I like Arab guys, but it seems like they only want white girls. What's up with that!?

[Anonymous]

I even have a Muslim friend from Pakistan who feels that most Arab guys just chase after white girls. What's up with that!? >:( Why is it that people seem to always be chasing after white girls when in reality, they tend to have the most common, predictable, unoriginal looks? I don't get it. Someone please explain. Have you ever seen an Arab guy dating or in a serious relationship with a girl who wasn't white or Arab? Any ladies, please tell me of your interracial dating experiences with Arab guys?

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I really wasn't trying to insulte white girls, but it's true. Most of them look like there are at least 30 other coppies of them that you have and will have seen in your lifetime.

[Anonymous]

I'm Egyptian :)

First of all, opposites attract. I know white guys who find Persan and Arab girls very attractive. Why? because they look different to the girls they know. That's all.

As for crushing on girls, I have to be completely honest with you and tell you how Arab guys think=their mentality. Arab girls are generally conservative; like we don't make out, have sex, etc..before marriage. So, in our culture that's very uncommon and frowned upon. I have male friends who, when they spend some time in Europe or the US or whatever, would be willing to experience all that with girls there because they believe they're "easy" material. Am I saying that you are? No, not at all, but that's how THEY think. Literally, that's what they say. And since Arabs are warm, friendly and charming, girls fall for them easily.

In the end, most of them wouldn't marry that gorgeous white girl, but would end up looking for an Arab girl to marry because he believes she can be a mother to his children. aka marriage material.

Arabs guys suffer from double standardism; like they can mess around with girls but wouldn't accept to marry a girl who did the same. Ofcourse there are guys who are open minded and such but I'm telling you about the majority of Arabs.

I hope what I said was useful to you. If you have any questions, please feel free to ask :)

[desidoll]

The double standard issue I guess not only applied by arab guys but also most of the guys in this world...its sad.

[Opinion Owner]

I understand what you're saying, but no it's worse here :D

[Black_Swan_12]

Arab the culture is different than arab the ethnicity. If he is from Egypt then that might be true but if he's Canadian then its probably doesn't apply to him

[Opinion Owner]

Exactly ^^ It's all about the culture and environment he was raised in.

[tallguy25]

I like this answer :-)

[Opinion Owner]

Thank you :-)

[ShyandRandom]

I sorta agree with you. In my school it's like 70% of the white girls have "Perfect, Blond hair. Thin body, and skinny jeans" and seriously I swear I saw the same girl 5 times in the hallway. I wish they would at least TRY To be different and add some kind of accessories...

Also... I just wanted to say I agree with you since a few girls got mad..

As for the guy, I really wish you luck. I'm sure there's a Arab guy out there for you :D

[Asker]

thanks for being understanding and not just judging me but actually standing back and seeing if there was truth to what I said :) yeah I hope there is because they seem so sweet.

[FazrinaLatifa]

I m a malay and i m married to an emirati guy and have 2 loving sons.. nothing is impossible if you try.. before i was like you i adore arabs guys bcos of sexy seductive manly looks.. i kept dreaming about marrying an arab man.. So yeah dream do come true if you don't stop trying.. so goodluck

[Jamester]

Its because White women fall in the Caucasian race. Arabs are also Caucasian or Caucasiod. Most Arabs also find other Arab women, Hispanic (non-black) and light skinned Indian women to be extremely attractive, you know why? because Indian and Hispanic women also have Caucasian features. The same goes with the preference of Indian men. You will find a similarity in their preference. Most of the time, these races go after a light skinned woman of their own race or a white women (because white women are by default light skinned caucasians). Its rare to find Arab and Indian men attracted to black or east Asian women. They mostly go after their own or Latina/white women simply because they too are Caucasians.

Of course there are always exceptions to this rule and you may always find an Arab guy who may like you, but what I explained above is true for most Arab men. Also I think you are being extremely judgmental of white girls. Maybe some blonde girls look alike not all, but most brunette, red haired, dark haired white girls look distinctly beautiful and exotic.

South Asian/Latina/Arab women usually look very exotic and beautiful despite all of them mostly having dark hair and dark eyes, so the person who tried to indicate that dark hair and dark eyes is boring probably has never met Indian, Arab, Latina women.

