So i’ve been friends with this guy since the fall semester at my college of 2021. we slowly began to become close and hung out more and more. Slowly we developed feelings for each other and in April 2022, he asked me out after we slept together. during the span of two weeks into our romantic relationship, he would do things that would visibly upset me and he would apologize for it but he wouldn’t be quick to recognize that the things he does upsets me until i speak up about it. We mostly kept our relationship low key from our other friends and family since we were friends for a while, and at some point we decided to tell our friends we were dating. When we finally sat a couple of our friends down and told them the news, they told me that they were happy for me but that a girl that he used to talk to before told them that he wanted to f*** her. He admitted to this and told me that he was never going to go through with it and i forgave him because i spoke with the girl and him and they both decided it was best to not communicate with one another and they blocked one another on everything for the sake of me and my guys relationship. fast forward a couple more weeks, and my guy graduates college. We text here and now and i told him that we need to make time to see one another when we are both free. he tells me he’s going to be “EXTREMELY busy” looking for jobs and doing chores around his house (since he lives with his family). i can’t shake the feeling that he’s making excuses not to see me this summer and every time i bring it up, he tells me the same thing (that he’s too busy and that he can’t). He told me the next time i’ll see him in person in in October when my school has homecoming parties. that’s months away. what should i do? should i let him have his space? or let him go?
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