Do you have a type when it comes to dating?

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t-8900 · Accepted Answer

Someone who is not politically militant, those types are batsh*t crazy imho. Also they just can't be too prudish, I've come to realize that's not a healthy environment for my mental wellbeing. They can't be materialistic when it comes to love and they can't be vengeful. If they have a loud mouth, especially out in public, if they have anger issues, they can go kick rocks. I'm a respectful human being to others and if you're going to trash me or others you can kindly go f*** yourself tyvm. A girl needs to be PATIENT when it comes to LISTENING. She needs to be empathetic and she needs to not be too harsh on judging people for their screw ups, especially when they're making a clear effort to do better.

I dont like a blunt woman, I appreciate those types but I find it off putting in a partner. I'm not asking you to sugar coat things, I'm asking you to say things in a manner which is polite and sensitive to others. Not just to me but to our future children. I believe being overly blunt to be rather toxic. It's okay if she cusses once in a while but if she's creating who sentences on them she's also not for me. I like a girl who can have deep conversations with me and/or make me laugh. I didn't think humor was THAT big of a deal until I started talking to more women and realizing just how important that element is to creating a healthy environment for my mental wellbeing.

I suffer depression and anxiety so a girl who can make cute and random funny jokes or do funny things can really cheer me up. We're not talking comedy here but just something sweet and almost innocent/childlike in nature if that makes sense. I've only met like 2 or 3 women in my life that genuinely enjoyed philosophy and I had some pleasant conversations with them. I think those types of women are awesome but for some reason I see them as kindred spirits that I can become best friends with rather than lovers with I think. Also if she likes human psychology that's awesome too! ^^

HighValue · Accepted Answer

Yes, this:
18 to 30 (over 30 equals no interest), hasn't done any hook ups or ONS, doesn't do any drugs (no weed either), doesn't drink alcohol or drinks very rarely and is willing to quit, doesn't smoke, no kids from past relationships, but does want some with the right person, no contact with any ex, once in a relationship won't be posting revealing and flirty pictures online for attention, will be very affectionate with me and she initiates the affection sometimes too, doesn't have an immoral job or one that requires her to spend multiple days away from home (traveling), no tattoos or very few (each tattoo makes her less attractive to me), will exercise every week just like I will to stay healthy and in shape for long term, is not hypocritical. (Yes, I realize I probably won't find anyone that meets this because realistically there probably isn't anyone even nearly as good for a relationship as I am. (prove me wrong by being the good woman I want)

gabi487 · Accepted Answer

Yes☺️. The qualities I want: sweet/thoughtful, fun/adventurous, funny , intelligent, and creative

I like confident men who can take the lead and not expect a lady to chase him (used to know one that expected that out of me😑) I like a guy who shows love, but he’s not needy.. someone with patience who can give me space when I need it and understand it’s not personal and that he’s still on my mind!

Appearance:Usually.. a Black (I’m Black), Hispanic, or mixed race guy that’s that’s taller than me, w bold eyebrows (& eyebrow slits if he likes that ☺️), soulful eyes, and hairstyles from a fade to neatly done medium length looks are cool to me. Neat short/medium length facial hair is a good look. I like when guys wear loose clothing and have a good sense of style/classy swag. I like the athletic build.. not that CRAZY (on steroids, insect like) body 😬.

19magic · Accepted Answer

I feel like I'm gunna post a typical girl answer now lol but here goes,

So preferably taller than me if not the same height, white or mayhaps Latino, maybe a bit of a beard. A guy who's either chubby or muscular, but not super skinny I've never been attracted to that.

As for personality someone who doesn't take life so seriously, there has been wayy too much doom talk with Brexit and then covid it simply doesn't need to be every single discussion every single day. Down to earth I guess is what they call it, someone not prone to anger, and a guy who's a bit geeky/nerdy I never know how you'd define it lol

Lastly I want a guy who I can communicate like an adult with as if I find another person with the same personality as my stepma I swear I would find myself a gun and start shooting.

ManOnFire · Answer

Must be:
intelligent
humble
regards everyone the same regardless of who they are, what their job is, or their social standing
isn't a Karen towards customer service or retail workers
cares about life things far more than career
isn't trying to "find" herself

huge boobs are optional but not necessary

jennifer_bloom · Answer

I like smart and quiet guys who are sensitive and loyal.