[Battooot]

Maybe this will give you a better perception;
www.girlsaskguys.com/.../q1160776-do-indian-girls-find-middle-eastern-guys-attractive

Every man is different and thinks differently. Everyone will like something different than others do. So dont put all arabs under one category

[Aurora1010]

Most arab men love arab women
then they love latinas and non arab middle eastern women
because they look like their women
or because latinas and middle eastern women are gorgeous in general
arabs love exotic beauty they aren't into plain looks
yes, there is a societal stereotype about blondes and fair skin
but it is like a stereotype
this stereotype exists everywhere even in the usa and mexico but most polls i have seen across the web favor brunettes
so it is a myth
oh and arabs love curves
I know all this because I talked with many arabs

[Aurora1010]

Also, I really think that arab/latina is the best looking mix
like salma hayek, shakira, emeraude toubia, daniela m biah
arabs and latinos go good together

[tallguy25]

I am Syrian , I honestly wana tell you that it doesn't work for me this way, white , blond , tan ..etc

my brother is seeing an English tan girl , and it seems that they do love each other , but it's common to see that tan guys are more interested in white girls , like KNOWMEYOURSELF have mentioned it's the opposites attract , just don't put in mind walls aren't exist :)

good luck .

[Standingpretty]

Evolution wise, people tend to go for someone who looks very different from them to avoid inbreeding. The less there is of something, the more people are going to want it,. For example, there are less Asians in my area and they are in high demand. Maybe you haven't made enough of an effort to get to know the guys you like. Don't make this a race issue and insult another race just because you are upset and unhappy about a situation, that just makes you look incredibly insecure. Guys of any race PREFER confident girls over girls who aren't.

[Asker]

I really wasn't trying to insulte white girls, but it's true. Most of them look like there are at least 30 other coppies of them that you have and will have seen in your lifetime

[Standingpretty]

I could easily say that about any race.

[Asker]

I couldn't say that about anyone but white people

[Standingpretty]

Most people are similar, regardless of race. I have seen a million carbon copies of every girl out there. Putting down someone because of their race is not going to help you be a better person. go to Japan. It looks like an insecurity to only say that about one race and frankly, rascist. I mean "white" girls must have something guys see in them if they are so popular, don't you think? Or you wouldn't be complaining about them. Besides that, your age is listed as between 18-24, you have not lived

[Standingpretty]

anywhere near a lifetime and do not have a lifetime of experiences to compare too.

[Asker]

lol that's not true. there are a lot of people out their who have unique and rare facial features

[Standingpretty]

yeah and there's a lot of people out there who look the same, what's your point? There's a lot of non-white people out there that look similar that to each other, that could easily be pointed out in any race.

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[Standingpretty]

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[Asker]

I guess you do kind of have a point, but Asians have exotic, interesting features so if they look similar, it's not a big deal. But whites, compared to all of the wide range of interesting looks such as slanted eyes, rich skin tones, big lips, interesting hair textures and more, tend to just look bland. So when they look alike it just sucks and makes a difference, in my opinion. Like even if two Asian girls look similar, their features as Asians are unique among the world so it's better.

[Standingpretty]

Even though all races can have different colored eyes and hair, uniquely colored eyes and hair (such as the very rare color of red) occur mostly in white girls. While slanted eyes and big lips are special to other races,they can also occur occainsionally in whites as well. Actually, by that argument there are more asains and africans than whites, making those features more common and less unique. link Europe consists of some "whites" but not every rac

[Standingpretty]

e in europe is considerd "white". Brown hair and eyes are the most common features in the world and they are often seen mostly in races other than whites. In my opinion, white girls are varied so much in looks that they mix well with any race and are exotic to a good number of people and that's why so many races want to date them because htey are exotic to them.

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[Asker]

Maybe that's your opinion, but my opinion is that white people have the least interesting looks compared to all of the other rich mixes and ethnicities on this earth.

[Standingpretty]

no matter your opinion, that still doesn't consitute insulting a whole race because you are jealous of what they have. That just looks really bad on your part and is seen as an insecuritie to guys.

[Asker]

LOL! I'm really not jealous of white girls! You don't even know what I look like and what features I have. I think a lot of white girls are way too pale and I'm sorry but blond hair is ugly, way too common, and looks like hay unless it's like a rich, honey 'dirty' brown and even then I prefer more interesting hair colors. White women age terribly, the spider veigns and sunburns are disgusting. The pale, pasty skin looks so bland compared to other skin tones.

