Why do European/White men not like Arab girls?

[Anonymous]

When I look around my school and on the street I often see Arab guys with European girlfriends but not the other way around. Arab men are very attracted to European girls while European men don't seem to be attracted to Arab girls at all. And I don't think it's that they only like European girls because I see white guys with Black or Latino or east Asian girls all the time. As an Arab girl this is obviously very sad to me. Especially because me and my family is very secular so I just feel more compatible with European guys. Im basically only approached by middle eastern and Arab men. This is not just how I see it either because statitsics show Turkish women (not Arab but still grouped together with us by europeans) are half as likely to marry a German man as a Turkish man is to marry a German woman. Why do you think it is like this? Is it because of physical attraction or something else? I know Arab women are stereotyped as manly looking.

[Maryluna911]

I'm a middle eastern women from iraq. I think it depends on your look. Not all Arab girls are pretty. Me personally i feel white men are the most shy at approaching an Arab girl in hijab. I get plenty of glances from them wherever i go and especially when i worked at the bank but i think they assume they can't talk to us because of our culture. I even had some say can I please say something or I hope you dont take this the wrong way when trying to compliment me. Now other races are a lot more forward. I think if Arab women took off hijab they would have no issues with most white men. Cause pretty is pretty and we have excellent figures as well but we cover it all up.

[lilmissumshine]

I don't know but I love me some white dick. i don't have a problem. yuuump black girl right here

[Regneir]

Depending on the country.. I have a British friend that I've talked to and play video games with for 12 years now, they seem to have a thing for not liking anyone from the middle east.. also could just be his own thing but news and stuff he shares tends to lead me elsewhere.

Personally no particular preference for a female. As long as we click all is good. So assuming your not USA living... could be part of the problem. If you are.. maybe just not the right guys for you, and you should be grateful for not wasting anymore time on them.

[Intraluminal]

I don't think it's a question of attraction, but a social issue. If I'm an Arabic guy, and I approach a European woman, she may or may not accept me, but by and large if she does reject me, that's the end of the issue.

If I'm a European guy and I approach an Arabic girl, not only do I have to worry about whether she accepts or rejects me, but there's also the possibility that her father, brothers, or others are going to assault me - whether she accepts me or not.

Given that reality, what would you do?

[Asker]

I think that's a pretty irrational fear to be honest. But then again that doesn't stop it from being a motivation for avoiding us.

[Intraluminal]

Given that a large percentage of Arabic women are Moslems, and given that it is Haram for a Moslem woman to marry a non-Moslem man, it not that irrational.

[The_Karl]

I'm a white guy. 6 ft 2 inch big Scandinavian guy from the USA. I know I like Arab women. My ex-girlfriend is Iraqi and muslim. She's my ex, so obviously things didn't work out, but I still miss her. I think a few of the challenges involved are: First, it often seems unlikely that the woman's family would accept a secular non-arab (if the family is Muslim). Second, sometimes it is assumed the cultural differences will be too much. I still tried in my case but I guess it was too much. Or maybe she just decided she didn't want me after she got to know me better. I'll probably never know. Anyways, most guys would probably be unwilling to get into a relationship they don't see as having a chance of succeeding. I don't have that problem because I'm impulsive and don't mind suffering a bit if it's for something worthwhile. Good luck. There are plenty of white men out there who I'm sure would love to be with you but you may have to make more effort than you expect, in order to overcome the initial reluctance, and begin to get to know them.

[genericname85]

my personal estimation as to why that is: because those arab people that end up coming to us ruin your reputation here. i guess turkish men on average seem to have more attractive features to european women. thick black hair, beards, "macho like" behavior. european men are on average less "manly", cause they see women more as "equal" to them and not as lesser than them or as people they have to "protect", cause women fought hard for their emancipation :D i guess european women made their own men less attractive to themself in a weird turn of events.

[Anonymous]

Well I'm sure it's not the answer you want to hear but I'm European myself and no I'm not particularly attracted to middle eastern women on a physical level. Sharp features, hairy etc. Just symply not my type at all. Even the women that are considered super beautiful are not my type especially when compared to women in the same league of other ethnicities. Obviously looks aren't everything and there would of course be scenarios where I could look past physical attraction. But I also think that sort of paring is less likely in today's climate. Being seen with a middle eastern woman can be dangerous even if your own family is supposedly secular.

[JohnDoe3000]

We do, we just don't want to wait until marriage, or convert to Islam, or get beaten up by her brother and nephews (who are somehow always fine with male relatives doing everything the quran has forbidden, as long as it's with European girls).

Your family may be very secular, but most Arab families aren't, so guys aren't going to assume they can just go after you without any problems.

[harvest]

Probably the same reason why black guys love some white pussy but black girls would never touch a white boy...

[Asker]

What do you mean I see African girls with a white boyfriend here all the time. My friend is Ethiopia and her boyfriend is from the country we live in.

[harvest]

Well, maybe you live somewhere else then :D
Tell me - are you white, arabic or black?

[Asker]

Well I am from Sweden. My parents are from the middle east.

[AOD14]

@harvest You're retarded. What race are you and where are you from? I'm a white man and I've been with black and Arab girls.

[harvest]

Sooo your carnation is more like an arabic girl or white blonde from Sweeden?
Don't worry, just want to ask you the same question you did after you tell me what race you are, not trying to be racist or anything :)

[AOD14]

I'm a White man from the US. You?

