Well your poll is kinda fucked so I'm not going to vote, I love being the big spoon, and I end up being the big spoon most of the time but I also love when I'm the little spoon. It generally just comes down to size I feel, I'm 6'2 and while I like dating taller women, the tallest I've dated was 5'11, but most tend to be shorter because there are just more shorter women. so it makes more sense for a 6'2 to be the big spoon when the gal is around 5'5.
Can I just say that it tickles me that you said 9/10 times you're the big spoon but, 1% of the time you're the little spoon.
What good on the other 9% of the time?
I am always the big spoon in our relationships, because my boyfriend doesn't like being the big spoon. He says he can't breath because my hair is in his face all the time. 😄 I don't particularly enjoy being the big spoon either, because our height difference makes it a bit difficult. But I'm taking one for the team, because I still like cuddling.
I would say that I prefer to be the little spoon. But I didn't mind occasionally being the big spoon with my ex. Especially if we had spent a couple nights together and I was starting to miss having my own personal space to sleep haha. So being the big spoon then was appreciated at that point haha
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I always tend to be little spoon and I like it.
I actually prefer being the big spoon. Like I get to kiss their neck, or whisper in their ear, or i get to feel their chest & arms.
But I don't mind being the little spoon if the guy feels weird being the it
those 2 terms sound so funny. It's the first time I've heard them. I know what spooning is but the big and the little ones are news. I laughed at this question by the way 😂
My hair is always in boyfriend face when I’m the little spoon, plus there’s a height difference that makes it a little uncomfortable for me. I go behind and I get to hug tightly and he gets boobs in his back, win win
Honestly I don't mind either way. I like being hugged and I like hugging, I tend to get hot real quick though so I suppose if I had to choose I'd prefer to be the big spoon.
I love being the little spoon but every now and then I'll be the big spoon. I know that my man is big and strong and tough but sometimes he enjoys feeling comforted and embraced by me.
I prefer beeing the big spoon but actually iam fine with both :D
Wow! Seems I'm the minority! I love being big spoon because I love being in the dominant position. The sense of control, the feeling my boyfriend's whole body, the hugging and loving him and making him feel safe, it's all great. But I also love being little spoon, so he'll often ask me which I prefer on any given day. :)
I like it either way.
Immaterial to me really, but don't mind big spooning occ.
I like being the small spoon, but I also like being the big spoon. Guys think it's cute.😊
I've never really been a spoon 😢 but I'd imagine everyone likes being the little spoon better.
I don't think I've ever been a little spoon if I recall correctly. I've always been the big spoon when I was in a relationship and was happy with it.
I'd swap occasionally.
I'm not dominant but not submissive.
In the best case scenario me and my partner would interchange between dominant and not dominant.
You shouldn't "switch it up". You don't know what she's gonna do back there. Unless that's your kind of thing. No judgment.
I don't care lets cuddle. damnit!
I usually prefer being the big spoon, same as you, but little spoon is nice sometimes.
I like to be the little spoon. Then I feel protected.
Most times big spoon but I like beeing little spoon... need just a tall lady cause im 6'33
When I have a girlfriend women I tend to be the big spoon most of them are shorter then me.
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