Am I wrong for feeling like this?

[Anonymous]

So a guy i met and talk to he seems nice and everything but he doesn't drive or have a job but he's looking. We live in two completely different states. I am kinda feeling sometype of way at the moment. He told me he jerked off the other day while we were on call, but he said he muted and didn't show anything of course. But it kinda made me feel disgusted? Am I weird for feeling this way? Like I don't know is this worth cutting things off?

[aaron13547]

No you are not wrong. I think the problem here is you feel disconnection from the ways he is trying to connect with you.

I think his actions are kind of weird myself. shaming him isn't the answer thou, i think thats where his problem comes from in the first place. He can't trust himself in how he connects with people, hence the mute and hiding it. Which only makes you feel weird about it after he did tell you... he is stuck in a weird cycle that fuels itself. I think you can see you dont want to be a part of that.

Everyone has to do the best we can for ourselves. We have to love ourselves enough to be attractive to another person. He is trying to skip loving him self and wants you to do it for him... the metaphor is literal, think about it.

[Anonymous]

Its weird and inappropriate if you don't have any sort of sexual relationship.

[In_Trance]

Is it worth cutting things off?
There's nothing here to hang on to