My boyfriend sent nudes to another woman can I work this out?

[Anonymous]

We’ve been together 2 years now and I did love him. I downloaded his snap chat history and about 5 months into our relationship he was sending dick pics to another girl. He always seemed so devoted and I’m crushed. I found out through downloading his data from SC. There’s been no interaction with anyone else since and we were having a rough spell at the time. He says it was a stupid mistake and he ended it as soon as it started.

[Wise4myage]

If you've fallen out of love and can't rekindle it, than its time to move on. But if you think there is a chance, then give him one last go, but make sure he knows it will he his last.

[PrettyPriya]

I'm worried about what you said there. "We’ve been together 2 years now and I did love him". It is that "did love him". Do you not now? Makes a huge difference in my advice.

[Asker]

Thanks for replying!

I don’t know anymore. Before my life was perfect and we were so happy which made me head over heels. Now I’m very angry, hurt and disappointed in him. He made out he was perfect. He sent me flowers when I was sick, looked after me and always kept the sparkle side to him. Those first few months you get when you date where both put in so much effort never stopped for us. He fit perfectly in my family and is amazing with the kids but to find out he did this crushed me. He always seemed so into me but the mask has slipped. I would love to be carefree and in love with him as I was before but note I feel it’s all bull shit and our perfect relationship never existed. He was the first man I trusted in many years and let myself go with. I don’t know what to do anymore or if things could go back or be fixed

[Asker]

Everyone said he loved me and the kids so much and he was great but I feel like it’s all a lie

[PrettyPriya]

No problem! My advice is to take some time to really think about if you could ever see yourself loving him again. If you can't come to the conclusion of "yes" then time to move on, no matter how much it hurts.

You will only end up hurting whenever the bad memories creep up, and they will. It sounds from your response that this is a real possibility. I know he seemed perfect, but like everyone, he wasn't.

Just so happens his imperfection is a big one. Never should he have done that. Sounds like the probability of it happening again may be high as I'm guess that was not his first time.

Also seems as if you don't trust him. I wouldn't. And, if you don't have trust in a relationship, you don't have a relationship at all. Hope this helps.

[Asker]

Thankyou

[PrettyPriya]

Thank you for MHG 🙏

[Paris13]

Give him another Chance at Romance. But Buyer Be---Wary Here, dear... xx

[Paris13]

Thanks to Gag, xx

[Pterodon]

Nope. It’s over