Well, it did happen to me. The only two times i got on a dating app i got waaay too many likes from old men, not so much from weirdos/friends with benefits. I think it's pretty common for that to happen but it also depends on the app you're using. If you want something serious maybe you should look on other places or on other apps for a starter.
Datingg apps are thirst traps. Avoid at all costs. Just flirt with those you pass at the gas station, grocery store, mall, video game store, movie theater, casino, park, school, church, fast food restaurant, etc. Works better than a dating app ever could and you know you’re not being catfished by appearance lol
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There is many weirdos that are after women and men. As a man myself, i understand what women go through. All those unsolicited pics, requests, or offers. I usually get messages from fake accounts pretending to be women and then sending me a link. I never click on those links as i know what they are.
You aren't the only woman to be going through that. If you are on online websites, you will encounter that numerous times until eventually someone will be different. But by then, many give up dating sites for the same reason, weirdos. Older men will have that tendency to go after younger women but its up to you how you want to deal with it. There is a blocking option for a reason.
I don't use dating apps, but that's kind of what I expect to be on there. It's just more of the internet and that's also what the internet is full of. lol But surely there's something worthwhile in there. Deep down, buried behind the walls of weird.
Dating apps haven't really been for dating for a long time. Personally I don't believe in starting a relationship online, too artificial. Love should be found IRL.
Social media is fake advertising and voyeurism. Voyeurism was never considered healthy or normal but it has been normalized by abnormally normal "social media". Social media is an abnormal dream world. Live in the real world. It has screwed up dating and courtship too.
simply because they can hide behind their phones...
Yes, this has happened to me too. Honestly, I don't know why, but it sucks so much ://.
Yes, it's happened to me but not all of them are weird
u Because thats hows nearly everyone dates these days
Cause.. The internet and dating apps are weird
They're full of desperate people who can't find someone in real life... Like me..
Maybe I should try a dating app...
you should go on the better pay sites.
They will work to keep the "wierdos" out, and if there is a problem they take care of it.
You tend to get a better clientele on those sites.
as a I see it the reason that there seem to be so many weirdos online is that it´s way easier to live their weirdo character than offline.
It is even worse with women. Only weird women on there. The good ones are taken so we have to search the trash.
The internet is like the wild west. Why would you think there would not be weirdos. You are ringing the dinner bell for weirdos.
As time goes on it gets more difficult for these people to find companionship in everyday life. More of them then there are of you. Think about that for a hot minute.
Yes when I was using a dating app lots of older women were hitting on me
As a guy, as long as you don't look like a 9 or 10 no women will respond to you. If you're a 7 or 8 and you're not a pickup artist, no women will respond.
There are weird women on there as well
They're many of the people you see in everyday life. You just don't realize they're weirdos when you pass them on the street.
Most guys aren't geniune on dating apps , my advice would be to dont search dating apps if you want something serious
Because they either play the field as much as possible or can't get it elsewhere.
Don't you know that's where weirdos live. Be careful.
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