It's understandable to feel self-conscious or unhappy about your appearance, but it's important to remember that beauty is subjective and comes in many different forms. It's also important to recognize that your worth as a person is not determined by your physical appearance.
Here are a few things you can do to help cope with these feelings:
1. Focus on your strengths: Rather than focusing on your perceived flaws, try to focus on your strengths and positive qualities. What are you good at? What makes you unique? Celebrate these things and focus on them instead.
2. Practice self-care: Taking good care of yourself can help boost your confidence and self-esteem. This could include taking care of your physical health, practicing good hygiene, and engaging in activities that make you feel good about yourself.
3. Surround yourself with positive influences: Surround yourself with friends and family who love and support you for who you are. Avoid people who make you feel bad about yourself or who are overly critical.
4. Challenge negative self-talk: Notice when negative thoughts or self-talk arise and challenge them. Ask yourself if these thoughts are really true, and try to reframe them in a more positive light.
Remember that your value as a person is not determined by your physical appearance. You are worthy of love and respect just as you are, and focusing on your strengths and positive qualities can help you feel more confident and comfortable in your own skin. Embrace yourself and look yourself in the mirror with confidence and conviction in yourself to say I am beautiful, strong, smart, and enough as the lord created you.
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What do you mean. Problem solved! Look at how much money you're not going to have to waste on your wardrobe and makeup.
I used to hate the fact that I was ugly. But once I excepted it and realized I didn't have to work futily to gain the interest of a woman who'd ultimately never date me I realized how much easier my life would get.
I think your problem is you're attaching too much meaningless feelings to this. Most people that say the love you don't really love you anyways. And look at the bright side. If you're really ugly you won't have endure those liars.
Just accept it.. who cares if a million guys want to fuck you or not.. what is important is that you have a man who loves you. I learnt in the year away from mine is I always thought I was ugly but really I can pull a lot of different types of guys even guys who are like 8's and 9's but what does that matter if you don't mesh well.. or if you don't love them or them you.. its all just a waste of time.. be grateful for what you have or you will ruin it. Plus work on yourself you probably ain't even ugly.. wear some damn makeup and dress better lol
I understand you, i also feel ugly most of time but i realised it could just be overthinking or comparing to other women which isn't healthy. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder. U might be the prettiest girl in ur mans eyes so don't overthink it n enjoy what u hv.
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Looks are so subjective... I mean I've seen other guys go for girls that don't even look human to me. Overall my main advice for anyone really missing the mark is to just hit the weights. Physical health usually controls where you are on a scale of 1 to 10. Genetics plays it's part, but usually, anyone trying to place all their looks woes on genetics looks like they've been living on a couch.
Shun mirrors. Make they best of what you were given. Eat healthy, drink water, get your sleep, exercise, get a good hairdresser, get nice clothes. And live your life. Looks are only important when it comes to status games, and status games at the end of the day will make no one happy.
There's so much a female can do to be NOT UGLY. And it's not even that difficult.
Grow your hair out
Lose the weight (get below 135 lbs)
Dye your hair some weird fiery red color
Wear sexy outfits
BOOM, you'll no longer be uglyA pretty face or whatever is and has only ever been a way to get your foot in the door, it can't carry you.
You already have what you need a pretty face for most of all so why are you still punishing yourself?
This is absurd.
Everyone is beautiful in their own way & you are beautiful in your own way too.
When I meet women, my first process it to remind myself that "pretty runs out." Aesthetic beauty fades. Inner beauty is so much more important.
Most women who think they are ugly usually aren't ugly. They usually have low self esteem. I highly doubt that you are ugly like you say
Well it doesn’t really matter does it , if you have a man that likes you anyway.
Maybe just finds ways to improve yourself in ways that make you think your ugly.
Lol sorry but in today's dating world even an ugly woman can get somewhere. No sympathy here
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