How come, black guys don't want to date me, but always seem to be down to Fuck, or DON'T have the right intentions with me?

Erica686
So I've noticed, as I got older in age. I start attractive different types of guys. And my very 1st boyfriend was black. So I've always been attracted to them. But as time went on, I also dated guys that was none black. But anyways, I just DON'T understand at the age of (29) I keep running into the bad boys or the almost have way decent guys. But most of them, just want to Smash or to be entertained. And it seems like, I have a better chance of dating someone outside! but I'm not so much attractive to white guys, mexicans, Asians, or other. But, My preference is mixed guys. But I haven't had much success with that department. A lot of mixed guys, usually go after the other mixed girls or white and some have played games. But over all, I have had met some pretty cool, mixed guys then and then. But anyways, with my own kind: they typically don't want to date me, :(. But I see some with some ugly ass girls, and I'm like - how did she get him, but I'm over here looking crazy wanting a black guy to commit to me. This shit, is getting out of hand! I mean. I DON'T discriminate or anything! but as a African American girl. I always stuck with my own kind and always felt that it was more comfortable. But Nooo. Since I move from the Auburn Alabama, that's when I notice things started to change. It's even got to the point, that my past friends with benefits of 8 year is down with getting me pregnant. Wtf! No got damn commitment. He just wants some ass, smh. But any advice maybe I'm doing something wrong?
How come, black guys don't want to date me, but always seem to be down to Fuck, or DON'T have the right intentions with me?
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