Is it normal for a guy to fall so madly for another girl when he's about to get married?

[Anonymous]

[btbc92]

No. No such thing. Unless they've known each other for eons and he ALWAYS loved the other girl. It is just a guy wanting an excuse to cheat on his finance, and then when he's done with you, he will rebound on another girl by cheating on you with her and claim how it didn't work out and all the women he pursues are "crazy". Girl, just move on and stop falling for the okkie doke! He has no morals! Would you date and get married to a guy like that? Don't be weak like that. Develop yourself as a woman, guard your heart and mind. Do not get desperate for a man. If a man wanted to be with you, he would. And he would not be trying to two time, different women.

[Asker]

Nah he's an old school friend of mine we haven't done anything but yeah he should be saying those things 🙈

[btbc92]

Then that goes to show you what kind of "Friend" you have. If he really wanted that with you, he would have. But he is with somebody else and hurting another person while making you confused.

[Asker]

He just told me a few days ago I think he's in such a massive deep hole

[btbc92]

There is no hole. He is a man who can make his own choices. He doesn't need you to hold his hand like a baby. He's grown. He needs to be a man and make up his own mind. Because like I said, he would have been with you a LONG AGO.

[Asker]

I came in the picture just last summer while I live another country I didn't give him signs of interest then either

[btbc92]

So stay out of it. He is going to try to use you, anyway.

[Asker]

I did distance myself he's the one that obsessed with me said from another friend and looking up my social media

[btbc92]

Asker, so you know what you do?:

Block and have him deleted.
If he insisted, have him reported.
Tell your mutual friend to stop telling him about your business, or bringing him up around you, or they will be blocked also.
If the problem still insist, call police and warn that he will be reported for harrassment.

[btbc92]

Asker, so you know what you do?:

Block and have him deleted.
If he insisted, have him reported.
Tell your mutual friend to stop telling him about your business, or bringing him up around you, or they will be blocked also.
If the problem still insists, call the police and warn them that he will be reported for harassment.

[Asker]

The last thing he said he was going to sleep and he will text me tomorrow

[btbc92]

Uh no, he will not. You cut that guy out completely. If you do not, then you're seeking attention if you don't want to call the cops. If it was me, friend or not friend, he would be reported.

[Asker]

Yes I absolutely need to sort this out. Well on Sunday I'm moving away to uni about 3 hours away. he's fallen into this small town mentality there is fuck all to do here no wonder he's gone weird

[Toldol2]

Why getting married when you are not ready and sure about what you want. That’s the problem with the rythm of our life , time goes by , we age but we don’t grow

[Asker]

I feel like people in small towns have this believe they atent good enough or achieve a really good goal

[Wise4myage]

No, that's not normal and I feel sorry for his fiance. She deserves to know.

[Asker]

He should of kept dating around at least if he wasn't quite sure

[Wise4myage]

Yeah, I agree.

[Asker]

he's gonna be one miserable cunt and shame on the girl aswell lots of hurt I think

[Aurora1010]

I guess he can't control it but he should tell his girlfriend and let her find the right man for her

[Asker]

It's a tad bit fucked up since he's having a kid soon next year 🙈 he should of kept dating around until he was more happy

[Anonymous]

No and I feel so sorry for the woman that is about to marry him.

[Asker]

He should of just dated around a bit instead of making these big proposals and having a kid next year. What a crazy thing to think at this stage in the game 🙈🙈

[Opinion Owner]

He wants his cake and to eat it too. He wants a wife and a lover on the side. He knows what he's doing.

[Asker]

He asked if I was seeing anyone and he said he will be jealous of my future boyfriend

[Opinion Owner]

"future boyfriend" that shows he knows there's an ending coming. Yeah, he wants to be the one and only that you are seeing because this is all about his needs and wants. He's checking in to make sure you're still all about him.

[Asker]

Yeah he trying to figure out who I'm dating probably why he is asking thats really stupid since he is engaged

[Opinion Owner]

I agree it is stupid. It is also none of his business. if he was really into loving a person, he wouldn't have his soon to be wife in this position and he wouldn't put you in your position either. He'd choose one woman and be all about that woman.

[Revna]

Totally normal...
DUDE!!! No! GTFO! Lols...

[In_Trance]

Needs to reevaluate his life

[Asker]

I'd say a bit late to be saying this at this stage in the game

[In_Trance]

Clearly not. This trash fire that he's living in right now won't go on forever

[Asker]

Do you think it will end soon?

[In_Trance]

Fuck yea

[Asker]

Absolutely crazy if him to get into such deep shit since it costs a lot of money

[In_Trance]

Happens to lots of people. has nothing to do with the cost

[The_Naughty_Guy]

Nope

[Asker]

Why is he getting married then