What are the cons of being attractive? (Page 2)
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Other people find your beauty to be intimidating, so they tear you down for your good looks.. & we interpret that for not being good enough.. so we focus on our flaws and what we lack, rather than embrace and work with what we have… high school for a majority of the people I know was very stressful.
Too much attention from people, both strange and familiar, who perhaps should be avoided. Creepy stares, and others who want to be your followers or pets. Sycophantic behaviour and others who gossip. Envy and bitchiness from other females who are ugly and/or fat.
More cat calling, more abuse, more nasty men trying to approach you, men trying to hand you drinks (just no I don't trust you), men thinking they are entitled to a smile/ nice response (just fuck right off)
Hahahahah so poor.
There's no cons if your a girl.,. Girls are like flowers... You sit there looking pretty to attract bees to pollinate you, and the more pretty you look... The more bees you're going to find flying towards you
But if you a guy and good looking.. it's the opposite... Girls will be too shy to go to a hot man so they avoid him... Also attactive men develope some kind of complex.. where they think girls should jus come to him if he's attractive... They think they don't have to try so they never bothered to talk to girls.. and yet no girls come to him.. then he starts to wonder why no girls come to him if he's handsome.. then he starts to think he's ugly and unwanted and it goes down in to a negative spiral of pitty and depression until eventually we get the next incel killer Elliot rodgers
Like. Handsome guys jus expect girls to take him
By the way I can't believe you're complaining about getting too much attention, I would love to be you.. some of us get no attention at all and trust me you don't wanna be me.. imagine feeling ugly and unlovable and everyone always friendzoning you... If you want less attention jus make yourself look Less hot
Your taking being hot for granted. I'd actually kill to be like you
Hey, well… on the flip. My good friends were all male at high school age. When the guy I liked would walk by, at the last min, my friends would quickly ruffle my hair and tweak my clothes. Then act as if nothing happened. Total asses. 😁 I love those guys.
i love friend like that :)
@collie22 Yes. Good guys. They always had my back. 😎
Enjoy it really.. god blessed you with your beauty so why not get advantage of it in a good way !
A con aide of being attractive is that people don’t tell you how attractive you are it’s like they think they know you are and you don’t need to tell you. Talking form experience lol
Pick a guy and just ask him. If he turns you down, go to the next. If you are that attractive that nobody will approach you, then just accept it, graciously if that helps, and you approach them.
It's better if you pick anyways, because when they pick you, then it's always a random outcome. Always better to know someone before dating them if you are looking for long-term. Good luck
You're confused and not "attractive" in the least - else you would not be asking what you are.
What you're probably not understanding is "the game" and how it's being played. You're probably giving all sort of bipolar signals and have the girls and the boys confused as to what you're playing at.
Sometimes being attractive can be a con. You can get unwanted attention or you could get catcalled. Some random stranger hit me up when I was walking on the sidewalk one time but I wasn't interested in talking to him. I understand how it can be annoying
But the pros outweigh the cons in my opinion. Feel blessed for your good looks
First thing I understand the whole guys won’t approach hot chicks thing but that’s easily fixed you approach them forget the you’re worried about breaking hearts because that just makes you sound conceited and that kind of ugly will erase a lot of being beautiful cause true lasting beauty comes from what’s inside real talk
There is no con to being attractive. I think in your case, you're pretty full of yourself and it's okay to have some arrogance about yourself, but you're not being approached for a reason. It may be your looks or you may be someone's type yet. Attractive people are approached A lot every day, so don't assume that people aren't approaching you is a sign that you're very attractive. You might not be as good looking as you think.
Maybe you should look for boyfriend from other schools. If things go south, there is still more air to breathe if the relationship doesn't work out.
by the way, Trust me, being atractive may seem tuff from too much unwanted attention, but its better than the life of those who alwsys get rejected and never aprouched. There are downsides to popularity, but there is no upside in being always rejected.
For girls (I don't know if they are any cons of being a attractive man):
1. Some people think you're stupid just because you're attractive (as they think a human can't be both attractive and smart)
2. Other girls are envious of you
3. Men give you unwanted attention (sexualised comments about your body).
Sometimes I don’t go on camera with one of my female friends who is prone to envy because I fear she will get sad and her whole facial expression change lol
i go on camera when I’m looking frumpy
fuck that I’m not doing it anymore step up your own value or get the fuck out my way
Well you just have to be how you want to be. If people receive the false perception of you then that is on them. If you are not flirting and intentionally trying to deceive and play with emotions then you will never be in the wrong no matter what others say. The right one always comes eventually sometimes right when your not trying or looking or you can be alone and still find peace with yourself.
I'm a good looking guy.
Biggest con I get is girls don't trust that I'm single when we meet or they lack self confidence that I will stay with them.
I've lost a lot of relationships and time over insecurity
Sounds like you got issues, get overselve and talk to guy. If your so awesome your make someone's day by saying hi. Not fixing on yourself.
I'm too sexy for my shirt. So sexy it hurts!
People flirting with you even when you don't want to flirt back or you aren't a flirty person so you feel bad