Why do 99% of attractive young guys dont wanna date?

[Somegirl408]

i find it weird a bit, like now i know why there are no attractive men on dating apps is because they dont wanna date lol, im 19 so im talking about my age range. like its just crazy because i dont wanna wait until im 30 before i find someone

[ThrowAwayx404]

It’s not weird at all. It’s only weird to you because you have the privilege of never having to take the time to think about what dating and relationships are like from the male perspective. Not to mention that feminists have done irreparable damage to the relationship between the sexes.

A quick look at the kind of things women say about men and relationships on social media should tell you exactly why so many men are not dating. And it’s not just what they’re saying, it’s what they’re doing. Lying, cheating on men, only being with guys for their money, having kids just to divorce him, deny him access to his own kids while women use the power of the government to steal from him. Committing paternity fraud. Making false rape allegations.

It’s weird because you’ve never taken the time to analyze the many ways that women’s behavior is trash. When we can’t even talk about how women are toxic because that’s a big no-no in today’s world, then of course men are not gonna wanna dare seriously.

It is women themselves who have made dating them an incredibly unpleasant experience. And since women refuse to hold each other accountable, we rather just not date. Besides, men know we don’t have to date you to fuck you (not you personally just women in general).

Ever heard the expression, “why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free”? It’s just like that, except that on top of that, the cow is also a loud, ungrateful narcissist. 😂

You’re still young though, but just know it’s not mens fault. We are just adapting to what trash women have become in 2021. If you want someone to blame, blame feminists and the 30-40 year old women who bought into the feminist lies. 😂

[little_bird1]

Haha it's even worse in 30! The age don't matter. They don't want to date because they want to have "freeride" sex with multiple women as long as they can get it up. Relationship doesn't benefit them because they have many options. If they are also financially stable and have a job/hobby they are passionate about, then why would they want to settle? They simply don't need a woman for anything, and they are very picky with how they spend their precious time, there's no room for loneliness in their world. Welcome to modern age, where nobody needs anybody.

I have a perfect example of such a man. My friend, he is 35 years old, smoking hot. He has a great job, lots of money, and interesting hobby (photography). He travels often around the world taking photos, he cooks amazingly good food too, he is so street smart and can do anything. He is one of the best and kindest person I know, but he simply doesn't want/need to settle down. He is always doing something, the busiest person I know seriously. And it seems like he really, really enjoys it. The only thing he really needs is sex, which he gets from random girls who he treats with alfa charm and can get easily ANY to sleep with him right on the spot. He is never, ever lonely. He just never gets that kind of feeling because everybody loves him and is there for him, even though he prefers being Independed. In his case, it's not that he is afraid or broken or whatever, he simply likes it this way and I honestly doubt he will ever change. And it's not that he is incapable of love, love is just a different concept to him; he loves his family and his friends, and he even loves multiple girls he hooks up with. Just not romantically. I don't judge him, I envy him. He found his happiness. And I'm pretty sure he'll still be smoking hot when he's 60, lol.
I think the only scenario in which he would want to settle down is if he ever wishes to have kids.

[ThrowAwayx404]

How how many guys like him exist? How many guys experience dating women the way he does? It’s a ridiculously tiny number.

If he really is what you’re describing, he’s an exceptional person and exceptional people get exceptional opportunity. The key difference is that it’s much harder for a man to be exceptional than it is for a women in terms of what you’ve described.

Ask a woman what makes for an exceptional man, one worthy of of living the live he has with supposedly (I highly doubt it) countless options and access to women for sex, and they’ll describe you friend.

Ask men what makes a woman exceptional enough to get the same amount of attention and validation, and the criteria is much lower. Mens criteria for women is much lower.

I think part of the problem is that women are starting to realize men actually do care about your personality, at least more so than women have been less to believe and it’s left many women who have been focusing only on their looks in a state of lacking personality.

I’ll put it like this: I’m short, I’m not rich, and I’m not attractive. I do not have the luxury to live the way your friend lives, so in the eyes of women, I don’t get to require anything of women. But if you ask me, I’d STILL be willing to date and get to know a woman if her personality is pleasant. Women really don’t understand how flexible most men are with these things, and the reason for it is because they’re so focused on what the top guys (like your friend) want in a woman, that you fail to understand regular guys don’t get to ask that from women. We have to take what we can get, and it creates and very unbalanced dynamic.

[GaGirls]

Forget what everyone else said. I'm telling you that it's because of you and this is the only real comment you're going to find.

[SirRexington]

Why would they? They are attractive and are part of the 20% of men who can get girls whenever the want. They don't settle when they have so many options. They are the guys girls go after and so they indulge what's being offered to them. Don't blame them. Blame women.

I'm not saying these Chad's and Gaston's and Tyrone's should indulge but it's just their mating strategy. They have opportunity galore so they take it. And womn gladly jump at the ability to her Chad and Gaston's seed planted in them.

