What are some sign that your boyfriend doesn't care about you?

[Anonymous]

[ohshee]

The first thing is is he gives you that reason that feeling to doubt him because somewhere you got that feeling that he doesn't care for you that's the first thing because the guy that cares for you will always be there for you will always be communicating with you is your best friend when he gives you a reason to doubt him can you start feeling the way you do right now that's the most important sign

[Asker]

Yup. I told my boyfriend that I was in danger and being followed while walking to the bus early this morning for work. I asked him if he could drive me down the street to the bus stop tomorrow and his response was if I wanted to wake up at 5:00am with you I would get a 9-5pm job. All I could do is laugh because it confirmed to me that he doesn't care.

[Asker]

I wasn't actually in danger I just wanted to see if he would protect me if I was ever in danger. Instead he got mad at me for being in danger.

[ohshee]

That's so messed up in so many ways I mean you have to go to look at it in all the ways that is messed up I feel bad for you I'm sorry I mean he should have said no fuck that I'm going to drive you to work everyday

[Asker]

I didn't ask him to drive me to work just down the street to the bus stop

[ohshee]

Yeah you got mad and was now blaming it on you and he's angry because you take it away you sleep time already has to do something that he doesn't want to do that's just fucked up

[ohshee]

Yes I know but if you were my girlfriend I would be taking you to work I wouldn't even want you waiting for the bus

[Asker]

It's literally a one minute drive to the corner. He also included that I should purchase a firearm for my early in morning walks.

[ohshee]

As a matter of fact I would want you to tell your boss what's going on and I would try to set the guy up you do not knowing that you're just trying to find out the situation but I would I would take it as far as ask your boss for the day off and we're going to set this guy up so we can catch him so I could get the fuck out of me before you got put in jail LOL that's how far I mean I would take it

[Asker]

I'm thinking to myself if I have to purchase a firearm when my boyfriend is down the street. Why do I have a boyfriend?

[ohshee]

Yes more than that tho

[Asker]

What do you mean?

[ohshee]

Yeah that just that kind of really pisses me off and that is that fucking lazy and doesn't care at all about you really is what it seems like to me anyway

[ohshee]

But I bet you when he's in bed safe and he wants to get laid you're right there for him

[ohshee]

I wonder how he would think about it is if all the sudden somebody was calling him harassing him and told him all the things that he's going to do to him how he would feel about it then

[ohshee]

So he is showed you and proven to you and many many ways that he doesn't really even care I need because somebody that cares doesn't do what he is saying or doing they handle it they take care of it they take care of you

[ohshee]

For me but I'm in a relationship I'm making it all about the girl anyway I want to show her how much I appreciate her how much I love her and I work a lot of hours sometimes so there's times where she would call and say hey let's meet someplace this do this do that and I wouldn't be able to do that because of work Sundays and I hate when that happens that I need to apologize but at the same time I want to show her how much I appreciate her so no matter what I would be there for her no matter what if you're going out on walks by yourself in the morning or at night I would be going with you I would not even let you get on the bus or you can wait at the bus stop I would be taking you to work I mean that's just who I am

[ohshee]

I mean here's the part that really sucks is you with the guy so that means you like them and to really bug you to know that the person that you like a lot I won't even be there for you I mean I don't even have anything to do with it and I'm pissed off LOL because I see every side of the whole story the whole scenario and it's the same old thing the girl gives everything for the guy and the guy gives her nothing

[Asker]

I wish I had a boyfriend like you. If I ask my boyfriend to take me to the grocery store he blows up on me. He called me needy and clingy earlier because I asked him to cuddle with me at nights and sleep in the same bed

[ohshee]

So you want to go to the grocery store so you can buy food so you could probably cook it for him and he doesn't want to take you and this one here I just don't understand you're laying next to him I can imagine you smell very good you warm skin is soft and you want to cuddle and he will do it that drives me crazy what you got in bed and all you have to do is touch me and I'm going to be doing more than cuddling see you can just tell did the guy is so selfish is it he's a me me me type of person

[hannahjo022]

He's being distant, acting like an asshole, communicating less, and saying mean things to you. I'm sure you are the one now who is doing all the work in this relationship now and he is doing nothing. I would talk to you how you are feeling about him and the relationship. If that does not work, end it. You will be better off ending the relationship with since he does not care about you. Why be in a relationship with someone who does not care about you?

[ChrisMaster69]

He buys cinema tickets for one.

tv dinners for one.

[Starwitch23]

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