Ps: He is 23 and I am 21, if you guys are wondering
I like my manager, what should I do?
Ps: He is 23 and I am 21, if you guys are wondering
As human beings we can be drawn to someone we know it is impossible or dangerous to have. That is part of the attraction.
Try and take a step back and look at your scenario as if you were a third party in all of this. How would you advise her to proceed?
I would honestly tell myself to just do it. We only live once and waiting for opportunities to get to you is kinda a waste, instead go for those opportunities and live with no regrets. Be brave and just go for it!! Sadly I am not as brave as I used to be so even if I tell myself this I know I won't do it. I want him to take the first step if he even likes me or thinks something about me.
I honestly thought you would advise against it as your job relies on everything going how you planned, but is that not worse?
To actually believe the right course of action is to do something rather than sit back and tell yourself it is a bad idea, but then be too scared to take that action?
So tell me how do you behave in front of him like nervous , awkward and have u observe that you and he can't meet eyes for more than a sec...
Answer this will tell u of he knows u like him or not?
Yes, I always get nervous and awkward in front of him and this is the thing I can talk perfectly fine with my other coworkers/managers expect for him, and I think he notices because sometimes when it's just me and him at some point he always has the habit of asking me "(my name) do you hate me?" And well of course I answer him with a no and I proceed to tell him that I actually like him.
The answer to your other question is I can never meet eye contact with him I've tried and I always end up looking away or I force myself to remain eye contact as for him I'm not so sure I've just noticed that he does remain the eye contact but he always tends to smile/laugh, so I don't know what that would mean? Sorry for the long reply.
This always happens when you devlop feelings for anyone, coz it's been rightly said that eyes are the mirror of your soul, you can hide everything but eyes will tell you everything if you have feelings for anyone. That's why we can't hold eye contacts with the people whom we like. And being awkward and nervous is also... the process of same... coz when we are hiding any feelings wid someone so Naturally we would be nervous and awkward around them.
Now this behaviour of urs has must have given a hint to that guy that u might have feelings for him. It would be like a suspense to both of you... till anyone of you would confess to each other...
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Ask him out for a date or transfer to another site.
I could NEVER I barely have the guts to even talk to him. I feel like the way he sees me is as some quite girl, I wish he could see the other side of me which is completely opposite of what I seem like. I'm just to insecure of myself and I have no courage
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