Guys, Why won't men date me because I am a black woman?

[jujubee8090]

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[DWornock]

Obviously, if this black girl snaps her fingers, almost all guys will come running:

Therefore, it is not only because you are black. 20% of a woman's attractiveness is based on color so being black may reduce your attractiveness by 20% but not more than that. 80% of the reason men don't date you is your intelligence and education, your attitude, your personality, overly high standard, and of course your looks, with looks and your standards being the primary reason.

You are certainly attractive enough for average-looking guys to date you. However, you are not attractive enough to attract the top 20% and likely not the top 30% and possibly not the top 40%. However, absolutely you can attract most guys that are not in the top 40% which obviously is more than half. Therefore, if your minimum standard are men in the to one-quarter, you are not likely to be successful.

[jujubee8090]

Wait? Why am I not attractive enough?

Most people I know think I am pretty

[jujubee8090]

Also I prefer how I look to how the woman you posted looks. I like me nose, face shape and coloring better.

Also that picture is heavy heavily edited. And not even phone filters, like I mean professional edited.

[DWornock]

Regardless of what you and likely most women think or claim they believe, almost all men would prefer the girl in the photo that I posted.

You are in and above the top 40% of your age group and most people would say that is pretty. You may be in the top 1/3rd and possibly borderline top one-quarter. However, in my opinion (I'm often wrong) you are not in the top 20% and certainly not in the top 10% but the girl I posted is.

Regardless if you are a 6, the top 40 percentile, an 8 the top 20 percentile or even if you are higher, there are men you can date and men you can marry. However, when a girl says guys won't date her, she means guys that meet her standards will not date her, and the guys below her standards that would date her don't count.

If you are a 6, you can date an 8 for sex but you can't marry an 8. If you are an 8, you can date a 9 for sex but not a 10 and you can't marry a 9.

[jujubee8090]

You aren't saying I am that low. Other men on here don't agree with you.

This is your opinion of my rating.

Ratings are subjective. That's why most men I know have a binary rating. Yes or No.
Once someone is attractive, it's up to taste.

Again, I don't have high self-esteem but I prefer how I look to how that photo looks.

[jujubee8090]

That photo is heavily filtered. that's not even how skin looks, it's very very heavy. She is wearing fake eyelashes, her eyes are uneven.

How about show a nice candid photo of a black woman you think is a 10, not a heavily Photoshopped picture.

[MCheetah]

Because you're (very likely) only going after super-attractive white men.

You've posted before. Assuming you're not catfishing or just simp-fishing so guys can compliment you, you're a very attractive girl with huge boobs. Though the drunk Imgur videos (with no volume) aren't flattering. Stop going after 10 out of 10 men and start going after men based on personality.

Also, how tall are you? You look tall.

[Mofunfour20]

Solid advice

[jujubee8090]

@Mofunfour20 Well no. I am not that girl from England on the other thread who thinks she is super hot and better than other women and thinks most women are jealous of me.

However when they are it is unpleasant so it's nothing to brag about.

[Mofunfour20]

@jujubee8090 *crickets chirping *

[MCheetah]

@jujubee8090
How tall are you?
And what are your standards in men?

[jujubee8090]

I am 5'6"-5'7" which where I live is not tall and is an ideal height where I live.

But when I lived in places like New York, people were short.

[NamerOfStars]

Because you keep asking the same question. If guys want someone who only says one thing, they'll just date a pokemon.

[jujubee8090]

Team Rocket's Meowth can talk. SlowKing can talk, many of the legendary Psychic types can talk.

[jujubee8090]

What was your answer the first time.

No other Pokemon has big boobs like me except Jinx, but that Pokemon is a racist caricature.

[Mofunfour20]

I sense an attention deficit from the question. Men will have sex with socks, you already know this. Be happy and a happy guy will find you. Train yourself to be a wife and you will become one. Preparation is always key, you already know this

[Deepinthought345]

Oh god!! The same 2 pics!! I don't think you are unattractive because you are black or have big boobs.. I think you get obsessed with a thought and are not willing to move on. You need to chill.

[jujubee8090]

so then why am i unattrative?

[Deepinthought345]

No one is saying you are unattractive other than you. I find you extremely attractive. I think most men here will agree that you are attractive physically. But you are getting obsessed over this thought. You share the same 2 pictures saying that men find you unattractive. Attraction is not just about looks, it is also about intelligence. It is how you present yourself to the world. How your body looks is just a part of it. Not the whole thing.

[jujubee8090]

so boobs aren't enough?

[Deepinthought345]

Ok.. Let me put it this way. If you are attracted to a man and you want to get to know him better but the only thing he talks about is how his car is not good enough the whole time. Do you think that is attractive?

Your boobs from the two pics you've shared look amazing. We want to get to know you better. But all the questions you've posted here are the same 2 pictures and the same question.

You are very attractive!!

[Jake99999]

I don’t think it’s because you are black. I suspect there are other reasons.

[Wester1967]

Please go check out Kendra D at The Crimson Cure on YouTube.

[MCheetah]

DAMN! That's harsh, LOL!

[TheFlak38]

you definitely have thousands of men hunting you but they're all invisible to you because you want to do some alpha fucks.

[jasco]

Well now it just seems like you don't have any confidence in your worth. Theirfore people won't date you. You just give off depressing vibes

[anylolone]

I doubt that if they don't date you, that it's because you are a black woman.

But hey, you are the same chick with that trick. Smart move.

[davidhaller]

If someone dont like you just becouse of your skin color dont even talk with them. in my opinion you fine as hell and can not understand why aren't all the men araound you 24/7.

[Surely]

Are you referring to any race of men in particular?

[Grubhub]

Because you want a non black man and most black women date their own race

[Goodday7110]

Are you still active? You are unbelievably beautiful. Perfect face and amazing huge boobs! Please contact me, I would love to date you.

[genericname85]

i don't think that's the reason.

[jujubee8090]

then what is?

[genericname85]

I can't know that. I can only tell you that it's not your looks cause that's all i know about you.

[Saras2028]

Connect me on Whatsapp I love black woman..

[In_Trance]

stop posting this you troll

[Kevhanma]

Black women are bottom of the barrel

[jujubee8090]

I don't think I am "bottom of the barrel"

[Kevhanma]

Statistics say you are hun black women are the least desirable

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

I know lots of mixed couples. GET THE FUCK OVER IT

[jujubee8090]

Do you really? With black women in them?

[ItsMeItsMe1989]

yeah

[hakangirer]

you are so great you are so great

[Erron_Black]

Always same pics

[Anonymous]

I'd date you

[Anonymous]

I would date you.