[Asker]

it's like the main hair colors I see are blond and brown, but the brown isn't even rich it's like this weird gravy brown or this muddy brown color. Not like a rich, velvety brown. Just because I feel like the beautiful features of Brazilians, Africans, Asians, Latinas, biracial, and multiracial people outshine whites does not mean I'm jealous of them lol get real and get over yourself

[Standingpretty]

Wow, that's truley sad that you can't see beauty in all races. No wonder no arab guys want to date you, you are shallow and have to insult others to feel better about yourself and judge others by their outsides. Maybe all these arab guys like these girls for their personalities, but you probably haven't considered that have you? Maybe if you fix your personality you can date the guys you want.

[Asker]

lol, I'm really not trying to make them feel bad, I just think they look plain and look like sh*t when they age. I don't think they can't be beautiful, I just think their beauty is like 5 and the beauty of others is like 100.

[Standingpretty]

lol, well, you must be below a five if they can date the guys you like and you can't haha

[Asker]

lol it wasn't specific guy I liked. I'm attracted to Arab guys and I've noticed they usually date white girls, but it wasn't a situation where I got rejected and a white girl got chosen over me. get your facts straight lol

[Standingpretty]

lol yeah, right, that's why you can't get a single one of them. LOL you are a pathetic rascist who is just looking for everyone to agree with you, and it's not gonna happen. Just like the above answerer, I am discountining this argument because I just plain feel sorry for you. Your not going to win this argument either.

[Asker]

lmao you don't know what I can and cannot get! You don't know if I've dated an Arab guy before. Don't feel sorry for me. I'm going to age wonderfully and your purple and green veigns are going to show up while your skin sags and the nasty dry mud dots appear everywhere or you're going to get so sun burned this summer that you can't move and your skin is hilariously pink orange. I'm not looking to win an argument. I simply don't think white women are all that attractive. Then you simply came...

[Asker]

and FAILED to prove that wrong. Maybe your statistics show that their features are the least common among the world. But there are white people all around me and none of them look exotic at all espeically compared to the interesting beauty I've seen. I'm not racist. I have white friends, I just don't think they're looks are all that great

[Anonymous]

dum dum dum. I'm arabic and my last serious relationship was with an Egyptian girl. I don't care much for ethnicity though, if she is attractive and has a good personality then she is good for me. That being said, I actually find arab and spanish girls NOT white girls to be the most attractive, passionate and fun in general so there you go.

[knowmeyourself]

:-)

[Asker]

It's encouraging that you're not another Arab guy who only dates white girls, but seriously, don't call me DUMB when you didn't even spellit correctly :P

[Opinion Owner]

haha LMAO. I wasn't calling you dumb. I was saying it as dramatic sound-effect type thing like this link

And I still date white girls. race isn't too much of an issue around here but I just find the tanned, flirty girls more attractive at times.

[Asker]

oh LOL! ooops, I was like "wow really?" oh okay, I see what you mean. Although I think it's very superficial and foolish to an extent because just because a female looks a certain way doesn't mean she's correct for you and can give you everything.

[Opinion Owner]

its not superficial its about personality too. Also, being attracted to someone doesn't make you superficial it makes you human

[Asker]

I just mean like if you exclude other looks because you are attracted to one. I remember being in the club and a black guy came up to me and started talking about "I just love your gorgeous honey golden skin. I love that light complexion" and it made me sick. it was so ignorant

[Asker]

You're Freeway, right?

[Opinion Owner]

umm, no

[Asker]

Oh, I was just wondering because at the time Freeway commmented on another answer, there were only two anonymous users. The first guy who answered had been anonymous, but I thought you hadn't...idk

[Anonymous]

"Have you ever seen an Arab guy dating or in a serious relationship with a girl who wasn't white or Arab"

I have a Syrian buddy who's dating a Black girl.

I myself obviously don't have any interracial dating experiences with Arab guys, but I would suggest just talking to one and getting to know them.

[Asker]

that's encouraging :)

[tallguy25]

I am Syrian lol :D

[username3]

arab guys like a white woman to get a green card, an arab girl in bed, a hispanic to dance for them , an Asian to cook and a black to kick their asses... there argument solved :D

[AliceMcKay]

I haven't dated any Arab guys, even though I have common, predictable, unoriginal looks. Must just be you.

