My then girlfriend wanted us to double date with her friend. She asked me if I could set her up with a friend of mine. I told my friend AJ and he agreed. We saw a pretty funny movie, Ruthless People, and then went to dinner at a nice place. We went dancing until the place closed (2 AM). Then for some reason we went to a park. The park was right across the street from my other friend's house. I can't remember why, but AJ wanted to retrieve something from my other friend's house, so he climbed in through his window and got the item without waking anyone up. I thought the girls would be upset, but they both laughed and thought it was funny. We hung out at the park, playing on the swings, talking and laughing, and my girlfriend and I kissed a lot. We went home when the sun came up. AJ drove my girlfriend's friend home first. He walked her to the door and she kissed him passionately. He dropped me off at my girlfriend's house and I stayed the night... well by then morning, at her place. We didn't have sex, but we slept cuddling each other. We were all 18 at the time. It was the summer right after high school graduation.
Epilogue: My friend AJ is now happily married to a teacher and they have 2 kids. He installs home entertainment systems. My ex girlfriend is happily married to a software engineer. She herself is a dental hygienist. My girlfriend's friend, whose name I can't remember, got married to an abusive asshole. They had two kids. When she finally divorced the asshole, she lived with my ex girlfriend for a time. I don't know what she's up to now. Her kids would be in their 30s.
we went to a "treehouse cabin" in the mountains.
there was no stove but a fireplace outside.
i'd made breakfast food the day before and wrapped it in foil (sausage bread... with maple sausage).
we got there Friday evening and had a wonderful evening and didn't have to worry about the noise.
i always carry survival items in my pockets, pack and vehicle so when i said i was going to use the firepit to heat up breakfast on Saturday morning she told me "fine, but u can't use matches to start the fire".
deal.
she watched me on the balcony only wearing my shirt... so hot... flashing me every time i looked up.
i brought up the hot food, she'd made coffee.
she was so hot from watching me around the firepit that she needed an "appetizer" so after she quivered and grunted a bit we ate our breakfast.
showers.
drive to the local winery for wine tasting and appetizers. then to the local town to see a parade and shop a bit. then found a nice restaurant for dinner.
then back to the tree-house for dessert. ;-)
then waking up early Sunday so i could wake her up "properly".
then after a few more quivers and grunts from her we packed up and started driving home.
no... no showers.
she teased me all the way back home.
when we arrived home a few more quivers and grunts from her and a roar from me... then we showered.
she took a nap and i went to pick up the kids. we TRY to do that once a month.
Lol trying to answer this question I’ve realized I haven’t been on a truly “fun” date honestly. Even the ones with activities, I found them too much. Does it sound basic to say it was with a guy in his apartment where we just hung out, talked, and then had the best sex I’ve ever had? Because that was really fun for me and I really liked him so I think that’s why it was the most fun. So I’d say what I’ve learned is that it doesn’t matter what I’m doing on a date it’s about who I’m with that determines whether I have the most fun. I also discovered how fun sex could be (usually I found it boring before him).
I once watched a movie with a guy and than took a walk in the park and had a meal from McDonald’s. It was a nice date. I had other guys spend more money on me but I did not like them so I consider those to be unsuccessful.
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“Impressions in the Park” (impressionist painting exposition) during the 1986 summer olympics in Los Angeles. At the time i thought it was stupid and made fun of the art. My girlfriend loved Impressionist paintings. To this day, i have a passion for those kind of paintings. She taught me a lot and they are beautiful.
I have had a lot of fun dates. I went on an overnight canoe trip on the Arkansas River. We did not see another human the whole time.
Call me boring but I always liked taking girls out to a movie, then dinner, then a walk in the park. Too cliche?
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