Have you noticed that you don’t have to be super pretty for men to sweep you off your feet?

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

I never considered myself conventionally pretty, however I always thought that I am quite charismatic.

I have been recalling about things men have done for me and the way they have treated me and I know there are girls much prettier than me that have never been treated that way.

I have been thinking what’s the reason? my ex used to think I was very spoiled and he did his best to spoil me even more.

I think the reason for my nice experiences with men is that I respect myself and that makes people respect to you too.

I also think it has something to do with the family where I grew up, my dad and my brother have been the men who always cherished me and treated me very sweetly, gently and respectfully and they spoiled me a lot.

I think that made me used to that kind of treatment so I guess that might be the reason I have had nice experiences.

[ohsheeT]

We are all unique we are all individually different and what you have to understand is there are guys that look at you for your true self they look into your eyes they feel your heart they know everything about you and they see your beauty on the inside and that's the most powerful thing that a guy can do is find the real you and fall in love with the real you the outside of you is just all an extra bonus a guy that just looks to the outside is the couple that's going to fail because he's going to find out that the person on the outside is not the same as the person on the inside

[DaveJord]

As a man, yes, I have noticed this. A good woman is a good woman and looks are not the most important thing.

Respect is key, most definitely... most woman want to be respected, but they struggle in returning that same level of respect or give any sense of appreciation to the man.

[dynamicyandere]

A girl’s personality and charm can bring out a man’s most gentlemanly side.


So, that definitely plays a major role.


Looks may initially attract a man.


But for a man to be gentlemanly and STAY gentlemanly, a girl with the right personality and charm can bring that out in a man. 🙂

[FunkyMonkee]

Yeah! I noticed that a long time ago!! I've had a couple men try to do that to me!!
My uncle Mike was married to a very pretty woman in the early `50's and had 7 or 8 kids with her. In the late `60's, they got divorced and he married another woman that NOBODY could stand to be around for too long!! She was MUCH shorter than him, dumpy, not very pretty at all, drank like a fish, smoked like a chimney, swore like truck driver, bossed people around like a person who bosses people around a lot, and had a VERY abrasive voice that could peel paint!! It was like seeing John Lennon choose Yoko over Cynthia all; over again!!

[BoopBoopBeep]

"I never considered myself conventionally pretty,"... Is that profile picture you? I think she's/you're quite pretty in a conventional sense. I can't imagine why you'd feel differently

[LaFemmeFatale_1]

Yes, she’s me and thank you…

[BoopBoopBeep]

No you're quite stunning. I've had extraordinary success with women over my many fortunate years on this earth and you should not feel subpar ever. If you are charismatic as you claim that shall serve you well.

[RavVid]

You might be genuinely appreciative and not look like you will call the cops. We can just like pleasing you.

I had been seeing (fucking) a girl and, as I was on my way, I thought I will buy her some super market flowers. She was happy and pleased etc. Time passed and I bought some better flowers next time. She said "WHAT HAVE YOU DONE" when I proffered them.

Didn't do that again!

[msc545]

You also get treated well because you are very nice to others. If you were not, you could be the most beautiful woman on the planet, and men would not treat you well in spite of that.

[msc545]

Pretty is nice, but interesting is even better. Pretty AND interesting is ideal.

[Nikki1989]

Nobody has to be good-looking to attract a mate. You just need good personality, charm, and act approachable.

[LiamJHayden]

I am glad you discovered this. Inner beauty is far more important than outer beauty.

[Justaguyagain]

What do you mean spoiled? regardless, charisma is more powerful than looks sometimes

[justabuddy]

While I have never seen any photos of you. This is a good mytake topic.

[honestanswersonly_]

If a guy sweeps you off your feet make sure his heart is in the right place

[Anonymous]

Yea but that's rare. And even those ugly girls are delusional and think they're pretty