boobs
Little spoon.
I like to be caring so I think big
Little spoon. And I am the guy.
Big Spoon for me
Big I just love β€ it
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