
I don't like guys of my race. Is this racism?

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Racism is when you are bigoted. You harbor a negative stereotype toward all people of a particular race.
But it's not racism to have a sexual preference for a certain body type, culture or ethnicity. Everyone has a sexual preference.
I happen to be attracted to certain types of women. It has nothing to with racism. My preference isn't even set in stone.
I don't stereotype people or have negative feelings about any race or culture. People are people. We're one race - the human race.
Ehh,, would need to know a little more info to voice an honest opinion.
Though as a whole, I would say not. Some people don't have a problem with being friends of the opposite or same gender of them that is of the same race, but prefer to be in an intimate/sexual relationship with someone of the opposite race. It's just something that turns them on.
Look at it this way.
What about is it discriminatory against the handicap because you don't want to be involved in an intimate or sexual relationship with someone because of a handicap? A war veteran who lost a partial or full limb?
It could very well be because of one's age and experience that they feel inadequate to be able to care for and assist the person when needed. But is much more willing to help that person with getting in/out of the car and go shopping for groceries.
So does that make the person a bad person or discriminatory against those who are handicap?
Not really.
Honestly racism isn't really a thing.
People generally don't hate people over ones race or skin color, they hate them because of some generalization.
Example: A white person may be afraid of a black person. It's not because they're black... but because they could potentially be a gang member/criminal/etc.
It doesn't make it any less wrong, but it's not totally non-understandable.
Stereotypes are not universally true, but they based on a fact for many.
So, it's probably not that you don't want to be in a relationship with someone of your own race... but maybe some generalized behavior/quirk/etc that you dont like about people in your own race.
As for me, I'm a brown girl. My boyfriend is a white guy. 😂 We get along well together and have lots in common.
no its not Racist at all. people are different and everyone has a taste and preference.
i never felt attraction to guys in my country and all my bfs were outsiders so its totaly fine as long as you dont hate or judge someone based on his race... love is something else you are free to love who you like
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Being racist is claiming that one race is superior to another.
If you have a preference for men of other races it's fine, as long as you're not going around putting down your own race.
Go after what you're attracted to without disrespecting or degrading the races you aren't attracted to.
No not at all look when we were all born we got a gift the gift was a choice no matter what we do in life every second one making a choice it has nothing to do with color it has something to do with your happiness people are going to say what they want to say if I was you I'd really care less this isn't about what people think this is about your happiness and I think you should do what you want to
Of course. What kind of nonsense is that?
1. Race is fake.
2. How the hell can race tell you about how a person will behave?
3. Maybe you could at least attempt to be more accurate. Maybe you don't like guys who are in your cultural/ethnic grouping.
It still depends on the specific reason. For example if you just find certain skin color less attractive than another, then it's not racism. But if you refuse to date them because you assume they all posses some unwanted personality trait because of their skin color, that'd be racism.
It's sounds more like only having a preference but do you have any reason on why you would be so reluctant to not date men of your race? Like just imagine you met a guy who was make you happy and they treat you really good but here is the problem he is also part of your own race. Would you not want to be with him because he isn't in your race preference?
No racism is when you dehumanized or generalize all people of a race and won't give them a job or an education provided they are qualified. Or like when you're children and your dad won't let them come to your birthday party.
No it’s only racism when you make one race better than the other and or hate your own race because of non valid reasons. I date outside my race because I prefer it.
Racism is a hatred towards a certain race. That does not sound like you.
You just like what you like, which as the other ladies have said so far is preference.
Preferences are not racist, they aren’t homophobic, or transphobic or sexist. Preferences are aspects of attraction that you cannot change. Embrace them.
I don’t like ladies of my race (East Indian) I don’t know why but they don’t turn me on, while ladies of other races (Especially Asian ) just do it for me, could b East Indian people have too much of a lousy attitude
It’s not racist. But it’s not a preference, it’s called a mandate if you absolutely would never date a guy from your race * people need to learn vocabulary
No, it isn't. You just have a preference. That is not being racist. You have the right to chose who you want to date and who you don't want to date.
