Do you enjoy being the little spoon, or does it feel uncomfortable?

[7Phoenix7]

For the women… do you ever enjoy being the big spoon? I do. It feels just as intimate, but in a different way.

🫂

Me lol

[Sangita93]

My husband and I used to take turns spooning each other randomly, sometimes before sex, and mostly after sex. It is a different form of intimacy in our relationship. I love the feelings of my husband's strong hands on my body, one of his hands on breasts and second holding me tightly or between the legs, if I am little spoon. When I am big spoon, I hold his tool with one hand - usually hard and almost ready for making love with me. It is an extremely intimate and erotic position to be in, and allows for hand holding and kissing to his shoulders, neck and whisper something in his ears. I found it special for feeling of being vulnerable. It usually ended up at some point in his sliding inside me again – if we had one round completed before. Being big spoon is a wonderful position to be in with my husband. One of the biggest benefits of spooning is the feeling of closeness.

[DishLady]

No I like little spoon. Feels like a nice blanket or a warm coat to have "big spoon" at my back. (Plus usually makes for an interesting morning alarm, lol.)

[7Phoenix7]

Lmao I like it too, the big spoon alarm in the morning 😆

Well I like both lol.

[DishLady]

I’ll do a version of big spoon of the guy has had a rough day and needs a cuddle. But it’s more him leaning back onto me and resting into a nice hug.

Also the guys I’ve been with tend to be self-heating and don’t want to be spooned all night bc they feel warm. They’re open to being “big spoon” or to hugging till one or both of us strays snoozing.

[7Phoenix7]

You’re absolutely right lol

[HawkPerception]

I don't mind my partner hugging me from behind. She can hug me from wherever. It feels supportive. But I do admit it feels a little weird to get used to. I definitely prefer being big spoon most of the time.

[7Phoenix7]

It usually happens in the middle of the night after he turned the other way while sleeping lol. And then I turn and hug him …. throw my leg around him.

[HawkPerception]

The main issue I'd have with that is I overheat easily. Unless it's winter and I'm not wearing a blanket, I'd probably die like that

[HawkPerception]

Cuddling for me is a pre-sleep activity lol

[7Phoenix7]

Nah, I get like that in the summer haha… and that’s the only time I can sleep the whole night without a blanket.

lol… you cuddle snd then travel to the opposite side of the bed afterwards 😄

[HawkPerception]

Basically 👌🏼

[Maybe_Maybe_not]

I do enjoy cuddling as well as being cuddled with, in any position or context, be it sensual or sexual, private or public

[7Phoenix7]

Exactly… cuddling is great in any position.

[Summeroflove]

Eh. I don’t know. Maybe if she was taller… a lot of people seem to be obsessed with height on this website so I don't know. Maybe

[7Phoenix7]

You should try it…

[Purpleronnie]

I’m rarely either spoon , my lady burns hotter than the surface of the sun 😜 and I like being cool when I sleep.


So some light spooning with me as big spoon and then I generally roll over.


Even if heat wasn’t the issue though it’s uncomfortable / distracting

[Telekinetic-Potato]

Why do y'all always have to make some wise ass comment about it after a while though.. Like you just appeared there out of nowhere let me regress a little 😭

I prefer big spoon though. I like to see her face when I wake up in the middle of the night

[Crimsyjo]

I prefer being little spoon. It makes me feel taken care of for a change when even in relationships I tend to be the leader and I just wanna not have to be all the time you know.

[7Phoenix7]

That does make a lot of sense yes… I’m usually the opposite lol

[Crimsyjo]

Are you a mum? I feel very mumsy too when I do it cos I spent years sleeping cuddling my kids. Co-sleeping. Feeling protective of them in thar position.

[Kaneki05]

I much prefer being little, I find being big uncomfortable and hurts my arms. Then ya know the best middle ground is the chest either way

[7Phoenix7]

Yep haha

[RandomGirl42]

Oh, I'm a little spoon and curl up like a kitten in the corner. And I love your "Me" pic. 🤣

[7Phoenix7]

That’s cute lol

And yea because my ex was way taller than me and I was like a little backpack on his back LOL 😂

[RavVid]

Most women do seem to prefer being the little spoon and all wrapped up. It doesn't work as well the other way.

