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It just means you have a type. Before I was with my wife for a long time my type was white women with large breasts and low self-esteem. Much more likely to find subs in that category, and if not they at least look good for a bit.
Now I'm infected with that yellow fever, which previously I had little to no interest in. Things happen as they happen, you have your preferences, and why would you try to change them? It's better to know what you want, even if it can make things more difficult or inconvenient.0
I am attracted to guys who look totally different from me.
There’s something about the difference that excites me, I am white brunette dark brown eyed, in my family everyone else has blue/green eyes other than my dad.
I tend to be attracted to blond blue eyes guys and from my experience they like me as well.
And when I traveled to Asia, I found out I am also attracted to Asian guys.
Both of then look different from me and that’s what makes me attracted to them,
for the black men I can’t say much, I haven’t been exposed to them enough, being from Eastern Europe, you can’t see many black guys here.0
Racist? No. But i’d question how you can’t find even one guy of your own race attractive enough to date someday. Sure there's preferences but in the back of my mind, I’d think you kinda hate being the race you are. Thats just personally what goes through my head when i hear people say stuff like that. They get all self-hating and act ashamed of what they are. But hopefully thats not your case... I have dated some of every ethnicity/race but I will always love my own just as equally if not as much. Thats just me personally 🤷♀️0
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I’m extremely attracted to Chinese guys physically but culturally and morally, we’re not compatible cause I’m too religious for the average Asian guy.0
Nope , it does not make u a racist. But thinking or saying sth about them like they are bad , they do not deserve living , I hate them , I wish them to die of suffering of sth , they all are the same or so on... makes u a bloody racist at the maximum level. The other things are ur preferences u can be attracted to one person's appearances much more than the other one , that can be normal , at least not a wrong thing to me if u do not differentiate or differ them from the other people. But u fistly need to pay attention to the people's personality , I think , cuz in every race we may find the people we could be attracted to , but when it comes to personality we could also find it but their amount is really really limited or low anymore , unlike the past , unfortunately. So the rarer a thing is the more precious it is , almost always in a good way , right?0
Ofcourse not. Rascism has nothing to do with the persons who you are attracted to or not.
Rascism is when you minor a certain race and considering them as less important or less worthy then other races. We are all humans with the same basic needs in life to no race is biggerz better, stronger or more important then other races! We are all equal! When you are a rascist you say things or do things to a certain race because you feel like they are a minority compared to your own race but it has nothing to do with being attracted to certain races or not0
Your not a racist and it's ok to have preference of other race attractions but at the same time don't rely on your preference because you can miss out by finding the One for you and learn to have an open mind to give others a chance especially if you getting approached by your own race (sometimes it takes time). I am African American male, I love all cultures races of women, and I use to date outside my race (I dated mostly Caucasian woman) a whole lot because black women were hard to get back then and I gave up on them for a while but now I am engaged to an African woman because she is the one.0
Lol no. Being a racist would mean you discriminate against your race (or other races). You oppress them, wants to murder them for fun, vote for a political party that passes laws taking their rights away, etc
Racial preferences aren’t racist. They may have racist undertones (depending). You know based on the past and all but overall, still not racist
You’re fine. You can be physically attracted to whoever you like. And it definitely isn’t the end of the world10
You can be attracted to whom ever you choose to be attracted to.
Also attraction can change over time. As you grow older and mature. Change as a person, your likes, dislikes change. So just go with it, don’t worry so much.
Your not hurting anyone. As long as the people you like and are attracted to are treating you well and with respect, it doesn’t matter if they are white, brown, purple or green!
It’s all about happiness!0
Look to me only dating within our race is kind of like taking a kid to a ice cream shop and forcing them to vanilla ice cram on a plain cone. Sure some people are fine with vanilla ice cram on a plain cone and that's fine for them. But if you want to try a different flavor ice cram or cone, do it.0
no it doesn't, and if it does, it who cares. if's your life.
where that comes from might be interesting exploration. If you had trauma with other races, maybe you trauma bonded to them. Attraction is sub conscious, not always good. Maybe it's genetics at work. often opposites draw so someone very light my draw to someone darker as example.
As long as it isn't a problem for you then whatever. If it's something you want to change about yourself, then you have to dig deeper.0
People will try to pick this apart and maybe make it sound like you are my opinion is no you're not you like what you like and there's nothing wrong with that you are not ignorant do you believe in what you believe in for a reason and that you should be happy no matter what that is not racism that is love toward yourself and anybody else that you love0
we're all part of the human race regardless of skin color or ethnic group. because a young healthy male and a young female female. that have enough unprotected sex together are likely to end up making a child. provide they have mostly vaginal sex and he cums inside her that is.0
What race? The Daytona, Indianapolis 500, Boston marathon, Ironman Triathlon, Tour de France... America's Cup, Kentucky Derby. GIRL keep your mind on the race.
Race: a competition between runners, horses, vehicles, boats, etc., to see which is the fastest in covering a set course0
Guys of your race? What is that supposed to mean? You like Klingons or something?
How about guys of your "culture"? That would be much more understandable.173
No, it doesn't. It's a preferance. It would be racism if you activly thought guys of your race don't deserved to date, that they're lesser and therefore no one should date them. That's racism.
There's a lot of people who would try to guilt you into being intimate with them throwing around words like racist, sexist, transphobe or whatever. Don't fall for it.0
Not at all. You have your preferences and you don't have to explain or justify them.
They need to make sense to who you're dating though, if they are fine with it, so be it.
Be you and be happy.0
It's Ok Whites have plenty options , one less wouldn't matter 😆.
Go live your life don't worry about racism , it doesn't matter.
The real question would be how would you adjust to a different culture1
I don't think that it makes you racist. Personally I'm married to a man of my own race, but my eyes do wander, and I fantasize about men of a different race.0
You have no control over who you fall in love with it's out of your control. So nothing wrong to love guys outside of your race. My ex husband was Hispanic.0
Im physically attracted to other white girls. But they treat me like dirt.. I'm more attracted to Asian girls now physically and mentally.
I understand white men were historically mean to their wives. I think black people could relate. So it makes sense they would get together.0
Nope. It makes you a person.
But it's important to remember that just because you like another group. Doesn't mean that other group must also like you.0
Nah its honestly just preference. Can't help what you're attracted to. Long as you aren't putting down men that are your race then it's fine. You're not racist.0
You might just want to exclaim you have a preference and stop with the blanket statements because you might not be a racist but you do cone off ignorant. white brown tan extra dark. Albino shouldn't have anything to do with what your after directly let me explain if you are saying that for instance the man you most recently dated would not be attractive to you had the pigment of his skin been as light as yours then you have a fetish and why you have a fetish is ttpically linked to some irrational taboo beleif fantasized about and built upon an absolute direct defiance to whoever assisted in shapeing your mind and moral circuutry because it shouldn't have any impact on you one way or another whether or not someone is or is not black now you like what you like nothing wrong with that i dont judge anyone for nothing you do you or you lnow what i mean if your after satisfaction for the stigma then dissapointment will fall on you and if your about satisfying social awareness. , or about the thug persona or the stereotypes or racial and cultural ideologies or bias preferance... If your curious. about what it is that prevents you from finding attraction to a guy who shares your pigment its the comoany you keep around yourself and its the image you gravitate towards its the role model you hold in your head you know the one you wish that you were that role model in your head keeps you from being able to let each person just be themselves eo your ego and your desires limita you and unless you think its a problem and would like to not contribute ignorance further in your life in regards to self responciibility to get to knowing yourself loving yourself and then represent with comfort not confusion not ignorantly. Good luck you aren't racist unless you know you are