[Avicenna]

Well, there is always the possibility that your standards for attractiveness are especially high, but the truth is that attractive guys that age don't need to be on dating apps (actually neither do young women). They have lots of other options for meeting women and can get lots of women's numbers just by approaching them, being friendly and starting a convo.

[Anonymous]

Because women only wanna date men for there money and not for who they are.

And most younger men don't have capital.

Or most men are being primarily or solely raised by there mother so they lack that masculine energy.

a lot of men are opting out of dating completely. Or at least in the western world.

As well as modern women giving sex away for free with dating apps and hook up culture why would a young guy commit

[Grond21]

Actually you're incorrect. There are more men on dating apps than women. However women's standards are unreasonably high. Most women rate 85% to 95% of men as unattractive. So when you say most of the young guys don't want to date, in actuality you're just unconsciously dismissing the good men who are out there, but don't look flashy.

[genericname85]

because for men, "dating" doesn't have any particular benefits. dating benefits women. men just wanna fuck. dating comes with time and ressource commitment. if you wanna know why people do or do not want something, put yourself in their position. consider what they want and what resources they have to get what they want. then it becomes immediately obvious why they don't wanna date.

[TheSpaceGnome]

Attractiveness is subjective, but the average person finds 90% of the population physically unapealing, with each person having their own opinions of who doesn't and does make the cut.

Waiting till you are 30 wouldn't help, it just shrinks the pool of single people.

Most people in general do not use dating apps despite them being useful.

[dustybiker]

Most attractive young men don’t want to be tied down. Too many options easily available to them, no need for apps.

As they age they expect woman they end up with to be uncontaminated, committed, free and waiting. Age long double standard. ; )

[fred_durst]

hm , they are probably too busy play video games
when they get horny ,, they will just wank to porn , after that , they are back to playin video games again

[Snsns]

Yepp

[Adam1978]

It's probably because you only find 1% of guys attractive and your not good enough for those guys who can be very picky. If you lower your bar you will find guys are willing to date.

[postaldudePL123]

That's not true 1% may not want to but 99% do want to date.

Handsome men are humans too, just like average men.

But to date them you should also qualify. If they find you attractive they will date you. Given that you're friendly and approachable.

[TwistedSukuna]

Can't really speak for other guys in our age range, but personally I'm open to a relationship, but am more focused on getting through college right now

[jasco]

Most attractive men don't need to go on apps to find a girl. They just have to walk around for a bit and talk to people.

[Pyrofox]

Exactly on point. XD

[dolemite89]

i’d think there’s less young guys on dating apps cuz it’s much easier in college to meet a lot of girls 🤷‍♂️

[zagor]

Attractive young guys who are 19 generally don't NEED to go online to meet girls. If you are in college you meet girls all the time.

[Somegirl408]

yeah but not everyone goes to college, some people leave school and go straight for a job

[zagor]

There are still (or were, before covid) places where people that age hang out. A lot harder at 30 to meet women without going online.

[slackbabbath]

Better do some waiting lol, welcome to the current dating scene. Enjoy your time!

[Manchild2018]

You are 19 and it rarely works that way. Most people don't stay with the person from when they were in their teens.

[Fromdusktilldawn]

Because dating apps are trash and good looking confident men aren't desperate enough to use dating apps

[anylolone]

Why should they want to date you, what do you have to offer?
Why do you think it's going to get easier as you get older? It's not going to get easier.

[Nightroads]

Maybe not now. When 8 was 19-20 all of my friends wanted a relationship.

[Hangry06]

Because 20s is till young for a guy. If they are attractive, they have options to explore aka sex

[Yourfriend2021]

That's because younger guys want to hook up and have fun and no relationship drama, mind games, cheating and more with younger women.

[Anonymous]

From my observations a lot of really good looking guys your age are busy having sex with as many different women as they can.

[In_Trance]

They don't want the bullshit that goes along with it

[Anonymous]

They don't date because 99% of women want to date them. It's just the mirror of most guys on dating apps being unable to get a date with girls because most guys are interested in dating those women.

[ChiPaPa]

If they're attractive, they don't need online dating, especially if they're in college.

[noohair]

As long as guys can get sex without commitment, why would a young guy date unless he was in love?

[ThrowAwayx404]

And even then it’s not worth it most of the time.

[Nazgol]

They're too busy being players/womanizer because their ego is up to the roof !🤣🤦‍♀️🙄

[Bklynbadboy12]

Cause in today's hookup culture all that want to do is fuck you and move on to the next chick

[Anonymous]

metoo, false accusations, constant rejection and mockery, weaponization of laws against men, etc. Many good reasons.

[Anonymous]

Because you’ve not looked in the mirror properly to understand your worth

[Anonymous]

They have options and know it; so they play the field instead.

[Coulis]

Where did you get this statistic I wonder?

[Phoenix98]

I dunno if I’m in the 90% but I wanna date.

[Guardian45]

Cuz your choosing the wrong guys.

[Jouth]

cause they wanna fuck

[Andres77]

Scared?

[Jmmmfi4]

I somewhat agree