he still doesn't believe that I love him bc I didn't tell him about smthg that was really personal for me (and I explained that for him but he doesn't understand, and that's why I didn't tell him about it in the first place , he doesn't get it) he just gave up on me easily and told me he doesn't love me anymore , If he really loves me he wouldn't just give up on the rltp that fast , plus , I always put more effort in our rltp and I try to work things out whenever there's a problem but he just doesn't put the same amount of effort
Since I'm old enough to be your dad, I'll respond like a dad probably would.
"You're 15, and this won't be your last love, if it's really love at all. Sometimes it feels like love, honey, but it's not really. He's young, he's not ready to understand his emotions, so the easiest thing to do is point at you. He's not the guy for you, and in the end, you'll be glad it happened like this."
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He is not the right person (maturity or thought process) to be a boyfriend.
So, while I'm sad for you that you broke up, that's best for you.
In answer to your question, he thinks that because he's immature and he's thinking of himself first.
hey, ignore all those haters in here, i think your ex is a shitty person who doesn't deserve u. the fact that he can't accept that you dont want to tell him smth that's personal to u shows that he is hella insecure and has trust issues. there are always better guys out there, gl :)
p. s sorry if i sound toxic TvT
at an early age, it's very difficult to get things right, what one thinks is love isn't necessary a fact,
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Everyone thinks they're putting more effort into a relationship. They're rarely correct. If you try to make it 50-50 by what you feel then it's probably closer to the other person doing 80% of the work to keep the relationship going.
Stop trying to fill a bottomless pit and find someone else.
You dodged a bullet. Good riddance to that twit.
Don't play that bullshit of "don't ever talk to me again" and then expect him to contact you! So fucking stupid.
Alright now be honest.. Who you going to have your revenge hookup with? Does he know him?
You’re not speaking his love language in quite the right way
He sounds like he wants to control you. He probably has emotional issues.
You are probably better off moving on.Insecure and immature. Move on….
most likely something you're saying or doing
I say you handled it childish. Stay single.
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