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I called my boyfriend two hours ago and even before ringing i got the voicemail that number is switched off or out of reach. I haven't tried calling again or leaving a message. Should i be worried? This is the first time it happens. Usually when i call him and he can't pick up, he'd call me back few seconds after. Should i try calling again?
Boyfriend's phone switched off?
Anonymous
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Most likely his phone is just dead
Yes it could be. Either way he'll get a notification that i called so no need to call again or text. It just seems unlike him.
Just 2 hours
Calm down
I am calm just making all scenarios in my head haha. Will do nothing then thank you
Dead battery
Should i try calling again or leave a message? It's nothing urgent.
Nope chill
I like this approach :)
I like that you like it...
What else could i do? He might call back upon switching up his phone. Better find one missed call than 3 or 4 or text messages :)
Nothing you can do.. just chill and don't worry yourself. Don't get all worked up over something that's most likely nothing. Take this time to enjoy yourself and wooo saaa
When did you see him last? If it's less than a day... slow your roll and breathe.
Just heard so many stories of friends who got dumped by boyfriend and it usually started by being unreachable. So you understand my worries.
I understand that you are worrying yourself for not hearing from boyfriend for 1 phone call... relax
We were together Tuesday night. He slept over and left the next morning so a day I'd say. We didn't talk at all after that and just called him two hours ago.
If he was going to dump you do you think you would have seen him a day ago.. it's only 1 missed call.
Even the police done start searching for 24 hours. It's been 1 call..
Your blood pressure must be out of control... smh
Stop thinking the worst
I actually have low blood pressure. Yeah haha you are right i absolutely thought the same. I should really chill down. And i guess if he wanted to dump me he would have texted me or called to tell me. I'll just wait then.
Right on.. think positive good things
I'm trying but it's hard when it's been 3 hours and usually he gets back to me within some seconds.
If you would like you we can talk maybe it will be enough of a distraction until he calls or just call him again.
Hmmm not sure if i want to call again. I guess he received notification that i called. Dropping a message after three hours seems like i was sitting and waiting. Not sure if he has network issues. Yes we can talk if you want.
But you kind of are sitting waiting.. lol how long you been dating him? You seem like you are deeeeeeeeeep in love.
I am. And we said i love you to each other. Two months. Oh don't know if i should try calling again. Don't want to ruin it if its really something stupid.
If it will ease your mind call..
And what if he's busy or finds it annoying? Then he won't feel comfortable calling back.
See there you go again second guessing yourself... well it's up to you.
Ha! I just thought of a funny but you may not think it is.
You can say it :) i know that today he has a meeting with his therapist so if he's in the middle of it don't want to interrupt.
You must drive yourself crazy when you masturbate. Do I or don't I I kinda want to but I won't. Yeah I will.. 😂🤣
Sorry I'm in a mood. Please forgive me.
Haha well yes i do. Anyway i will wait another 1 hr and maybe trying to call again
Sure thing. I'm sure all is well. So you don't live together I assume
Nope we live in the same city. He told me i can call him anytime and if he isn't able to pick up he'll call me later. So actually shouldn't really call again it seems controlling
Ahh yes and a little insecure. Now if you could only think like this and save yourself grief from worry you'd be ok...
Think like this from the start I mean
Besides be with boyfriend what do you do for fun?
Lots of stuff, read books go to fitness, meet with friends.
Yeah you should always find time to yourself when in a relationship. It helps to not be around or even think about (even though we do) partners. I mean have them constantly on the mind. You need distractions sometimes... and it give you 2 things to talk about.
Yes i agree. Now it's been like 5 hours of not calling me back. Should i drop him a message? I am too anxious to call.
Is there anyone else you can call to check on him. In the meantime send a message..
No i know none of his friends's phone numbers. I mean the first time i called it went straight to voice mail. He doesn't work today so maybe he woke up later and went about his day.
Could just be sleeping in
Can you go to his place
I left him a message that i was calling to ask if he wanted to go for some wine, we will see thank you much for walking me through this :)
I did nothing but try to distract you from worrying. I didn't do a good job but all will be fine I'm sure.. you're welcome regardless of my futile attempts at interference.
No you've done a great job! He was charging his phone just called me now after i texted him so we are meeting later :)
Ever thought about a career in crisis management? 😎
Haven't thought about that. I just wanted to ease your mind and in the end he was charging the phone so you can call off the search party... 🤣. I'm glad all is well.
Hey I just read something and I thought I'd share with you.
"Your strongest muscle and your worst enemy is your mind, train it well"
You have to learn to not get so worked up when something is a little out of normal for you. You will make yourself absolutely crazy..
That is all.
Thank you much. He asked me to move in with him last night, to live together for couple of weeks see how it goes.
There you go! That's awesome. Good luck. I wish you all the best. Oh! you're welcome.
I feel like he said it on the heat of the moment. But can't keep second guessing his intentions all the time. He told me he needs some days to prepare the apartment but i volunteered to help him clean it so if he takes action to make space for me and brings it up again i will follow through otherwise won't mention it again as it's his idea ☺
Well I think he's going to make it happen. Help out when and where you can and you'll be living together.
Yes this is what i will do ☺
Many thanks again!
No problem.