FinalFantasyBro · Answer

There are so many qualities in women I really love but I definitely list off the qualities in women who I am looking for.

1. Confident- I love women who is really confident in herself and others, not exactly egotistical but I find girls who doesn't back down to be a real turn on.

2. Brains- I prefer brain over beauty mostly, while yes I want her to be sexy too but if she is some dumb bimbo who doesn't know anything I ain't going to fly with that. My future girl doesn't need to be some super genius but I at least want her to show some education.

3. Beauty- Yes, I am still a guy so I would love to have a girl who does take good care of herself, I want to also look great for her too. The both of us should at least give effort in terms of physical appearance.

4. Goal Seeker- The main concept I am drawn too, I want to find a woman who at least have ideas on what she wants to have going for herself, it could be either career related, hobbies, fashion style, living arrangements or just about anything else. I don't judge people activities or things they want to achieve you know as long it isn't illegal or pertentially get someone injured of course. I am a dude who has huge goals on what he wants to do and what he wants to have in life, so I honestly want want to find a girl who is also a planner on her own life as well.

5. Kindness- There nothing more beautiful than a girl who is really sweet and make my day amazing. I don't like mean girls huge turn off, I want to be with a girl who I won't constantly get in fight with, remember kindness not hate.

6. Non Judgement- I have my own things and she will also have her own things, let not disrespect each other, I definitely support you and I want her to support me as well.

complicated_honey · Answer

Yeah I used to fall for guys who has a bit of temper/ someone who I would question does he still find me cute? You know those types that is all laugh with others but with their partner they tend to be a bit moody… and it’s score keeping and such

But when it came to getting married, I chose the one whom I knew would be committed to me whetehr he was in love with me or not.

He is so sweet. It’s not that he is a doormat lol not into that type either but he never ever raises his voice even when I raised mine (which I worked on)
It’s so hard to describe.

But I do notice that the type I was into are the kind of guys that look all sexy and stuff but are a pain in the ass to actually be with. They are the kind of guys where the couple would go “yeah we fight everyday but at the end of the day we love each other and make love…” and then a day or week later boom huge fight again till things blow and you end in divorce or break up or whatever.

DizzyDesii · Answer

Someone of the opposite sex who is Similar to myself

EvilAngel114 · Answer

I don’t have a type per se. I could say there are things that definitely turn me off. Kind of hard to have a type because I know there’s no one guy in the world that would have all the qualities, personalities, looks that I would list (not that the list is long). As the song says “this ain’t build a b*tch” or I should say “build a bro”

pickedcrisps · Answer

Yes. Prefer my age range. Healthy, slim, white. With or without glasses but lately I insist glasses I'm not a fan of contact lenses. Too weird and grosses me out.

Umm what else... non smoker non drinker preferably no drug users either gross... and yeah. And have similar eating habits to me or at least god please seafood no sushi and minimal spicy 😃

Is that so much of a type to ask for universe hahaha and preferably left handed phew 😀

slackbabbath · Answer

I am more drawn to darker Italian men and grotesque white men (I don’t mean white men are grotesque, for clarification- I mean men that appear grotesque in physical appearance)

MCheetah · Answer

Nice, down-to-earth, intelligent, has a sense of humor, can hold a conversation. Physically: Tall, thick, redhead.

zaharuh · Answer

My type is like dominant, confident, reasonable, at least taller than me and of course they have to be attractive to me. I sort of have a thing for lighter skinned guys lately as well but things change sometimes lol.

cinnamonwaves · Answer

Yes tall blond guys with blue eyes and a kind, caring, funny, intelligent personality/disposition There's a certain guy on Gag like that, however I'm not gonna say his name in public

NathanDavis · Answer

it's not a pre-requisite exactly but yes, I prefer them smart, interesting and with humor

ChiPaPa · Answer

Not really sure. I like a variety of aesthetics, but I would like her to have similar interests. I guess an introvert. However, an extrovert could be a good contrast

Rachel794 · Answer

Yeah. Fictional. I’ve just always been drawn more to characters more than I have real people. Is hard for me to connect with real people being on the autism spectrum.

BigAFRO · Answer

I like em black Pretty white teeth Body unique Booty on fleek Jhene Aiko Chewing her cheeks Groceries please You know that was for me-Kevin gates

NicoletteXO · Answer

Yes - extremely intelligent, witty, heartfelt, passionate. Must be a man of deep integrity, who is living his purpose. Knows what he wants without a doubt and I am it!

