Why do these European men sexualize Arab women but at the same time leave racist comments on them?

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Now before I start, I’m just a simple Arab girl and I live in a liberal Arab gulf country, I have been to Europe only for tourism but nothing more so I don’t know much about the European mentality I guess. Before a few minutes, I come by accident into a bunch of european accounts on Twitter, most of them are French, and few Spanish and British. Now I understand; since Europe now in their powerful century, and Arabs are in their dark ages, some european look down on Arabs and oriental people in general, but I have never known it’s into that extent. These guys tweet over 10 tweets everyday and their accounts it’s all about objectifying and sexualizing middle eastern girls. They will for example post a picture for a Muslim Arab girl and says” a sand n** sucking a french cuc*’s solider , they mean about the colonization“ or “ a Saudi girl giving the British soldier her milk, and only the oil etc “ maybe 1000 tweets all about Arab, Indian, African, and Chinese girls and it’s the same story😂🤣. And they would call my race the inferior.
I honestly was never that interested in having sex with them, not because I hate european or anything like that, but I’m just into men from my own culture and not especially after all these racist comments. But what shocked me is how they are sexualizing middle eastern women but at the same time leave mean comments? It’s only just to humiliate Arab or African men maybe? 😳 and if it’s only to underestimate Arab men, why are they that angry? Is it because some Arab men marry white girls? I understand some Arab men like to try it with white girls but the majority of them just stick into a girl from his culture. Also many Arab men try with different races, not only white? .
Let me know your opinion on that matter, and I really felt sorry for every Arab, Indian, North African etc girl who is forced to live in Europe whether because poverty or war 💔.

t-8900 · Accepted Answer

Ah you only see one aspect of it. It's all rooted in racism and it goes all the way around. You'll see the same thing on reddits, social media, porn sites, etc of black men and muslim men talking about "breeding out" the white race. there are some Imams who publicly preached forcibly taking white women and impregnating them aka RAPING THEM. You had the incident in UK with the grooming of 1,000+ minor girls by Muslim men who forced them into sex work and assaulted them. Yes these subjects do hit close to home for Europeans. It doesn't matter if these are exceptions rather than the rule because it's that crap that they see all the time. Just like how you see a few sickos attacking you.

At the end of the day are the vast majority of men doing these things from either side? No. And the vast majority of people no matter their race/color/creed just want to live their lives in peace. Part of it also is people coming to Europe and not assimilating, this is a big problem and you well know it would be the same if Europeans migrated to say your country in Jordan and wanted to bring and enforce their culture in your land. People talking about European Colonization, fair point. But The Caliphates were no different and invaded Europe too. Lets not pretend this is a cut and dry sort of thing. The Western Christian and Eastern Muslim worlds have had hundreds of years of bad blood between them. The radical people won't let that go so we just have to live with it and let it stay as it is. Don't mind what they say. And for what it's worth I'm sorry you experienced that. I too have experienced talk like this too.

Zygum · Accepted Answer

@Reemaa, according to your profile, you belongs to Jordan, being a Pakistani, I know too much about Jordan and other Gulf countries, I have been in 4 years in Kuwait and 16 years in Saudi Arabia, so I know their present and past very well. All Arab and Gulf countries are ruled by the Europeans, and still being ruled practically at present, by Americans and Britishers, so they consider, all Arabs are inferior and their slaves, so they have the right to fuck Arab girls and humiliate also. Some Arab men, merry European and American girls, but you don't know, how these girls behave them? like their sex Slaves. All Arab countries being rich in resources, cannot defend their countries and monarchs. All have signed Defence pacts with America and Britain for centuries. we other Muslims are ashamed of Slavery of Arab Muslims and their insult by their Masters, Now these Zanni Shuikhes are going to accept the slavery of Israel, betraying Palestinians. I hope you will understand, waiting your comments

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

It's called race play. It's a fetish. And it's not just guys who are guilty of it. Many Asian Indian Arab girls are into this race play. You are an exception

Shizunk · Answer

I do not think its about revenge for what arab men do, no connection whatsoever. Also, the majority of people of foreign origin living in Europe live there for positive reasons, not negative. Meaning they didn't flee war or anything, they just like the wealth, less often some aspect of culture.
There is a lot of debate recently on this odd phenomenon where people say the west is the worst, while standing in a line to get visa to go there, from completely safe countries, often its educated and wealthy individuals. How they fail to see the contradiction is fascinating.

