I feel uncomfortable being the ‘big’ spoon. My boyfriend acts quite feminine at times and it makes me uncomfortable. What should I do?

SilverFuture
My boyfriend can be whoever he wants. However he’s always crying and wanting the be the little spoon. He’s a very emotional person and prefers it if I fix things around the house etc. He prefers to be the one who cooks and cleans. I’d rather it just be equal between us both. He makes me feel like the masculine one in the relationship. Sometimes I tell him I don’t want to hug or kiss him a certain. I hate stereotypes but he hugs and kisses like a girl and wants me to hold his waist! I hate it. I recommend he see a counsellor to help him deal with why he’s so upset. I’m just not comfortable being in a relationship with such a ‘feminine’ guy. He even says I’m the masculine one in the relationship which pisses me off! What should I do?
I feel uncomfortable being the ‘big’ spoon. My boyfriend acts quite feminine at times and it makes me uncomfortable. What should I do?
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