[AOD14]

@harvest What race are you and where are you from?

[harvest]

@AOD14 You DO understand that no one here was talking to you right?

[AOD14]

It's an open-forum shithead. Why won't you answer the question?

[DumbandDumbber]

Really depends on the guy, I am classified as Arab while I am not but I am not that attracted to European women.
And from what I hear from around me, got lots of European friends, they are kinda scared dealing with the family of the girl. But they are attracted to Arabs, pretty ones ofcourse.

[blondfrog]

That's far from true. Most men think like that because they simply see Arab women only when they are covered with a hjab or niqab. Whenever an Arab woman reveals her body and full face their jaw's drop from how attractive she is usually. Considering Chaning Tatum a guy who a lot of women find attractive is married to a middle easterner that's how you know I am not bullshitting. His wife is Syrian.

[Asker]

Well it is true I even brought up a stat to show case it. I don't see why it would be different in countries other than Germany

[blondfrog]

The hjab and the media play a big role in that if you can't see that then i don't know how I can convince you. Ignorance almost always leads to anger its a weird phenomenon we humans have.
I can also name other famous westerners married to Arab women but I don't think that's going to convince you. You seem pretty set in your ways and even me giving you logical facts and evidence won't change your mind. So do I even matter to you honestly?

[Asker]

I wasn't looking to be convinced that western men in really don't actually have a negative dating bias towards middle eastern women. Because it exists and I dont see the point in trying to argue against it with celebrity couples (selected instances). Religion is of course a valid point however I was looking for other motivations as one thing is rarely the sole reason for something.

[blondfrog]

And I told you those other factors like propaganda. people are a product of their environment for every stupid American there are people just as stupid and easily convinced by their environment in the middle east.

[Anonymous]

A lot of guys think middle eastern women are stunning. But if she seems traditional we assume she's not interested in dating and being sexual.

By contrast even some middle eastern guys who plan to marry a traditional girl seem to feel happy playing the field with western girls.

[Caaarl]

I am a white guy and have a thing for certain Arab girls. Only some not all. I have a crush on this Arab porn star Mia Khalifa. I would like to date an Arab woman but only if we had enough in common where it wouldn't be awkward.

[Caaarl]

I thing wearing a hijab tends to make women look less attractive because I love hair so maybe that might be a reason.

[Asker]

I'm not Muslim. We can be any religion you know...

[Caaarl]

I didn't assume you were but if we're talking about the Arab population it would be weird to not mention Muslim at all.

That's great for you. You do you girl. :)

I actually prefer people who aren't religious because I'm an atheist.

[Asker]

Well the fact that I am atheist is problem for me since only Arab guys who are almost always religious approach me.

[Caaarl]

Maybe you should try some dating websites or speed dating or something so you have more options.

[Aassem]

It has something to do what they wear! Arab women are Normally more reserved than European girls, because of Islam of course, and European men look for fun sexy girls. that's basically it.

[Asker]

I am shy and nerdy that's why I could be considered reserved not because of religion. I am not Muslim or even religious.

[Aassem]

Yeah am talking about why Arab girls in general, but reserved is the idea and now you get it.

[Asker]

Well I'm not more reserved than my friends of different ethnicities that's what I ment.

[Aassem]

yeah but you're shyer right?

[Aassem]

more introverted?

[Asker]

Yes but being shy has nothing to do with Arab people. In fact we are more outgoing than Europeans. So I don't see why that would have anything to do with it.

[Aassem]

lol why can't you understand me darling, I talked first about Arab women in general and how reserved they are, then you said you're not like them, so it became about you and that you are more introverted.

[Asker]

I just don't know where you got it from to begin with. Arabs are stereotyped as overly outgoing. Like an extreme version of Spanish and Italians

[Aassem]

yeah they are out going but look at how they dress! that's the reserved part on them.
On you it's not the same it's because you're more introverted.
you understand me now?

[TripleAce]

Most likely because european men are very much into european women. You have greece, spain, Italy and many more. Gorgeous women there and those girls are sought out big time

[Naydyonov]

Probably because men had bad experiences with Arabs (migrants) while women tend to ignore many things.
Which is why women across Europe would have relations with German soldiers in the 1940's.

[TheUglyMonk]

I have a lot of friends from Sweden who find success with guys and girls, for girls it's just about how approachable they are, Arab parents are known to be strict with their girls and many guys don't want to deal with that.

[KhalebGrey]

Prejudices are common among people, not just white people.

[Asker]

I dont know why you feel the need to say that.

[KhalebGrey]

Unless your living on an island, there are a lot of white males that have negative views of Arab people in general, not just women. That my lost soul is called prejudices and biases.

Good day and goodbye now.

[GirlyGal20]

it's easier if you're westernized. I look somewhat arab/Spanish/greek and my boyfriend is white

[ken718]

Depends on girl and half the time we can't see yous all covered n shit so how do we know

[ConservativeStudent]

I'm a White guy European decent and I like them, as long as they don't cover their hair.

[Anonymous]

Cultural differences.

[Anonymous]

I thought they did not find the guys attractive
Why don't you approach them?

[Opinion Owner]

so some of the girls like white guys?

[Opinion Owner]

So what is happening?

[simple-question]

Maybe if they smelled better- peew!