[Asker]

lol, what must just be me?

[AliceMcKay]

That you notice it I guess.

[Asker]

oh! yeah. I really didn't notice it until I had some Muslim Arab female friends who struck a conversation about it over dinner.

[Black_Swan_12]

QA please shutup, all girls are beautiful in their own way and they appeal to different guys despite their ethnicity or the guys' ethnicity. I have found some girls from every ethnicity to be hot. And stop throwing around labels at people. If your friends said that than they are close-minded people period. Their background or faith has nothing to do with it. Right now I think you need to worry more about your personality IMO

[Asker]

Freeway, you know nothing about my personality. One question about one topic cannot show the range of an entire personality. I am going to talk as much as I want about whatever I want because I can do that and if you have a problem with that then make us both happy and keep it moving :)

[Black_Swan_12]

nah, I'm a selfish guy so I'm gonna stick around to make myself happy and keep you from being happy lol. People will always seem unoriginal when they are not in that race because they just see them. Just pointing out something that's obvious.

[Asker]

You can't keep me from being happy lol if anything , you just look like you have too much free time on your hands to be so attentive to someone and a topic that you seem to be irritated with. They just seem unoriginal because most of them have such similar looks

[Black_Swan_12]

lol, you are the one who starting a flame fest with people and my two comments tell you that I have a lot of free time? I still think its a matter of perspective. I don't know where you are from but I'm sure that some people will look at you and your relatives and say that you all look the same. I was just trying to make a point, isn't that what this site is for? I'm also done arguing with. good luck :)

[Asker]

it wasn't really a flame fest, just a heated debate. there's a difference between looking like your relatives and looking like a lot of other people whom you've never even met

[Anonymous]

Way to generalize. You are dissing up white girls too. I'm actually a arab and latino mix and I have some arabic friends who are only into arabic girls so I don't know where you get those stereotypes. Where are you from?

[Asker]

don't get this wrong, this isn't a stereotype; it's an observation. I'm not saying all Arab guys are like this, I'm just saying most of the ones I've met are.

[Sarah100x]

All women are beautiful. It just surprises me when people say other races not whites are exotic when you look at the world the majority of countries have dark hair and eyes I know there are variants within these countries (not every Arab girl has dark hair of course) but the majority do.

Also not every white person is blonde and blue eyed!

[zombiebabe]

i don't think its entirely true because i've been hit on by muslim guys often too and i'm not white lol

[bananaman57]

Personally, I'm sick of white girls. I think they're over rated now. Cocoa skin is my cup of tea.

What race are you?

[Anonymous]

There are many White women in this world and many who are beautiful. Many Arab men do like

White women because they are beautiful. They look very original, are actually very rare compared to the rest of the world. Ember eyes and different hair colors that come in many colors.

And there is a difference between pale skin and beautiful white, creamy, ivory skin. Many White women also have porcelain skin, which is timeless beauty.

[OmarOwen]

no no , it's not right ! :) them think when take girls white or beauty he will be feel happy absolutely, them only search about Enjoy only no more , i do not like kind this
i will tell u something about me , i like Asian girls as like Japanese , them not white girls but it's between white and yellow :)

[Aurora1010]

latinas and middle eastern/north Africans have the most variety in looks honey

[Anonymous]

"they tend to have the most common, predictable, unoriginal looks? I don't get it." Really? You don't think that's insulting? Just f*** off already

[Asker]

okay, I guess it is kind of insulting and I'm sorry that it came out so harsh, but it is kind of true no offense

[moebond2]

Lol this made me laugh!!! I think you're right, I'm an Arab though, and I absolutely prefer Asian girls more than anything!!!

[YusiBear]

I'm Arab ( kind of ) and I like pretty much everyone. What are you by the way?

[sweet_18]

yeah I've never dated an arab guy but ethnic guys tend to like me for some reason

[WhaChaChaKing]

White people vary a lot. Not all are blonde and have blue eyes. Move on.

[ahmadsalt]

tbh its more of a turn on to date a Pakistani girl than a white girl but they choose white girls for achievement

[OmarOwen]

my name is omar , i'm from Egypt and i wanna marry girl from japan can i? or it's hard girls japanese marry guy from Egypt? :D

[Safwanz]

Not true... I am an Arab, I refer Latin and Black girls over White ones by far...