What i think:
1. Because if that guy have a great personality then his looks doesn't matter much, a great partner doesn't need to look like Leonardo Dicaprio... When we get older our looks will fade anyway and in the end personality will win.
2. Emotional security. I mean if you date a less handsome person. There is less chance that person cheats on you because he/ she doesn't have that many which throws themselves at her/him then a gorgeous person does. For many women faithfulness is extremely important so for some it is better to choose a less good looking person who can still be a great partner..
3. Money security. For some women they want to feel secure, have enough money to live and they might have a big dept. Therefore they want a man enough money, if you travel to Thailand/ philippines/ Africa etc. to find a girl, then a lot of them there are desperate for money to take care of themselves and their family. They are poor, they need money so they could pretty much date anyone.
And then of course have some women who just want to sleep around, party and have fun. So they have no problem dating ugly guys if they have money enough. They are just bitches and narcissist.
This is my opinion. I am a woman and have both boobs and vagina so i know the female gender better then the males here claim they know lol
I could care less about looks if only i had chemistry with that person and he was faithful. For me it is very important to not be betrayed and i am sure other girls somewhere feel the same way..
Very few of us are money hungry bitches by the way. But we women are emotional creature, we need chemistry and have to feel comfortable with that person.
People can fall in love with someones charm and not looks, i wish more people believed this. I mean we all turn ugly in the end so why is it so wrong to care about personality? lol
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I don't see this all that often, honestly. "Hot" vs "average" are kind of subjective.
Most people have a few select physical and personality traits that really attract them, so a partner with those traits is hotter to them than someone who may be more objectively attractive (through measurable things like symmetry, body measurements, etc).
For instance, a guy who is really excited by busty redheads may accept a girl with these specific turnons even if she's chubbier than he would pick from a catalog. A girl who is crazy about beautiful eyes may be more attracted guy with odd teeth but great lashes. Etc.
No matter how hot of a girl you are, after you've dated a bunch of jerks you know exactly what you are looking for in a guy. Once you get tired of douche bags appearance is no longer your main concern and you want someone who is just a great guy. Once we realize looks aren't everything we start to look for the guy that makes us happy, laugh, feel pretty, and has an admirals personality. If your that type of guy for whoever your dating right now then no wonder. The fact that you think that she's just soooooo hot says so much. Also stop thinking of yourself as average. Good Luck!
Because hot girls don't see the appeal of dating a guy just for his being more attractive than the average bloke. They know first hand that there are a lot of things other than appearance that are required to make a relationship work. Which is often times lost on guys who are also hot. Hence they'll date more of the average-joe type. Guys who don't feel entitled to anything by simply having been born into winning the genetic lottery.
It's fine and all that women will prefer a guy for his intrinsic qualities. what is annoying though is when she assumes a guy is shallow just because he's good looking or that some guy must have worked really hard on his personality to compensate for his lack of good looks.
you see this on tinder: all the good looking guys are rejected but the average joes are given a chance.
"oh he doesn't have looks... he MUST be good relationship material"
some women's dating logic beggers belief
These 'average looking' guys have something else to compensate for their lack of looks. Usually it's money, and occasionally it's their personality.
Also, looks are subjective anyway, so what you consider 'average', may be 'good looking' for those girls.
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Because most girls don't judge guys by appearances, which I know from experience that guys generally find surprising. Eg. A few months ago I was going out with a guy that wasn't exactly the best looking but he had an amazing personality. Another guy I'm good friends with kept on asking why I would want to go out with someone who I didn't like for looks. I'm honestly not very good looking at all but nonetheless most girls go out with guys whose personalities they like.
Personality over looks. I don't think of myself as really hot or anything but while I was dating my ex people kept asking me why I was dating him and said I could do better, but the thing was, I didn't want to do better as I liked him for who he was, not his looks... He was average looking by the way :)
Because hot people like to look like the hot one in a relationship lol
Or... Hot people rarely approach other hot people because they're too nice to approach
Or... Average looking people have more guts lol
Or... Hot girls rarely get approach because people will assume they are already in a relationship so then they take anything that comes to themWell for me I don't really care Bout looks, it's more about personality honestly. Like i find the most attractive thing is a sense of humor. If a guy can make me laugh, he's already in hahah. Iv dated a lot of average, below average guys, I just felt like I didn't deserve higher standards, but I'm tryn to higher mine but if I meet a guy who isn't the best looking, treats me great, is so sweet and funny and just has a stellar personality them fuck looks, that's perfect!
There are many reasons...
Sometimes its money
Sometimes its fame
Sometimes he's just different and she likes how unique the guy is.
Sometimes they both just click
Sometimes that average looking guy might look like an attractive guy in her eyes.
or
He could just have a big dick that she needs in her life.
We'll never knowI see ita lot and I understood why. Hot girls get too much attention and guys act stupid whith them. When a simple nice/friendly guy approach them looking at them as just another girl, they just love it.
Better to be a nice person than a good looking guy.Its either
1. She gets treated like a queen and loves the way she get treated
2. She just doesn't want risking losing a good looking guy
3. She just uses him to get what she wants from #1
Not by any meand trying to say this is why but thats my opinion on it:)Because girls don't stay and love for a guy's looks alone, it helps in the start only. Think about this, girls like to read. They want something that interests them not much of the cover, but the content. Bring more content in your life... things girls will be interested, and like books... keep it interesting to the end. I hate to say this but... think like a girl. Use it. And make you her favorite book for her lifetime.
i disagree everyone has a different taste. the guys that you find that are average looking might be good looking for those females. one can find a person attractive and the other one doesn't. it really depends on the person
Same reason why some hot guys date average looking girls.
She must think your pretty attractive to her and have an awesome personality. Normally that's the reason to be with them.it's because girls don't value looks as much in the opposite compared to the way guys do
Girls will go for outgoing, confident guys. So if there's a choice between really good looking and really outgoing/confident, I'll choose the latter.
Caus not all females r shallow? Some dont care as much what you look like its more that they are attracted to who you are
These guys might have a lot of money, power, or status.
It's easier to get commitment from less attractive guys than really attractive guys.
Maybe we are looking more for personality than looks
Maybe they are just with them for Debit card n Dick. Nomsayin?
Jk, that's bad to say. But maybe someone will Lol from it.Maybe some of them actually find the person they're with to be attractive due to their personality.
well it's because they approach you // r enjoyable and ask you out on a date
Everyone has their own taste.
What's hot to you could be average to someone else.
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