[7Phoenix7]

It’s easier being a little spoon, but if he turns around in the middle of the night… I’m gonna throw my leg around him and be big spoon lol

[RavVid]

Good girl... I'd like that. :)

[shortster]

When cuddling I prefer to lay on my back with her on top of me such that her head rests upon my chest.

[7Phoenix7]

Yess love that too

[sage2021]

@shortster

That's the best position for me because I feel safe tucked under his arm with my head on his hairy chest. Then I could easily drift off to sleep 💤 😴

[Persephone02]

I love that. I fall asleep comfortably on his chest.

[sportsbraslikes]

It’s hard to say. I’m 6’2” and my wife is 5’9” so I feel bad for her because she has a hard time getting comfortable with me being the small spoon.

[7Phoenix7]

Why?

[sportsbraslikes]

What do you mean by why?

[7Phoenix7]

Why does she have a hard time?

[sportsbraslikes]

I’m taller than her and I believe it’s the fact that she just doesn’t like it because her face is in my back or something else. I really don’t mind her being the small spoon

[7Phoenix7]

My ex was 6’1 and I’m 5’3 lol I enjoyed being a little jet pack sometimes haha.

I get it though why some people don't like it.

[AydenHazor]

I enjoy being both big and little spoon. Sometimes it feels good to just be held

[7Phoenix7]

Yea 😊

[Shy_Steve]

I think most of us Guys are happy to be either, But I think most of us Guys would prefer to be the the little spoon because at least we won't get a face full of hair and a Girl showing affection toward us is really attractive and cute.

[rebelsunshine]

I enjoy both, but little spoon a bit more though.

[DryGermanGuy]

„There is no spoon!“
- Young Potential, The Matrix

[AgentG111]

It's definitely different but also a good feeling, if I'm working a different a night shift and she snuggles up for some body temp time/closeness it's nice.

[lilBigPotato]

I still enjoy it but I like being little spoon more.

[beenherebefore]

Love being little spoon. I find it very comforting.

[fish5505_87]

I like being the little spoon when we fall asleep the couch watching TV. It's usually her that falls asleep first, and me not wanting to wake her by moving.

[Shiprex]

I don't mind but get too hot when it's that way.

[Phoenix98]

I don't mind being the little spoon sometimes honestly.

[Abbycado]

Little spoon! Spoon me, girl! XD

[7Phoenix7]

Hahaha say lesss … let’s go 😆

[Abbycado]

You could get @Circushowcowboy in a sugar spoon and he’d still br the little one. 🫢

He’s been so ignoring me for like a month. XD

THAT GIF!!! @HollyK21 lmao look at that!

[7Phoenix7]

Cozy posts bring people together…
He’ll show up eventually as the teaspoon 😆
And I love that gif, lmao.

[Abbycado]

That’s classic, and classy, if I say so myself. XD

[HollyK21]

LOL oh that gif is fantastic!😂👏

[7Phoenix7]

@HollyK21 😂😂

[MemeSupreme]

big spoon bc im the one in control

[7Phoenix7]

lol are you usually?

[MemeSupreme]

no lol

[Persephone02]

I prefer to lay on his chest.

[7Phoenix7]

I love it too. I like having him lay his head on my chest as well while I run my fingers through his hair

[Persephone02]

Yes me too!

[queenofcardio]

I prefer being held

[7Phoenix7]

It’s a nice feeling

[Bricealan]

Spooning gets too warm for me

[7Phoenix7]

It can lol

[exitseven]

I like it either way.

[7Phoenix7]

Me too 👍 because why not

[exitseven]

Thanks for the MHO😎

[7Phoenix7]

It didn’t happen yet but since you can see the future…. You’re welcome lol

[LiamS95]

Girl you are asking a volitile question

[7Phoenix7]

Haha why? lol

[Nikki1989]

Either works for me.

[Hagar88]

I like to be the big spoon.

[MikeTheBartender]

It's cute, but prefer being the bigger one.

[jahaims]

Only sometimes and not to sleep. Just for cuddles

[dragoblack]

I'm fine with either

[7Phoenix7]

Samee

[Noredcarpet]

It's nice