How do you deal with being the ugliest girl in the world?

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I've asked this many times, but I usually get snarky comments or answers like "get an ugly guy" or people asking "what I look like" or guys complaining "that ugly guys have it worse".
I've been contemplating plastic surgery for a long time, so I'd appreciate any advice on this matter

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Whene l post in Howdoilook my questions get no answers, whereas other girls' questions have 50 comments
Obviously this is a sign I'm ugly

Leavesbound · Accepted Answer

I've never seen an ugly girl but I have met people who do ugly things like telling girls they look ugly.

If you feel you must then I advise having the least possible procedure (s) to make a noticeable change. The more extreme the change is the more likely people will be able to tell you've had something done. I don't mean people you know. They will figure it out anyways. I mean that people who don't know you and have never seen your face before and be able to tell you've had work done if you go too extreme. Pick the feature you like the least about yourself and then opt for the most subtle change you can that you will be able to see in the mirror. Often it doesn't actually take all that much to make a huge impact on appearance. As a teen I had a hideous cave-man unibrow. My nickname in high school would have been "Cave-Man" or "Neanderthal" if I didn't already have the nickname "Fat-tub-of-lard." So not knowing what to do I just lived with it until a female friend invited me over for an eye brow plucking session. Just removing all the hair immediately above the bridge of my nose made a huge improvement. I kept that area plucked for a few years then noticed the hair stopped growing back. Only once in a while do I have to pluck one.

MotorcycleMan · Accepted Answer

Pretty sure you're not the ugliest girl in the World. I'm also pretty sure you're not near as ugly as you think you are. Nobody is. We are often much more critical of ourselves than others are. For shallow people, looks can be everything, but a quality person is going to look deeper and be a little more concerned about what is underneath the surface. I'm met people that I thought were pretty ugly, but if they have a great personality it comes through and you start to see the beauty shine through. Be nice, smile. I good, honest smile makes even the ugliest person light up and look so much better.
All that being said, I don't have a problem with plastic surgery. If it will make you feel better about yourself and give you more confidence, then why not? The problem I do have is that there are so many women who think they are ugly or not perfect and get work done and then they start to look weird. If you would like a seriously honest opinion, send me a picture (I will never show anyone else and will reply only to you).

btbc92 · Accepted Answer

Listen. Your appearance physically have nothing to do with you. If you don't think you are beautiful from the inside out, then you're not going to be respected. I find people who treat you that way the same way I've been treated that way are actually one of the most unpleasant people to be around. Understand that God loves you, and he sees you differently than how the world sees. Think about the words that being said to you by people. Do you find them to be attractive people when they think of you that way? I tell you right now I don't like people who are extremely shallow and treat others like dirt. What you're hearing from other people is a reflection of Their Own Heart. I had to learn to realize there are bigger and better things going on in this world than to be worrying about who finds me ugly or attractive.

Anonymous · Accepted Answer

Other girls get answers because they follow heaps of people or send out requests to have their questions answered to 100s of people.
I think you feel shit about yourself and falling into the trap of comparing.
Going forward you need to decide what you are going to do.
You either get the plastic surgery and make yourself feel better,
Or you live your life as you are and have an attitude change.
I know this is a bit of tough love but being a victim forever and feeling ugly compared to other girls will do nothing positive in your life,
Decide what you want to do.

MCheetah · Answer

You are not the ugliest girl in the world. You're probably not even a 4. You are likely just depressed and beating yourself up over it. And this is coming from someone who LOATHES being short probably more than you dislike your supposed "ugly looks." If people aren't taking it that seriously, then you likely aren't ugly. You're probably a 5 or something, thinking that's a 1.

And it's true; ugly guys DO have it so much worse. If you wanted to, you could get sex whenever you wanted, even as an "ugly girl." You just likely don't want that. Ugly/short men get NOTHING. No supporting comments, no "pity sex," literally nothing.

As implied by your current responses on here, you probably ARE getting plenty of positive attention from men. But they aren't "good enough" for you because "I don't care about them." In which case, nothing we say or do can help you. Not that ugly/short men would even get this much support from internet strangers, especially those of the opposite sex.

Cfrobw · Answer

Probably like me, most people don’t know what to say. I feel the same about myself. Especially since I’ve always been in the “friend” or “real brother” zone. I believe they are both the same.

I knew one girl in high school who was not the most attractive, though she looked better than others. I wouldn’t tell you to do this, but she solved her problem in a very poor and sad way. She went into the bathroom at home with her dads hub, put it in her mouth and committed suicide. :~(~ not the way to handle things. Like me, you may never solve your problem, maybe plastic surgery would be good. It’s certainly better than this girl did. I know a lot of Chinese women who get plastic surgery they want to look more like western women. They actually also don’t want to look yellow/tan, they want to have pale skin because they believe pale skin is more beautiful. I feel the same way about pale skin. What is kind of funny is that tha I don’t understand is that American girls who are pale want to be tanned and they go to tanning salons and get tans on a tanning bed. I know some Chinese girls who will switch skin with you. Haha

I think the truth I’ve come to is that God created me to be the person I am and accept myself and love God in return.

Juarez my opinion

Azazeres · Answer

Well, it never really bothered me all that much, because I don’t find straight men attractive. Or straight women. Huh.

Anyways, that’s a narrative you’re either telling: 1. Yourself because you’ve had bad experiences; or 2. This website because you want attention.

In the former case, go talk to someone. I’m sure someone is willing to at least listen to you. If you can’t find anybody, just pm me and we can talk.

In the latter case, I’m sorry but you really don’t want the attention you’re going to get.

ohshee · Answer

You know I wish you would really send me a picture cuz I can tell you right now you're not ugly there's no such thing as ugly ugly comes from the inside not the outside I bet you I could find 20 beautiful things about you but it's hard to even answer this question because I can't see you but I guarantee you you are not ugly please send me a picture

TommyMountainFigure · Answer

It's not against the law to have plastic surgery if you feel you need it, but don't get it done just because you think you are ugly. First get opinions from people who you love and trust, because people sometimes see themselves as ugly, but they really aren't.

Bear in mind also, plastic surgery can be a very slippery slope towards ugliness if done wrongly.

Vietnemin · Answer

OOOOOOf well I think all women are the result of their parents having sex and since your parents had sex and you probably look like your parents then there's hope that you will have sex too.

Hawner · Answer

There is no woman actually ugly, just unlucky women who haven't found the guy that wants them. Is simple as that.

CapnHawk · Answer

Beautiful or ugly - it's in the eye of the beholder. Looks are only skin deep.

Stevefiveo · Answer

Somehow I doubt you are as ugly as you think you are. Go to beauty salon and ask for help. Good luck.

2021biguy · Answer

I can't see your picture so I can't tell if you are ugly, maybe you just think you are. Maybe you could make money in movies if that was really true like "Ugly Betty"

FunkyMonkee · Answer

Do the people at Howdoilook get to SEE how you look?

Anonymous · Answer

sorry i ain't giving you no ego boost if that's what you're looking for

Rennitenn · Answer

Smile at her. make her feel beautiful.

Iron_Man · Answer

Your not

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