Has anyone ever noticed that the most attractive men tend to be the nicest and least stuck-up?

[Anonymous]

I don't know if its just me but I find that the most facially attractive men to be the nicest. The types who would go around and smile at people, say sorry, not be afraid of making eye contact with the opposite sex. These very handsome men generally have a very nice vibe to them.

While on the other hand, its the average looking dudes (but in shape, muscular dudes) who are less friendly, avoid eye contact, don't smile at people, ignore certain girls, not greet others.

[Nikki1989]

My experience has been the total opposite.

[Anonymous]

I have noticed that too, but it's not always the case. I've known some hot guys who were complete assholes. But the nice hot guys are usually taken. :(

[Asker]

maybe they're still single cuz they're assholes

[Opinion Owner]

Good point

[NicholasRedone]

Adjusts shirt collar 🏆 👕 thank you, thank you one and all. However, I'm too humble and chilled to say much more 😋 I mustn't brag ♂️♀️

[NicholasRedone]

He's single ladies 👀🪒🫣😁😋

[Twalli]

I treat everyone equally, but due to being painfully shy I rarely make eye contact or greet anyone.

[Anonymous]

It applies to women to. The ugly ones are meanest and jump from guy to guy

[Anonymous]

It's probably a false pattern you see.

[BarryLiverstone]

Thank you

[Asker]

you're not that attractive. im not referring to guys like you

[Asker]

im referring to the 9 out of 10s

[BarryLiverstone]

Right, I am not a 9

[Asker]

its actually guys who look kinda like you that are the meanest.

[BarryLiverstone]

Sorry they act mean. I try to add joy to others

[BarryLiverstone]

What could I do to look better?

[Asker]

i personally had dialogue with you once upon a time, and i can confirm you are not a decent mature person.

[Asker]

I wouldn't say you're necessarily a mean person but just ignorant and immature.

[BarryLiverstone]

I would have to agree with you. I am immature. Appreciate you letting me know..

Does that affect how you see me?

[Asker]

no. it could be that you're trying to prove you are better than you really are.

true character comes out during times of stress and conflict. and its more about how you respond to situations rather than what you say when things are calm and happy

[BarryLiverstone]

Again I agree with you. And I totally used to be fake and try to appear a more perfect person. I’ve learned that I have flaws and today fully admit I’m bad at times and can be a challenge to get along with. Stress is hard to deal with yk

[BarryLiverstone]

What’s the best way to react to conflict?

[Asker]

to be honest, you can't change who you are once you hit a certain age. you can try to change or pretend for a while but once you reach a situation that really enrages you or a scenario that really offends you, your true self will come out again.

[BarryLiverstone]

Ty. I’ll be 26 soon. So based on what you said there isn’t much I can do. I am locked into the personality I have now and just have to live an authentic life

[BarryLiverstone]

I feel grateful that the only times I ever feel enraged is when I’m protecting someone I love.

[Asker]

immaturity is not only reflect in rage, it also has to do with the way you think, the way you respond to situations.

The truth is vast majority of adults are immature but hide it well.

its usually the RIDICULOUSLY immature ones who can't hide it well.

[BarryLiverstone]

Ty for the feedback. Based on your original question I am not a 9. What can I do to improve how I look?

[Asker]

you can't really do much. its not like you can put on makeup. maybe dress better or workout?

[BarryLiverstone]

I go to the gym. But you are right, I could change my focus when I’m there to bulk up more