Is being genuine the way to win high quality guys?

[jennifer_bloom]

Most rich wives behave like fashion models, they monitor every physical and social gesture they make and act as if they are constantly being videotaped but Priscilla Chan doesn’t try to be beautiful or charming, I suspect she doesn’t even exercise, and she is married to one of most prosperous men on earth.

[Knighted2170]

Being genuine and authentic not only helps in getting a quality guy, but it also helps in you being happy with your life and the relationship.

If you are not happy with your life, the relationship suffers. When the relationship suffers, you lose the guy. When you are faking things you have to keep up that charade for the entire relationship. Sure, the guy may be happy but you are miserable.

Being genuine and authentic will attract guys who are like what they see in you.

[Pyrofox]

I mean it will win you points if you ever want guys to support your side of an argument. Its like pretty easy to gain the eye of a genuine guy if you simply are self respectful and honest. Guys and even other girls will take you far more seriously.

[kmg9150]

Universe tends to give back to what you project. Problem I feel is that to many people are searching for the "One" and impatience results in "settling" with someone with attributes their willing to "put up". People tend to change who they are when partaking in this search, they want to impress, behave to the likeness of others, avoid dislikes not normally of concern. Thats why slowly as time passes all the little things slip out that werent "noticeable" before, its why marriage "changes" things.🤣. Focus on you life, when the time for it to happen is when paths will cross to create an organic connection.


If your searching to "win" you'll always lose.

[Anonymous]

They act that way once they've found their partner, acting like you're better than someone else is a sure-fire way to be avoided and rejected if you're trying to find someone. This applies to men and women equally.

Yes, being genuine is the way to win "high quality guys", but in the current social landscape you will need to approach them because #metoo has made them cautious and fearful of the repercussions of asking someone out. If you don't show them you consent to being approached, don't be surprised if you're only looked at by them from afar.

[Tunasub]

I find that if you just be the person that got you to where you are in life right now and not try to put on a faccad of someone you see on tv or in real life, then eventually you will find someone that has a genuine attraction to you..

When it's fake it has to keep being fake and that leads to mistrust because you've lead a lie.

Be true to yourself and give others the true you and in turn you will get that back and hopefully a soulmate will emerge from that..

[Protein_mate]

Yeah, I'm not necessarily saying I'm a high quality man but I'm good looking and successful. And at the end of the day, what most of us men want in a woman is a secure base, warmth and a best friend and that inevitably comes in hand with honesty, genuineness, and integrity

[rjroy3]

Highschool/College relationships where she met him at the ground floor don't really count. LeBron James is with his Highschool sweetheart too.

The norm is generally the rule. When you see the exception you have to look at what made them the exception. She met him before he was rich and famous.

I'd of stayed with my Highschool sweet heart too if I became rich and famous, taking her along the way. Love is love.

[Hairylegs222]

If a woman being genuine means being down to earth, real, outspoken, opens up to the guy, then that's a yes in my opinion.

Most importantly is to be yourself and those things I said above are good qualities in my opinion for a woman to already have.

[Birdlegs]

You’re not getting a mark Zuckerberg by being genuine I’m just gonna be real with you. If a dude is stupid rich he’ll get the most attractive woman that he wants. I’m sure they were together before he struck gold.

[exitseven]

Being genuine is the best way to get noticed by guys so yes.

[Babygirl_S]

Nope they prefer plastic surgeries. I have never seen anyone prefer a natural woman over the one who had some work done (if the results are good).

[Grubhub]

Best thing is being outgoing and take care of yourself. Do you workout, do you smell good?

[Grubhub]

You don’t even have to be outgoing but it helps. I don’t have an outgoing personality and I’ve been picked up by women all my life. Latin, black, white mostly Latin. Women love a taller man so that’s why I don’t gotta do a lot of approaching

[Anonymous]

Not necessarily but it will get you guys that are the best fit for you.

[karaspara]

I would like to think so

[Anonymous]

There are differences between rich and genuine guys. Only rich guys can be cruel too

[keirl]

No guy wants a fake girl

[Jamie05rhs]

Who is Priscilla Chan?

[EaterPeter]

Depends on what you mean by being genuine.

[he-takes-a-part]

Your questions doesn’t seem like you require one

[Rawkman]

Be honest

[Anonymous]

yes..