If you can't deal with it and you are not comfortable, the only thing you can do is leave him.
My husband is similar to your boyfriend. Maybe not to that extent but it suits us both and we're together for 20 years. All the people around us see us as great couple. He is very caring to me and kids and I have no problem being the stronger one in our relationship. On occasions I need comfort and support he takes over for that moment and when I stand on my feet I'm again the one comforting and supporting him all the time.
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This is just what happens when you become so open-minded that your brain falls out.
"He can be whoever he wants but I'm disgusted by him, what do I do?"
Why don't women understand cause and effect?
This is a direct result of women encouraging feminine behaviour in men and telling them that it's okay. Normal men will say that it's not normal, women like you will tell them that they're wrong, date a guy like this, become repulsed by his effeminate behaviour which those guys were trying to discourage, and you act all confused.
Just leave, and stop telling guys that being a pussy is okay.
Welcome to the new world! This is what women want less masculine men to show their masculinity. Your just throwing your toxic masculinity around!
God do I hate this new world order. Then again you want 50/50... ya no. I work 72-96 hours per week I’m not fucking doing dishes lol.
It looks like you too are not compatible. You're giving him what he wants and he is not giving you what you want. Some woman can deal with feminine guys. I know I can't but we are all different at the end of the day. I can't deal with aggressive cavemen too.
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Its okay to be honest and admit that you would prefer a more masculine partner. Gender roles are more open ended these days but that doesn't mean you have to lie about what you want from a partner.
Definitely bring it up with him. And consider that it may be best for you to move on.You should brake up with him and find a man not a boy. It sound like you would like a conservative guy because conservatives actually are manly compared to liberals we must more be into the gender roles you cook and clean he goes out and makes money (most conservatives don’t mind you work if you have kids they expect you to put the kids first beyond that there good guys). If you want a true man this is the way you need to go
We get what we deserve.
Marriage, cohabitation and childbirth are at all time lows.Your not happy in this relationship, I suggest you relegate him to the rank of "girl friend"
Ok I laughed at the part where you said he wants you to hold his waist while kissing😂
Maybe he identifies as a woman
¯\_(ツ)_/¯Get a strap on and fuck him in the ass. Or just break up with her.. I mean him if you don't want to be in that kind of relationship. He needs to find someone who wants to fill the masculine role.
Lmao. Well leave him then. It sounds like a problem with you, not him.
Lol women be liek: “be more feminine, cry around me, show emotion, do more housework, stop perpetuating male stereotypes!”
women also: “ew he’s so feminine im not attracted to him”
men: MGTOWThis is what men have become I’m afraid, a bunch of emotional pussies. He needs to grow up and grow a set of balls.
Are you a lesbian? Why do you have a girlfriend? 😂 im being serious though.
Does that make you really mad! Go to the gym and pump it out!!!
might be gay/in the closet
break up
holds his waist? that's weird
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