Has somebody ever tried to ruin you?

Question

Why would they do that?

MarkRet · Accepted Answer

The only person I can think of was a guy I knew in elementary, middle school, and high school. We were best friends for years, but sometime in middle school, he suddenly turned on me and treated me like the worst scum on the planet. I asked him what this was all about, and he said that since I wasn't dating girls, then I must be some kind of closet fag. I told him that I wasn't dating girls, but I wasn't going after guys either. He just snorted disgust, and walked away. After that, he'd insult me, lie to people about me, steal things out of my locker, look at me with disgust, whatever.

I was pretty insecure and socially backward at the time, and I didn't talk to girls because they'd usually make fun of me, and I figured they just didn't like me. After high school, I did a lot of growing up, moved away, broke out of a lot of shells, grew a lot more confident, and was dating girls, among other things. I even ended up getting married, and we had two daughters. I'm still married now.

As for that guy from high school, I never saw him again after graduation. Hopefully, he's dead and gone to hell.

Sohard · Accepted Answer

YUP. Because they are jealous of your attributes, jealous of the light you emit, jealous of the game you out forth, jealous of the energy you flow outwards, jealous of the people you attract or company that you keep, jealous of your swag, jealous of your achievements, Jealous of what you hold for valuables in life... And the need to see you lose it all.

LittleMissy93 · Accepted Answer

A girl I work with told guys not to speak to me because someone told her I was hotter than her 🤨 Super dumb and annoying but it caused me a lot of stress.

DizzyDesii · Accepted Answer

Yes and it didn't work. The majority still loved me so that hoe can go kick rocks and bite dust

Anonymous · Answer

She broke my heart, got pregnant with another man's kid, and then kept contacting me through different means (after being blocked) for over a year during this time to tell me how much she cared about me and regretted her life. Even after I told her I hated her, never wanted to hear from her again, and called her a good for nothing whore. She really did her damnedest to keep me from being able to maintain no contact and emotionally recover.

She ruined herself and tried to drag me down with her.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, systemic racism because of my Asian male background. It's those privileged white women who from when i was just a child have been continuously trying to prevent me succeeding in life and living the lifestyle they have.
Imagine being the fastest swimmer in school and instead being told to only swim at the shallow end with the younger kids or go home. Winning an health and safety award at school but being banned from being able to attend the award ceremony because of a false accusation. Achieving the highest score in maths but being put behind others and remaining in middle-set. Failing exams in a vocational subject by 1% whilst all the others just passed when they interrupted the exams by crying their eyes out. Being accused of all sorts and disadvantaged is a common theme in the West, and then they discuss statistics of the unprivileged and deprived to deny their human rights.

Anonymous · Answer

Absolutely, my ex wife destroyed me on every level including having me arrested and accusing me of being a pedophile. I found out later m, during our divorce, her feminist attorney told her to make this charge as she knew I would be arrested and charged without question. $25,000 on legal fees later I was fully exonerated. Why did she make the charge? She wanted the house during the divorce and I would not leave.

I confronted my ex and said "You have completely destroyed me".

Her answer:. "I know".

This is modern women.

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Yes!! My ex-sisters!!
Because they're fucking evil, greedy bitches!! I'd love it if someone set fire to their pubes and attached them to the back of a pick-up with fish hooks and dragged then a few miles on a cinder road with bits of broken glass all over the road!!
But I'm not bitter!

Anonymous · Answer

My ex wife completely ruined me, in fact I knew when she left it was only a matter of time till I ended my life because of her. I've never dated again or had a relationship since, I'm far to damaged.

Understand, I know she doesn't care, and would probably think it's funny. I haven't spoken to her or had any contact since the divorce, I'm just sticking around because I can't do that to my mom who is in poor health.

Tunasub · Answer

My ex has tried and I believe is still trying to ruin me.. I've caught her trying to set me up to get arrested several times..

I forget who posted the question about gut instinct. It was my guy instinct that told me to get out of that situation each time and each time I was questioned by the police about things that she had tried to say that I did or was involved in..

Andres77 · Answer

Jealousy.
And I don't know why. I'm a nice guy. That my boss and his boss hated me and were looking for ways to fire me... didn't give me counsel nor advice... just shitty men.
Despicable really.

It's not fair. You have to operate in the system. Sometimes you just have to take it. It sucks... but it will pass.
Hang in there and don't give them any other excuses to bully you.
Good luck.

Jake99999 · Answer

Okay folks, if you are going to answer this and give everyone a formula for how to ruin you…. I don’t think it’s a good idea. Lol. Keep it to yourself. If someone wants to ruin you, at least make
them work for it. Lol

AngelMegumin · Answer

For the lulz of it, also boosts ones ego quite effectively.

chriscdi · Answer

I wouldn't know cause I wasn't aware if they did, God might just be protecting me without me even knowing

Sam_The_Savage · Answer

Yes so many times but they failed always... It's always fun to watch people spend their important time in ruin me. I loved it.

Browneye57 · Answer

The realm of WOMAN. And why our rule is you don't stick your dick in BSC.

legalboxers · Answer

because they are miserable bastards who are unhappy and want to bring you down with their miserable selves.. FUCK THEM

TheAfrikan · Answer

I do always come across them but am strong to push on.

Anonymous · Answer

Yes, they were trying to extort me for money. But you can't give into them because they will only come back for more money.

Cozybcuz · Answer

What does that even mean?

stevie123 · Answer

Yes They were jealous

karaspara · Answer

several have tried none have succeded

TallAnon · Answer

No, or if they did; they did a terrible job at it.

Hanrej · Answer

Most likley. I pay them no heed.

scooogy · Answer

emotionally or in what ways?

Nikki6t6 · Answer

Yeah

anylolone · Answer

Yes.

Fuentes · Answer

Nah ill end them

Loserboi23 · Answer

Yes and they did..

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