No. Not wanting to date someone of a particular race is NOT racism in and of itself, it is preference, regardless of whether that race is your own or otherwise. No one has the right to date someone else if that someone isn't willing.
The fact that you're finding it so difficult to explain that you have a racial preference in terms of dating makes you come across as a racist, but don't worry - I know that you're actually just an idiot
No, that's not racist, it's just a preference. What would be problematic is being openly disdainful of them.
It's not racist, it's just what you like. I like men of my race. But for really turning me on in sex, I prefer another race. It is what it is 🤷🏻♀️
That’s a personal preference. Like I don’t like the extra white guys, I like the whites guys that are a little street smart mixed with successful
Most people would say yes. But that's because people don't understand what racism really is anymore. You simply have a preference that you are attracted to. Try not to worry about what people think is "racist" or not.
I personally prefer caucasian or latina women to other races. Dating preference is not racism.
No, but they probably don't want to be in a relationship with you either. Hence you're deflecting, and ashamed.
I don't know but im guessing you are white and like black guys right? Lol. It's not uncommon for a white girl to like to watch some big black dick sliding in and out of her lol
honestly it depends on the race because some have undesirable behaviors and you would be understandable for not wanting to date those behaviors
other times without cultural problems within the race yea its different
I'm blonde, blue eyes Viking and I have dated and/or fucked tons of Asian women, most of them say they hate Asian guys.
I think i did the same and i don't care what people think of me.
That's literally the basics of how attraction works. Don't over think it.
Lots of women aren't attracted to guys of their own race it's nothing abnormal or even racist.
No, racisism is HATE towards another race, you simply prefer a certain race, that doesn't mean you hate the races you don't prefer
Nothing unusual there, many people aren't attracted to their own race. It's just personal preference
I wouldn't worry about it, you like to date that is your preference
Racism is due to a conscious action, a preference is not a conscious action. Not liking ice cream isn't an offence to ice cream.
Everyone is entitled to a preference, its not racist. You are discriminating against anyone.
Short answer. It is called preference!
It has only become racist in the last decade.
Nothing wrong with that. A lot of people don't like their own race.
No it’s a preference. But a preference can be built on racism. So the answer would depend on why you aren’t attracted to guys of this race.
You have that choice as long as you didn't hit the wall yet be wise with your choices
Go watch Kendra at the Crimson Cure and figure it out
I feel that way too because they have chubby faces 🥺
No because I'm not attracted to women of my race. I can be their co worker or bandmate, but I'm not romantically interested in my own.
Date whoever you want and love it's your life and choice in the end.
It's messed up. You should desire men of your own race. It's only natural.
I guess it depends why you dont like people of your own race. If its a toxic cultural thing than i dont blame you.
It's more preferable than racism. You mind if I ask what race it is?
Haha, no... You are just not attracted to them, not your type
You're black, aren't you?
not at all, everyone has their types
No it’s not racist, it’s just what you prefer
No, that's not racist.
I believe it's called your personal preference.
No it's just a personal preference
No. It’s preference…….
Preferences aren't racist.
No its your preference
So you're def indian or Asian right?
Most people know the difference, my ladyfriend is Vietnamese and she is Asian, I’m brown my ancestors are from India , I consider myself an East Indian, even if India is an Asian country, I don’t consider myself Asian, Japanese, Vietnamese, Filipino, Chinese…. are Asian, people try to think of themselves as too clever sometimes
Most people in UK call Indians, Bangladeshis, Pakistanis Asian. And Chinese Malaysians or the rest just Chinese. While in China people call Chinese, Korean and Japanese fancy Asian, and the rest, darker skin Asians are labelled as Jungle Asians. So every place has its own terminology. Thus in an international discussion it would be just simpler to stick to geography. Asia is a continent not an ethnicity.
Ita 0k try to find peace young lady
I think it's just your preference
Its a preference. But do you like white guys?
You must be white
No I don’t either
No, its not
No it’s just weird
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