Girls, I'm not very experienced with men. How do I react when my boyfriend does things like this?

[Anonymous]

I'm 23 and this is my first boyfriend, been together a month. He's 25 and has experience and probably needs. I went to a beach house with friends and he came to visit me for a day. I was wearing shorts and I caught him stealing a look at my legs. We chatted for a bit and he told me he had to leave in a few minutes and wanted to see me alone. I agreed, and we went behind the house and he kissed me and then lifted my shirt and kissed my belly and I just let him. I know he won't force me to do anything I don't want to, bit how do I react to this?

[nspencer]

Well the biggest question is did you like that he did that? Do you want to start getting physical with this person? From personal experience when someone loves and respects you they will always take your boundaries seriously. So figure out what those are and address them. If your nervous about it just talk to him about it. He should understand and should take it as slow as you both feel comfortable.

[Anonymous]

That doesn’t really scream “I want a serious relationship I’m gonna take this slow” on his part. Depends what you want really.