I feel worried now that I'm 29 because I feel it's too late to get a decent guy what should I do?

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ScottStevens · Accepted Answer

Never to late! My parents were in their 50's when they got divorced. My Mother was terrified of being single. Then the man of her dreams came into her life and they lived happily married for over 25 years before she passed away.

It is not your age that matters. It is your attitude about understanding what it takes to make a relationship complete. Guys feel the same way as you when they get to be almost 30. All the really great ladies are married by then.

Truth is some of us are better off staying single until we have worked out all of our personal issues. Those issues will never go away, but your ability to handle them and your ability to express them will change as you get older.

Just be yourself, do the things you enjoy doing, and one day the man of your dreams will appear cause he is doing the same!

MTC29 · Accepted Answer

I see statements yours pop up a lot on GAG. Honesty, 29 isn't as bad a you think.

There are a lot of guys who didn't get married in their twenties who are thinking the same thing that you are: "Is it too late to find a decent girl?"

Set your sights on older guys. No, I'm not talking about men my age, but guys in their 30's. By now they should have a good job, and some will even own their own home. Unlike men in their 40's, most thirtysomething guys haven't been divorced, which means there is no ex-wife and no kiddies (and a decade of child support).

There's still hope, so don't give up! Just keep looking.

Queenzee22 · Accepted Answer

Its never too late dear, but it's actually the right time. Relax Nd keep your chin high you will surely get one if you AV a clear mind

Cassieee18 · Accepted Answer

It's never too late to find someone and 29 isn't old. Keep options open.

Lliam · Answer

It's never too late.

I had girlfriends from the time I was 16. The most amazing woman I ever met, aside from my wife, was when I was 37 and she was 31 years old. I loved her with my entire heart and soul and she loved me. We lived together for over a year but circumstances were such that we weren't destined to spend the rest of our lives together.

I met my (future) wife when I was 40 and she was 38. We got married two years later and have been happily married for 25 years.

Anonymous · Answer

''I just feel worried becuase I've just been focusing on travelling all my 20a I didn't date at all ''

LOL, any fellas notice what she left out on this one? We aren't fooled!

It's too late to get a decent guy at any age... decent guys have either realized the juice is not worth the squeeze and walked, or they have turned into bad boys to meet the high demand for them...

JoVee · Answer

never too late, its just really hard at the moment for everyone. Covid etc. I mean I am in the same boat myself being 35. I stopped looking and just started focusing on myself. I don't care if I find someone or not but If I do and its a match in heaven then I am fighting for it.

I feel like trying to date and searching is like quicksand, the more you resist the faster you sink. Just do you. Best of luck!!!

Anonymous · Answer

Let's be realistic. On the one hand it's never too late, on the other that isn't an ideal age. If you've never been with anyone romantically or sexually then that helps, but the more partners you've had then more negatively that will affect the chances.

Try to have a good personality, be a cool person, and take an active role - find guys you like and use your face to make words at them like a real human being.

zagor · Answer

I know a lot of girls who got married > 30. Don't fret about it. The idea that you have to get married in your 20's, especially if F, is ridiculous.

Slartybartfast · Answer

Probably, most guys I know who wanted a real relationship gave up around 30 , the only guys I know past that age still dating are players you should avoid.

Anonymous · Answer

it's not to late. listen the person i love deeply with all my heart and soul is 29 and they have me they have my heart and soul and my very being. so that should give you some clue. and when this person smiles it's like heaven lighting up the sky it's complete magic. they're laugh is definitely one of a kind. and they have an ass that's to die for lol lol lol this person is a true angel right out of heaven and they're only 29 as well

Anonymous · Answer

Blunt answer is if what you've been unsuccessful up to this point them you might have to lower your standards a tad

JosyJosy · Answer

You should date instead of worrying, they're still out there, of the same age and looking

Anonymous · Answer

I fell in love multiple times in my late 30's after my marriage was over. I'm 41 now and I still feel my best years are ahead of me.

genericname85 · Answer

there's plenty single guys in that age group. and luckily for you: most men don't bring their children into the next relationship.

Anonymous · Answer

You shouldn't have slept around like a THOT. Now you hit the wall at 29. Hopefully no male simp Saves you. And you will become a clam licker for dykes

Yourfriend2021 · Answer

Well, it's not easy and there are lots of people like you. But you're not very old yet, so don't worry.

Anonymous · Answer

Don't give up yet, there is still time to find a decent guy.

anylolone · Answer

Lower your standards.

Miyasee_ · Answer

Worrying doesn't do anything so you have to try

Luckycharms12 · Answer

29 is young loads of time

Anonymous · Answer

How long have you been single now?

Dave576 · Answer

It's never too late

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