Interested in knowing about how awful the life of an ugly girl can be?

[Anonymous]

A selection of things that happened/keep happening to me, that guys and pretty girls will just not understand but which keep breaking my heart every time:
- I introduced one of my best (and pretty) friends to the guy I had a huge crush on and he started hitting on her
- I told an old, slimy man at the bar who was hitting on me that I wasn’t interested, and he started telling me aggressively that I better not be too difficult because I’m ugly and can’t get much better than him, including a list of my physical traits he found ugly
- The boy I had been dating for two years and I was in love with denied the fact we were dating, told me it was just sex and he only saw me as friends with benefits
- Boys I liked in school always ended up choosing my friends and treating me as a buddy/asking my help to get their number etc
- sometimes people feel compelled to tell me I’m pretty and it’s so clearly forced
- Sometimes a guy will hit on me hoping to get sex, but in 30 years no one seems to ever have been interested in getting to know me more deeply than that
- Kids in school used to joke about dating me as the least desirable thing on earth
- Sometime I’ll propose drinks to a male friend im not interested in and I can tell they are reluctant to say yes because they are scared I might be interested in them
- on tinder boys match me because they clearly swipe every girl right, most of my matches disappears as soon as I write to them or as they make a bit of selection

[shepardmaddison]

It sounds pretty sad... Not gonna lie...
But maybe you have something special you can offer or a cute smile or something... Or you're good at a sport and maybe through this you can meet someone?
Online dating (Tinder) is always too superficial... So anyone not looking specially good has a hard time... I'm also struggling there...

[abcdef-z]

I don’t believe there are ugly girls. Ugly girls with bad heart yes, but physically? No. I believe everyone is pretty. But sometimes, we are unconfident with ourself and believe that we are not pretty. This insecurity can be felt/conveyed to other people and people can treat us as far as you allow them.
I’ll say trust first that you are pretty, have amazing personality, have good heart. When you are confident with yourself, no one will dare to mess with you

[Babygirl_S]

I have seen many really ugly women who are called beautiful and date handsome men. I don't get this. May be you don't look east Asian like perhaps you have big eyes, slim nose etc.

[DonRollins]

Well, she has to get a job and work like, you know, every man does.

Not that much different than that. Women still don't have to do anything to find a man, just go outside. That's it. You may not like your options but women don't have to do shit for a man to show up besides that.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Thats sounds a lot like what most guys go through.

Also, if you aren't pretty, why are you relegated by shallow guys as "only useful for getting off on"? Wouldn't sex be the harder part of the relationship to get? instead of the friendship part?

[ThatNoUVAtYourEyes]

Erm,
It sounds bad but is in no way the worst there is,
Try being raised by criminaly insane transgender fosterparents who want to get you murdered to inherit your money (being attractive does not help)
Or, possibly worse, try being one of the people nasty fosterparents, be they transgender or straight, brainwashed/coerced _into_ having their sex changed 😱

[itsgigaover]

"I told an old, slimy man at the bar who was hitting on me that I wasn’t interested, and he started telling me aggressively that I better not be too difficult because I’m ugly and can’t get much better than him, including a list of my physical traits he found ugly"

Sounds based as fuck. High T based oldcel. Lifefuel.

[ohshee]

I seen questions like this before and they just totally blow me away I would love to look into your eyes just to see who you really are on the inside and what is has made your confidence feel this way

[Anonymous]

I qasn't interested. But I read it just for giggles. Thanks for the giggles.

[Asker]

Hope you’ll giggle for eternity in hell with this rotten personality you have

[itsgigaover]

Based for not simping for foid

[Dratchild]

Damn. Just remember there's more than looks to life

[anylolone]

Not as bad as an average guy.

I befriended both, I know.

[Anonymous]

U had a boyfriend. Im 33 and have never had a girlfriend.

[Asker]

Well he denied being my boyfriend so does it count

[ChiPaPa]

An ugly man's life is far worse.

[noohair]

It is worse for guys. They get no sex at all.

[dudeinohio]

sorry u go through all that
:(

[Anonymous]

Yep same with an ugly guy