Why won't men date ugly women but women date ugly men?

[Anonymous]

[Rob596]

I dated a girl in the past who I wasn’t attracted too. It sucked in bed, but I liked her because of her personality. I used to judge my friend like that in high school, but looking back, I realized I was a d bag. Somethings are more important than just looks.

[Asker]

Okay good that you don't go for looks

[Kaneki05]

Hmm I don't know how to judge that one, since men are ugly anyway and women tend to be more attractive on average.
So like a average woman would be more attractive than a average man. So a woman standing next to an average man will nearly always look better than the man. Unless if the woman is really ugly.

[Asker]

Mby I don't know

[HighValue]

Men date ugly women all the time. Many women that think they are attractive actually aren't. They just get fed a bunch of lies by guys looking for easy hook ups.

[Asker]

Yup, men like that suck

[HighValue]

I agree, but many women fall for it. The easiest way to tell is if someone constantly compliments them, they can be pretty sure they are one of the users that are just telling them what they want to hear to get sex.

[Avicenna]

They do date ugly women too- haven't you seen ugly women walking around with guys?

[Asker]

Yes but like only one time but I always see ugly men with super model gfs

[DamnSam]

Ugly is always an opinion of view...

Lot of my Beauty ideals are viewed as ugly by most people...

[Asker]

Some people are too ugly to be loved

[DamnSam]

Nah, especially when you get older, look isn't everything...

[Asker]

For men it is

[Anonymous]

I don’t know. I thought it was backwards, like men being shamed for not liking women they think are ugly, but women being accepted for thinking men they perceive to be ugly are creeps for approaching them, giving them gifts, or asking them out.

[Asker]

I don't know I don't date attractive men but it's different for everyone

[livingnightmare]

actually iv seen a few dudes with ugly girlfriend lol i dont know what theyre thinking maybe because the good looking ones are disloyal I don't know

[Asker]

okay

[InferiorElegy]

Hahahaha the opposite is what happens, if girls dated ugly guys Id have a girlfriend but girls definitely don't date ugly guys.

[Asker]

First of all I doubt that you're "ugly", second of all, have you ever thought that it might be your personality that is why you don't have a girlfriend? Girl's date ugly guys with good personalities (talking from my own experience and others)

[InferiorElegy]

Nope I've had female friends tell me, they would date me if I was better looking. People also tell me I have a great personality and how kind I am. Employers always tell me during reviews how confident I seem and that people like working with me and I get along with everyone.

I wish it was a personality thing but I've had way too many rejections where my looks were pointed out as a reason. I've had rejections that were hand gestures to my face followed by ewww no. Also I've been called ugly my entire life so I know I'm ugly.

[Asker]

Maybe you're not around good people. Only people who care about money, looks and not the soul. I'm sorry you've been treated that way.

[msc545]

Women care about money and they will date ugly guys who have money. Men care about sex and appearance.

[Asker]

Yeah that's why I'd rather stay single cause most men are assholes

[msc545]

Sure. Most women are cunts.

[Asker]

Agree

[Anonymous]

Looks are subjective
What's ugly to one, might be good-looking to someone else

[Asker]

Yeah:)

[Anonymous]

The only ugly men women will date are rich. Women are every bit as shallow as men, just with different priorities. There's your answer.

[Asker]

Not for me, I date ugly men because I somehow expect they will treat me better, be emotionally available and understanding, won't cheat cause women don't find them attractive and so on. Has nothing to do with money, at least for me and the women I know.

[Opinion Owner]

Good for you. I know there are exceptions to the rule. But the rule stands nonetheless.

[noohair]

I do not believe that on a whole, that is true. That is your perception.

[Asker]

Okay

[Anonymous]

If we don't find you attractive then we won't get erect or be able to orgasm, So Sex would be pointless to us and so a Relationship would be pointless aswell.

[Asker]

Because sex and looks is like the only thing men care about expect for the superior ones

[Opinion Owner]

No, Because Confidence and Status is the only thing Women care about.

[Yourfriend2021]

I've seen both, it's not just looks, maybe it's their personality.

[Anonymous]

Its the other way around. Is this low key saying your ugly?

[Asker]

Nope not really, but yes I am an ugly woman.

[Hangry06]

Cause women are valued by beauty more

[Asker]

I agree.

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

Beauty is on the eye of the beholder.

[Asker]

I don't know some people are too ugly to be loved by anyone

[This_Is_My_Opinion8]

You would be surprised.

[disgustingweebtrash]

what reality do u live in

[Asker]

Realistic

[broccolislaw1985]

Money

[Asker]

no I've seen averge or beautiful women with ugly poor dudes

[broccolislaw1985]

Do you personally know they're poor, or just assume so by the way they're dressed or what car they drive? I know a few guys whose income is in the top 10% (>$200k annually) who drive cars and dress very unassuming.

[kareka]

So who date ugly women? 🌚🌚😂😂

[Asker]

No one

[kareka]

Not right..
But ugly women must do some tips to get dated lol

[Wise4myage]

Personal preference?

[Asker]

Hm.. maybe

[Iron_Man]

I guess they do

[Asker]

I don't know I've never seen a man date an ugly woman

[Iron_Man]

You might be right

[whosnumber1]

I banged an ugly fat chick once does that count?

[Asker]

Nope

[whosnumber1]

and would it make a difference that I went back for seconds? haha!