The sexualization and racial tensions are targeted at absolutely all women out there, its just that for an average white western woman the sexual stuff and the racial part are not being discussed in the same thread and by the same people at the same time.
My impression is that in more conservative countries, it is not socially acceptable to talk about women publicly in that way, so demeaning and predatory behavior by men is more hidden. Ex muslim women fleeing to western countries often complain that it's such a taboo that nobody wants to even acknowledge it is happening when they bring it up.
In contrast, here in the west, toxic behavior is more on display, creating an illusion that it is more widespread. I have never heard anyone talk like that offline, in real life. When the feeling of anonymity is gone, nobody would dare say a fraction of what they write online.
The way I see it, you just get a glimpse into the minds of some people, which you would otherwise never see if they didn't feel safe being honest. But those thoughts, the bragging and sexualization and insults have always been there.

Anonymous · Answer

Perhaps this is the result of algoritums on Twitter trying to match content producers to content consumers?

Key words are flagged up and matched.

This sort of disrespectful, bragging sort of language is pretty common in young men and born out of insecurity i guess, wanting to be seen as successful / dominant with women by their peer group I guess. Its nothing what so ever to do with race.

Sexual interest in Arabian women specifically is not at all common about the only examples I can think of would be the sort of princesses you might find in a disney film.

Are these posts actually from the same people or do we all just look the same to you? ;)

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

I think it some type of fetish for most European men. Remember back in the day most white European has colonized literally everyone that they had considered as inferior to their own. In away it basically just them just sexualizing most minorities without actually giving them most proper respect and not treating them as actual people.

Guanfei · Answer

Are we talking about arabs girls in general, or just those who live in european countries?
Because it's very different. Many arab girls we have here are just easy, vulgar women acting like thugs or bimbos and that apparently attracts a lot of men because they're easy. Never understood that tbh.

jshm2 · Answer

They are just losers and incels. The type of dickheads who can accept Jewish, Arab, Chinese and other non-white girls dont view them on a pedestal.

You can laugh at them and tweet back they will only ever tweet at girls.. never meaningfully be with one.

anylolone · Answer

Have you heard of trolls?

One example is women who catfish as men to demoralize their competition, in this case usually sexual competition. (technically could even be men as well. As well as just general trolling, IE, just saying shit to get a response.)

Considering the volume I'm safe to assume it's bot/sock accounts. But to be honest, most of twitter is bots regardless of volume, lol!

genericname85 · Answer

It's usually. not the same people obviously. Peoole that have negative racial prejudice won't be sexually into them.

Morgador · Answer

Yeah that's disgusting and they don't deserve anyone.

Anonymous · Answer

We can do whatever we want.

Got a problem with it?

Well, GFY then and to hell with your candy ass boyfriend.

If I weren't dating a Superior Asian Girl at the moment, maybe I'd be f*cking some Arab girls.

Erron_Black · Answer

france is committing genocide but algeria speaks french. those countries are often racist. but they sell their clubs to arabs :D

zagor · Answer

There are people who are just dicks everywhere.

infamous7100 · Answer

Avoiding using Twitter to form your world view is probably a better use of your time.

Lisa_97 · Answer

the internet is full of morons

Leio123 · Answer

Thanks Reemaa , I like your opinion

Anonymous · Answer

Are you well traveled

Why do these European men sexualize Arab women but at the same time leave racist comments on them?

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