What are the cons of being attractive? (Page 2)

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I’d say I’m well attractive from how much attention I get from school. It’s nice that people find me pretty but I really don’t know how I feel about the constant staring and the weird shit people did whenever they noticed me. This guy shrugged off his girlfriend after noticing I glanced (because I thought they were a cute couple) at them. I’ve always wanted a boyfriend, but no guy approached me even though I can SINCERELY tell a few of them have crushes on me. I don’t feel like asking them out either because I feel like I’m breaking a lot of hearts by doing so. I can’t tell this to my friends because they’ll get jealous of me and I don’t want them to feel lesser either. I legit sound so conceited but its the honest truth that I’ve been enduring this school year.

Julious0202 · Answer

you are the first person who is beautiful and still asks the question anonymously lol

Ambergelica · Answer

If you got a lot of attention from others at your school, then why are you on this site?

Jouth · Answer

Maybe you're just odd looking in a way that stands out. That's why people are staring at you. Odd looking, not pretty. There you go, fixed your problem.

Wester1967 · Answer

Sexually transmitted diseases. You can ask my ex wife about that one.

Anonymous · Answer

Can't be incognito, part of "someone random" from the crowd and then also the haters or jealous ones trying to undermine you

globetrotter22 · Answer

Well you will never know the power you have with this until it’s gone.

Babygirl_S · Answer

People expect you to have a perfect behaviour and many people get jealous.

Anonymous · Answer

No pity for you. None whatsoever. There are way more cons for having disfigurements in this shallow world we live in.

TallAnon · Answer

People assume a lot of positives, but they are mostly not true. For example, I was assumed to be in a relationship for quite a while.

This_Is_My_Opinion8 · Answer

I don't think you should worry about the broken hearts. Make a move on a guy you like. Why wait for what you want to come when you can have it soon?

Anonymous · Answer

One of beauty disadvantages is people assume someone attractive is arrogant and vain, my partners have always try to oppose this stereotype. You sunshine sound very vain, maybe you overestimate yourself.

Chthou95 · Answer

Being attractive must be very frustrating and difficult 🙄

Tj87479 · Answer

I think that if your attractive that’s all people see. Most people don’t see your inner beauty.

Wise4myage · Answer

Some guys will be too nervous to approach you or make excuses not to approach you.

Anonymous · Answer

I'm a bit confused as to what you mean when you say this: "I don’t feel like asking them out either because I feel like I’m breaking a lot of hearts by doing so."

ChiPaPa · Answer

As an ugly man, I don't see it. Honestly, I'd love to be wanted.

Grubhub · Answer

People might be intimidated by you so they won’t approach you or it’ll be harder to communicate with them

tomtom05131 · Answer

You may be considered shallow, stuck up and unintelligent. It’s all up to you how you portray yourself and who you hang out with.

Chaddahoochie · Answer

Chances are they find you intimidating because you are pretty. Also as a guy we just assume all attractive girls are in relationships lol

doctorwow · Answer

There aren't enough mirrors in the world so I can fix my hair

msc545 · Answer

Your life sounds very tough. Maybe you should make yourself less attractive?

SmokinAces2000 · Answer

Fake people and someone always hating on you for no reason

Turtleneck22 · Answer

Lmao from school. A bunch of horny boys. So you are still young. Things change kid and so do people. Relax. The party ends

Ksiw3fiss · Answer

Its like a diamond because it attracts all the people... And mant people are thristy assholes youd want nothing to do with.

Snakeyes7 · Answer

You'd probably get a lot of admirers and that could get annoying.

Asianguy123 · Answer

Getting an attention without lifting a finger. You can use that attention for money or fame or sugar daddy

jennifer_Hanmabloom · Answer

A lot of the women you date will be insecure  And a lot of guys will think your gay

Joker_ · Answer

you seem really boring

Toldol2 · Answer

People don’t trust you

Anonymous · Answer

You become narcissist and also get insecure when your looks starts to fade.

Anonymous · Answer

your market place is other hot women and they are hard to score

lilyanony1 · Answer

No one approaches me!

honeylover21 · Answer

You get hit on a lot or get compliments

888theGreat · Answer

women fainting and hitting their heads

Vigors · Answer

Didn't read plus you're ugly plus you're a woman

siseñor · Answer

become ugly

Anonymous · Answer

You get harassed lol.

Iron_Man · Answer

Everything‘s a big class there is no cons

WowwGirl · Answer

I like the gifts and opportunities

Anonymous · Answer

Imagine being attractive lol

Anonymous · Answer

There is Cons you may end up cheating on me

Anonymous · Answer

Creeps, stalkers, murderers and incels.

Nightowl26 · Answer

I never have to worry about that because I'm ugly

JesseJayNeak · Answer

Looks like an ego problem to me

Anonymous · Answer

Obviously different for women than for men

pink_and_inlove · Answer

I don’t know

Dinosaursandanime65 · Answer

Deciever

noohair · Answer

I would not know.

IronsKev · Answer

I wouldn't know 😂

Relux47 · Answer

You tell me

CT_CD · Answer

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