Is it okey to feel this way or there is something not going right?

[Anonymous]

So i am dating this guy for like 7 months now we kissed several times and each time i get wet or just my face blushes.. we didn't meet at all during summer holidays and after we met again we kissed but this time i was only feeling his lips kissing mine i didn't feel any excitement or turn on or anything i even opened my eyes once while we re kissing.. is this normal?

[ChrisMaster69]

Yes it’s normal.
by not meeting there is none of the same feelings.

sometimes you have to either work on getting things back to normal and relight that fire..

or you move on, it’s really up to you and him to decide what next steps are.

Have you met up many times since summer?

[Asker]

We never met during summer we had a fight during it cause he went on holidays with my girl best friend instead of me besides he was like ghosting me at the worst time in my life when my mom and dad got divorced

[ChrisMaster69]

@ asker, yeah I can see why that emotional attraction has gone.

Really sorry about what you went through.

Him Ghosting you at that times is fucking low by the way.

I would seriously just dump him for just that.

[ChrisMaster69]

@ Pretty Pink Anon thank you for MHG most appreciated

[Wise4myage]

I think you lost interest in this guy, or you would still be turned on when you kissed.

[Asker]

Maybe that's true. I don't know what to do about it

[Wise4myage]

If you can't find that spark, than move on.

[boggboss]

Are u no longer attracted to him or like him?

[Asker]

Its been like a month we were apart and then we met and during that month he were like ghosting me and we had an argue

[boggboss]

So clearly u are not attracted to him any more lol

[boggboss]

Why do u think it would feel the same as before

[Gwenhwyfar]

Yes. You lost interest in him.