I have never compared anyone I dated to the man that I am with. We are both aware of those we dated/had relations with before we met, but that's about as far as it goes for the most part. When you commit to a long-term relationship with someone, individuals you've been with in the past really don't need to be a part of that relationship. Women and men who bring up previous individuals to their current boyfriend or girlfriend are still hung up on their past, or have no interest in a long-term relationship. They must find the good with the current person and focus on that versus noticing their faults and how they compare to others. Sorry that you are dealing with this.
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it becomes worse when they justify this disrespectful behavior by labeling you as "insecure" or as having "fragile masculinity"
this is one more reason, men tend to refer women with no sexual or relationship past given that comparisons are bound to be made when shit hits the fan and emotions are boiling high. any argument then turns into a slurry of insults and she'll use the lowest hanging fruit possible to really hurt at you may it be your height, dick size, financial situation etc.
the converse wouldn't be tolerated and I don't believe dudes are out there comparing the body weight, breast size or facial appearance of their current girlfriend with their ex-girlfriends. the degree of special treatment might be different based on some bad past experiences but otherwise there's a certain boundary that doesn't get crossed.
I didn’t read the whole thing, but i definitely don’t talk about an ex period hardly ever. I would leave if my boyfriend was saying his ex was amazing or complemented her in any way. I really HATED when my ex brought up his ex and we fought before over it and I told him how I felt. Just leave
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I don’t compare people.
I'll talk about them but I never compare.
I think this is common for both men and women.
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