Of course I've felt that I was unattractive before, and usually, I could deal with it, telling myself that I couldn't get a girl because I went to small private schools my whole life, and there wasn't much to pick from. But somewhere in side me, I knew it wasn't true; I've always known that I was ugly. I don't get compliments like my friends do; I usually get ignore, or get told "I like you as a friend, or a brother". I'm only 18, but I just don't know how to deal with it. I've never even gotten my first kiss, which only adds to how I feel.
Then, last night, figuring I could increase myself-esteem, I put my pix on a web site where people can vote if they think your attractive or not. Every person that say mine, said I was unattractive.
I can't ask my mom because when she was a kid, she was pretty and lots of people found her attractive. I don't have a dad, so that's not an option either. I'm 5'8, 173 lbs, milk chocolate skin, or some I'm told, and have a friendly and inviting personality. But we all know that when it comes to it, personality is the last thing that helps when you're looking at someone.
I just need some advice on how to deal with this. Please, anyone?
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