Mimi87 · Answer

I do, I want someone who won't pressure me to have sex or do anything I dont want to do. I want someone who will treat me the same way I treat them. I want someone who is loyal. I want someone who isn't racist, homophobic, ableist, or anything offensive. I want someone kind. I don't care about looks, the bar is low.

BBFDancer · Answer

For me, she has to be a Christian, Non-smoker, non-Tobacco crewer, and non-alcohol.

I don't care if she's a widow or she has kids.
I do care if her ex-husband got remarried to another woman. If he does then it'll be okay for me to marry her.

I don't care about heights.

FilmGuy93 · Answer

Athletic, tan skin, dark hair and eyes, adventurous, honest, passionate, artistic and witty (good sense of humor, good storyteller). I would prefer an intelligent woman, although all I really care about is that she's curious.

TheSpaceGnome · Answer

Nerdy artist gamer musician atheist women who are sterile.

DataOrganizer27 · Answer

Poised, respectful, and intelligent. A little more outgoing than myself (which is 0). If you can call that a type haha.

Prettygurl12 · Answer

Yes lol  I'm a sucker for the Dutch - tall, blond-hair, blue eyes.

Fireguy17 · Answer

Used to be warm blooded, moving and a pulse, but as I got older I improved my requirements just a bit.

Iron_Man · Answer

There’s a beautiful brunette girl on here That I really really like

siegetiming · Answer

I like warm, calm and artsy girls. The first thing you'd think of when you think of two people hanging out on the porch to smoke, chat, jam (musically), read, or just... chill.

Redstang88 · Answer

Yep, not working out so hot but definitely have a type

genericname85 · Answer

yeah. the type being "normal weight with no children" xD

bamesjond0069 · Answer

At least 10 years younger than me so 18 to 24 shorter than 5'3" About 90 to 120 lbs Long hair

KoolKid66 · Answer

Ones who don't reject you... aka dead girls... I've never met one yet but I'm hoping oneday I come into contact with one

Dratchild · Answer

I like girls a few inches shorter than me, healthy body, and wavy brown hair really gets me

CreamySeed · Answer

Most of the time a pulse is preferable to the alternative but hey who’s keeping track not me

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

Any girl that is pretty and thick with big boobs and isn’t white

tomtom05131 · Answer

White, Latinas, European mediterranean and Persian women.

Better_off_here · Answer

i like a woman who is kind and sweet and one who is real. basically, a woman who i can meet in person. :)

EQisKEY · Answer

Yes, self-awareness revealing humble equality between us.

Blackcupcake · Answer

Yeah kinda but not really lol

Shiningtempest · Answer

@bigpauly My type is a woman who enjoys playing video games or watching NBA games on TV.

Account · Answer

Yes, I do.

Backseatvibing · Answer

Nice smile good hygiene, preferably big dick

TheAfrikan · Answer

Those respect themselves and have a sweet personality they get my vibes.

godfatherfan · Answer

Yep. Blonde hair, blue eyes.

Diodoro · Answer

Hot. Levelheaded but Down for a good time.

FictionalCharacter · Answer

I’m mostly in brunettes and black haired guys.

Citizenkirk · Answer

I prefer ♀️females♀️ as dating companions.

convo_king89 · Answer

Don’t we all unless we’re easy and desperate.

JosyJosy · Answer

Ya the introverted gamer anime loving type

ZIMMYBEE90 · Answer

I prefer men who are calm and gentle.

exitseven · Answer

i always liked the athletic type.

Subarugirl · Answer

Confident, dominant, and stronger than me.

invalid1 · Answer

I don't have a type. when we vibe we vibe. lol

poneglyphs · Answer

I have no idea. Haven't been on too many dates

crmoore · Answer

Generally speaking, yes.

m33lad · Answer

They’re all female ego boosters ,

legalboxers · Answer

type I want is normal

Lonely888 · Answer

Yes, I prefer older plus size women

alessndrae · Answer

I think everyone has their own preferences

vinnycaz · Answer

Yes. Dark hair, big breasts. Just being honest

tatianamay · Answer

yeah lol, I kinda do

Slim57 · Answer

My type doesn't exist

bean2k21 · Answer

not really

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