Does my boyfriend not care about me?

[Anonymous]

My boyfriend and I got into a fight and he ignored/blocked me for several days (more than a week). On the fourth day of us not talking I told a friend of his that I missed him and asked her did he look okay. He's finally talking to me again but he told me everything I told his friend. That shows that he was aware I missed him and was worried about him but he didn’t care to talk to me.

[lightbulb27]

non determinant.

a lot of guys are not trained to handle emotional/pain conflict well, so they run off in the face of it.

This will be a process of learning to resolve issues and feel safe/secure even when it hurts. I had to learn, and I know some learning older than me.

Girls processing of emotional pain can vary from boys. It may help to discuss how to have conflicts and resolve.

I used to see a course on conflict resolution. you may have to go searching for solutions/books/videos/groups/mentors to help.

welcome to the world of intimate relationships with poorly trained humans! Just remember... dogs are easy, humans... take a bit more thinking.

[Anonymous]

He's not a girl. He doesn't have to deal with these things in a way that you expect or approve of.

Doesn't mean he doesn't care about you. Perhaps he was still angry.

[In_Trance]

Talk to him